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To be surprised friend never heard of Winnie the pooh?

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Constantrunner · 13/10/2026 19:35

She is an adult born and raised in this country. I mentioned the Winnie the pooh anniversary and was very surprised when she had no idea who he is. I am not sure how you can never have picked this information up.

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OonaStubbs · 13/10/2026 21:33

I remember Fungus the Bogeyman but I can understand someone not hearing of him, Winnie the Pooh is far more well known

Deadleaves77 · 13/10/2026 21:34

Usernamesalltakenblues · 13/10/2026 20:06

I have read winnie the pooh! I have the books! On principle I have always been against the Disneyfication of so many children's characters and stories so purposefully avoided the Winnie the Pooh Disney version.
The issue of Hound of the Baskervilles came up because she was recounting the story of it because she had watched one of the many film versions. She didnt know the title of the film and when I told her what it was called she had absolutely no knowledge of it being a Sherlock Holmes story. More especially surprising because as a Scot she was particularly proud of any thing connected to Scotland

I meant you as in generally someone might have not read winnie the pooh, not you personally, but everyone knows who Winnie the Pooh is regardless of reading the books/watching tv!

Your friend did know hound of the baskervilles, they just didnt know it was sherlock Holmes which isn't massively unreasonable if you're not into sherlock Holmes. I think a good proportion of people dont know the Sherlock Holmes stories, I really doubt anyone doesnt know Winnie the Pooh

Usernamesalltakenblues · 13/10/2026 21:39

I totally agree @Deadleaves77 that it's incredibly surprising that OP's friend hadn't heard of Winnie the Pooh.

11AndCounting · 13/10/2026 21:52

LaurieFairyCake · 13/10/2026 21:30

I’ve never heard of Fungus the Bogeyman! Is it a kids book ? (I’m making that assumption)

The Queen's first husband, iirc.

GobbolinoAndSootica · 13/10/2026 21:53

Not knowing Winne the Pooh is admittedly quite an achievement. But some people just manage to know what feels like it is the most known thing in the world to many.

I remember a thread on here, where there was a surprising number of posters who had never noticed that rear number plates in the UK are yellow. These were posters from the UK, who as an adult drove their own UK car every day and had seen uK cars pretty much daily their whole life, yet had never spotted these cars all had a white plate on the front and a yellow one on the back! Despite that this is a fact known by people from all over the globe!! Was nuts!!

Coka · 13/10/2026 21:54

I met someone who had never heard of Hitler before. Winnie the Pooh is very suprising too

PollyannaWhittier · 13/10/2026 21:58

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 13/10/2026 21:17

I worked with a man in his 30s, born and always lived in the UK, who didn't know what a nettle is.

I wonder if your friend is a bit like my mum. She's always pretended she was ignorant about the most ubiquitous popular culture things (she makes out she's above it all). She said she'd never heard of Ant and Dec, which obviously prompted us all to say that's impossible, they've been everywhere for decades etc etc. She then conceded she might have heard people talk about them, but thought it was one man called Anton Deck. Sure you did, mum.

My mum is exactly the same, it drives me mad ! She was doing one of those arrow word puzzles that have a photo of a person for one of the clues the other day and asked me who it was because she reckoned she didn't know. It was Robbie Williams. When I told her the answer, she claimed never to have heard of him. She used to religiously watch the 6 o'clock news until a few years ago - she has definitely heard of and seen Robbie Williams.

This would be my guess too OP - she is trying to appear too cultured and sophisticated to have heard of a children's character.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 13/10/2026 21:58

Had she heard of Pooh bear? You definitely need to show her a photo, can’t imagine anyone doesn’t know him.

EchoParkBrewery · 13/10/2026 21:59

Winnie the Pooh wallpaper, pj’s, socks, toys, stationery, mugs, watches, baby clothes, adult clothes, Christmas decorations and home wear, bags, purses, ornaments, films - cartoons, live animation, gifs, memes, hospital walls, buggies and baby equipment, curtains, onesies, slippers, tattoos…….and on and on.
This goes way beyond books, I challenge anyone to go into a big supermarket and not be able to find a product with Winnie on it.
To suggest (pp) your friend may just think it’s a generic nameless bear is ridiculous and I don’t think I could have let this go.

