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Would I have any chance of getting PIP while pregnant?

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99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 08:44

Hi everyone, I’m just wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation or has any advice. I’ve heard that it can be difficult to be awarded PIP while pregnant because some people see pregnancy related difficulties as temporary, but I’m struggling quite badly with anxiety and depression and have been referred to the prenatal mental health team.
On top of that, I’m suffering from severe pelvic pain, to the point where I have to lie down after sitting for around 10 minutes.

Mentally, I feel completely exhausted and overwhelmed, and even the simplest everyday tasks take me forever to get done. My husband does most of the cooking before he goes to work because I struggle to manage everything myself. I’m also worried about how PIP would view my situation, as I’ll soon have a newborn as well as a toddler to look after. Would they hold that against me and assume I’m coping because I have children to care for, even though I’m genuinely struggling both physically and mentally? I’m not expecting anything I’m not entitled to, but I was wondering whether I might have a chance of being awarded the standard rate of PIP?

I heard also on FB forums that it’s extremely difficult to get PIP, has anyone got it after going birth?

Thanks

OP posts:
AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:20

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:19

I can’t claim benefits anyway our savings are too high for that. This is just extra support.

Use your savings. Why should everyone else fund you with your £££ in the bank.

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:21

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 20/10/2026 11:10

The agenda would be to leave the great British public with the view that most PIP claims are spurious and undeserving, thereby making drastic cuts socially and politically acceptable.

But that would only make sense if this thread was a gushing fulsome vomit inducing litany of how easy it was. As it emerges, all it has done is make some people aware of how difficult it is - which isn't what some posters are being paid for ?

All very odd.

Anyway, as I said previously, if poster think a thread is less than real, they need to use the "report" button. And I should know 😎

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:21

Aliaway · 20/10/2026 11:15

Op could you clarify your employment status before the birth of your first child and whether you are still on maternity leave, as you mention you got pregnant shortly after. If you have been doing some supply teaching during this pregnancy were you self employed previously? Were your plans to be a SAHP or return to work?

Yes I want to return to work full time but right time I need help with anxiety and depression. My goal is to go back to work absolutely in future, I mean basic standard rate for PIP is only 300 a month. I easily made half of that a day with six hours of work and really enjoyed my work.

OP posts:
SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:22

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:19

I can’t claim benefits anyway our savings are too high for that. This is just extra support.

For the benefit of other posters, PIP is not means tested.

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:23

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:22

For the benefit of other posters, PIP is not means tested.

I think that’s why it is so hard to get it.

OP posts:
Gall10 · 20/10/2026 11:25

GoodChocolate · 20/10/2026 08:59

You are taking the piss, surely?

Obviously….as are 90% of Mumsnet posts!

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:26

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:21

Yes I want to return to work full time but right time I need help with anxiety and depression. My goal is to go back to work absolutely in future, I mean basic standard rate for PIP is only 300 a month. I easily made half of that a day with six hours of work and really enjoyed my work.

Only 300 a month… of other people’s money.

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:28

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:23

I think that’s why it is so hard to get it.

I don't think you can take your case as proof that "PIP is difficult to get".

What your case shows is that PIP is intended to help with conditions that are chronic and cause extra costs.

Not chronic or cause extra costs.

And my advice to you is the same as to daisyponds. Why not complete a claim form, enter your evidence and see what happens. As long as you do not lie, the worst that can happen is they will decline you.

You could have made a damn good crack on the first few pages in the time you have typed here.

MyJollyFish · 20/10/2026 11:29

It’s not just money for extras. It’s supposed to support life with a long term disability or condition. With ny muscular dystrophy I pay for everything myself and it’s a lot of extra money!! Rails, toilet adaptations, sticks and rollators. It’s hard! It’s not for extra money.

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:29

Well it obviously isn’t difficult to get as we have the equivalent of the population of Scotland claiming it

Cupofteapleasemilkynottoomilkyonesugar · 20/10/2026 11:30

GoodChocolate · 20/10/2026 08:59

You are taking the piss, surely?

Beggars belief

I cut my finger, can i get PIP?

1coconut2coconut3coconut4 · 20/10/2026 11:31

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:17

Absolutely, I honestly didn’t think they would even give it to individuals who have savings over 50k but they do. My worry is that they can use the argument of well you can look after your toddler and soon newborn so clearly you can do it to yourself.

I have to force myself to put the needs of toddler above myself. His dad cooks his food and I just warm it up and change him and care for him until his dad finishes work. My problem is, I have little time for myself and tasks takes twice as long etc.

Kindly, if you CAN put your toddler above yourself and do everything then you are able to do it, even if with difficulty. I understand how it feels but your situation isn't what PIP is for. If you find your anxiety/depression continues on at severe levels though then perhaps it might be different. This is a hard, hard time of life - pregnant with a toddler us exhausting and if you have mental health challenges on top of that it can feel insurmountable. But it does get easier I promise. You will come out the other side soon!

MyJollyFish · 20/10/2026 11:31

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:29

Well it obviously isn’t difficult to get as we have the equivalent of the population of Scotland claiming it

It’s a funny one as lots are on it but most people I’ve spoken to with progressive conditions have found it impossible.

ThreadGuardDog · 20/10/2026 11:32

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:07

Oddly, though, the converse does not apply. So even if your condition means you can't work, it isn't taken as evidence on how your condition affects you.

Yep agree. I’ve actually had clients who have undergone the work capability assessment and been deemed as unable to work (LCWRA) and who have still gone on to fail the PIP assessment.

One case that stands out in my mind was when a PIP assessor contradicted something said on the claimants’ work capability assessment report, because they had misinterpreted a piece of medical evidence the claimant had submitted for both assessments.

