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To hate being "policed" by family

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OneNavyMerc · 23/10/2026 09:22

AIBU to dislike online policing by family members?
I was an early adopter of Faceache in 2007, but left a couple of years later as it did nothing for me and family and friends have my phone, mobile and email.
I rejoined just before Covid because there was supposed to be a school reunion, which obviously did not happen.
I am still registered, but go there rarely, mostly to check on birthdays.
However, every time I have been on Faceache - twice in the last 6 months - a family member screenshots my message and tells me it was inappropriate.
Maybe it was, but maybe the person I sent the message to could tell me themself?

OP posts:
Credittocress · 23/10/2026 12:02

Happy birthday to you and your enormous cock…inappropriate and they may have a point

Happy birthday, look forward to seeing you soon….is ok and your family member is an enormous cock

LoveWine123 · 23/10/2026 12:50

OP tell us what you really posted! Attach the screenshot…

LampLightz · 23/10/2026 12:54

Credittocress · 23/10/2026 12:02

Happy birthday to you and your enormous cock…inappropriate and they may have a point

Happy birthday, look forward to seeing you soon….is ok and your family member is an enormous cock

Happy birthday to you and your enormous cock…inappropriate and they may have a point

Yeah, especially if it was her nan's birthday and no-one knew she was trans 😁

RelicMaster · 23/10/2026 13:48

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 23/10/2026 11:38

Also Thick Tok and You Pube.

😂

EmmaB1309 · 23/10/2026 13:49

Something tells me there is more to this……

DeeNiall · 23/10/2026 15:42

Zov · 23/10/2026 11:31

People are able to change their privacy settings. Just make it so that no-one can see anything unless they are on your 'friends' list.

Many don't and they post a lot of info without thinking.
Add a LinkedIn profile, use ChatGPT etc and you're making yourself vulnerable.

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