It was enough to prevent an award and DWP wouldn’t overturn the decision at mandatory reconsideration even though they had the evidence right in front of them. We appealed and before the tribunal date had even been set, DWP reconsidered and awarded benefit. IMO the assessment system is loaded against the claimant from the start. The assumption seems to be that every claimant is a liar until they can prove otherwise.

LampLightz · 20/10/2026 11:32

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:17

Absolutely, I honestly didn’t think they would even give it to individuals who have savings over 50k but they do. My worry is that they can use the argument of well you can look after your toddler and soon newborn so clearly you can do it to yourself.

I have to force myself to put the needs of toddler above myself. His dad cooks his food and I just warm it up and change him and care for him until his dad finishes work. My problem is, I have little time for myself and tasks takes twice as long etc.

How do you manage to look after a toddler all day if you have to lie down after sitting for 10 minutes?

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:33

MyJollyFish · 20/10/2026 11:31

It’s a funny one as lots are on it but most people I’ve spoken to with progressive conditions have found it impossible.

It’s indirectly aimed at people with anxiety and ND, because the bar is that you CAN’T do simple things like get dressed. Many people with high level chronic illnesses that really struggle (arthritis, cystic fibrosis etc) can still do these things, hence not getting it. But anxiety can explain away not being able to do anything pretty much, so it’s easier to get for people claiming for that.

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:34

MyJollyFish · 20/10/2026 11:31

It’s a funny one as lots are on it but most people I’ve spoken to with progressive conditions have found it impossible.

Schrodinger's benefit ?

Also rather a blunt number, as there are various combinations of levels of PIP, and not everyone is awarded the full amount.

I can't say too much more, obviously. Facts aren't welcome on threads like this.

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:35

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:34

Schrodinger's benefit ?

Also rather a blunt number, as there are various combinations of levels of PIP, and not everyone is awarded the full amount.

I can't say too much more, obviously. Facts aren't welcome on threads like this.

5 million people are claiming PIP and DLA. It’s not that it’s ’easy to get’, it’s that it’s very open to abuse from people suffering MH conditions who ‘fluctuate’ and ‘seem completely fine outside the house’ but apparently need prompting to get dressed and showered.

cupfinalchaos · 20/10/2026 11:37

GoodChocolate · 20/10/2026 08:59

You are taking the piss, surely?

Pregnancy causes anxiety surely she deserves some recompense for that!🤪

SerendipityJane · 20/10/2026 11:39

One case that stands out in my mind was when a PIP assessor contradicted something said on the claimants’ work capability assessment report, because they had misinterpreted a piece of medical evidence the claimant had submitted for both assessments.

When I helped with a PIP claim, the assessor was horrified that I had the copy of the claim document. Which was made worse because I had a spare copy for her. She had to state that not only did assessors not have access to the actual claim document - they weren't allowed to see it during the assessment. They glowered at me during the assessment as I read off the document and they had to write it down verbatim. They also didn't like that I had separately sent a copy to the decision maker.

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:39

ThreadGuardDog · 20/10/2026 09:56

Agree. I was a disability outreach worker and to be honest l wouldn’t advise anyone to fill out the form without researching online, and preferably with professional support from CAB or similar support agencies. If there are waiting times to access this help the claimant can ask DWP for an extension on the time limit for returning the form. It’s only on MN that l’ve ever come across the opinion that PIP is easy to get. In my experience it’s the polar opposite - even with severe disability.

Can I still be successful even if I haven’t been actually diagnosed or have medication for it?

Thank you

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MyJollyFish · 20/10/2026 11:40

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:33

It’s indirectly aimed at people with anxiety and ND, because the bar is that you CAN’T do simple things like get dressed. Many people with high level chronic illnesses that really struggle (arthritis, cystic fibrosis etc) can still do these things, hence not getting it. But anxiety can explain away not being able to do anything pretty much, so it’s easier to get for people claiming for that.

Interesting, hard to dress with wasted muscles but was denied so I do wonder what people are saying on the application

x2boys · 20/10/2026 11:40

AgeingMillennial · 20/10/2026 11:33

It’s indirectly aimed at people with anxiety and ND, because the bar is that you CAN’T do simple things like get dressed. Many people with high level chronic illnesses that really struggle (arthritis, cystic fibrosis etc) can still do these things, hence not getting it. But anxiety can explain away not being able to do anything pretty much, so it’s easier to get for people claiming for that.

It really isnt 🙄

ThreadGuardDog · 20/10/2026 11:40

1coconut2coconut3coconut4 · 20/10/2026 11:31

Kindly, if you CAN put your toddler above yourself and do everything then you are able to do it, even if with difficulty. I understand how it feels but your situation isn't what PIP is for. If you find your anxiety/depression continues on at severe levels though then perhaps it might be different. This is a hard, hard time of life - pregnant with a toddler us exhausting and if you have mental health challenges on top of that it can feel insurmountable. But it does get easier I promise. You will come out the other side soon!

l do agree that OP’s circumstance isn’t appropriate to PIP, but with respect PIP absolutely does consider the degree of difficulty the claimant has in carrying out everyday tasks. There is a rule that if the claimant cannot carry out an activity safely, repeatedly, reliably, with regard to any pain, discomfort or exhaustion caused, and without a knock on effect on other activities, then they cannot do that activity to the standard assessed. There is also a built in safeguard to say that if a claimant cannot carry out an activity for 50% or more of the time, then they must be assessed as being unable to do it to the standard assessed.

LampLightz · 20/10/2026 11:41

99Samblaze · 20/10/2026 11:39

Can I still be successful even if I haven’t been actually diagnosed or have medication for it?

Thank you

PLEASE let the answer be no! 🤦‍♀️