It’s like when an adult says ‘I can’t pronounce biscetti bolognaise’ just give over.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 13/10/2026 22:00

Coka · 13/10/2026 21:54

I met someone who had never heard of Hitler before. Winnie the Pooh is very suprising too

I did too but they grew up in China, apparently he’s not really taught about there as part of the standard curriculum

FallingfortheUnderdog · 13/10/2026 22:07

PollyannaWhittier · 13/10/2026 21:58

My mum is exactly the same, it drives me mad ! She was doing one of those arrow word puzzles that have a photo of a person for one of the clues the other day and asked me who it was because she reckoned she didn't know. It was Robbie Williams. When I told her the answer, she claimed never to have heard of him. She used to religiously watch the 6 o'clock news until a few years ago - she has definitely heard of and seen Robbie Williams.

This would be my guess too OP - she is trying to appear too cultured and sophisticated to have heard of a children's character.

My mum watches the news several times a day and while she might of seen stories about Robbie Williams at the time of Take That but I can guarantee you that she wouldn't have a clue now who he is

She doesn't have any interest in popular culture and simply wouldnt have retained the information, we're all interested in different things

Sometimes I go to a pub quiz where they do a picture round and I never recognise any famous film actors which I know surprises the friends I go with. I know the names but wouldn't know them if they walked in the pub. Tom Cruise Id recognise but not many more 😀

SeasideWalkaroundStore · 13/10/2026 22:25

RikthePoet · 13/10/2026 20:05

There are surveys which find that, say, 98% of people recognise the Queen.

98% is a big percentage, but that 2% is still a lot of people!

There was an edition of Pointless where they asked 100 British people about Roman names for British cities, and only 98 or 99 (I remember clearly that it wasn't a clean sweep) either knew or could have a half-decent guess at which British city the Romans referred to as Londinium!

SeasideWalkaroundStore · 13/10/2026 22:26

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 13/10/2026 21:58

Had she heard of Pooh bear? You definitely need to show her a photo, can’t imagine anyone doesn’t know him.

She might not be into Gilbert and Sullivan at all, though.

Createausername1970 · 13/10/2026 23:09

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 13/10/2026 21:58

Had she heard of Pooh bear? You definitely need to show her a photo, can’t imagine anyone doesn’t know him.

That's a fair point. He is often just referred to as Pooh or Pooh Bear.

Maybe the "Winnie" bit has passed her by.

Cattenberg · 13/10/2026 23:55

I once met an intelligent bloke in his 20s who was studying engineering at university. When I said I had pet degus, he had no idea what they were. To be fair, most people don't, so I told him they looked like big gerbils. He didn't know what gerbils were either. Hamsters then? He didn't know what hamsters were. We didn't have access to the internet at the time, so I gave up trying to explain.

mamaof4losingmymind · Yesterday 06:19

Did she hear you correctly I've said i don't know what something is when I completely misheard what the person said

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 06:30

Usernamesalltakenblues · 13/10/2026 20:06

I have read winnie the pooh! I have the books! On principle I have always been against the Disneyfication of so many children's characters and stories so purposefully avoided the Winnie the Pooh Disney version.
The issue of Hound of the Baskervilles came up because she was recounting the story of it because she had watched one of the many film versions. She didnt know the title of the film and when I told her what it was called she had absolutely no knowledge of it being a Sherlock Holmes story. More especially surprising because as a Scot she was particularly proud of any thing connected to Scotland

I railed against the Disneyfication too but one of the Disney versions of the stories became DD1's favourite at one point, (WTP goes to Dr Owl for his "animal checkout" (annual checkup) and has a vaccination against bumps and weasels) Think it actually helped the pre-school jabs and any medical visits pass without a hitch for both DDs! The 1960s film is rather sweet, and the songs are just right.

Still say to my cat and dog that they are going to the vets for their animal checkout and to be vaccinated against bumps and weasels.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 06:38

Usernamesalltakenblues · 13/10/2026 20:06

I have read winnie the pooh! I have the books! On principle I have always been against the Disneyfication of so many children's characters and stories so purposefully avoided the Winnie the Pooh Disney version.
The issue of Hound of the Baskervilles came up because she was recounting the story of it because she had watched one of the many film versions. She didnt know the title of the film and when I told her what it was called she had absolutely no knowledge of it being a Sherlock Holmes story. More especially surprising because as a Scot she was particularly proud of any thing connected to Scotland

It is set on Dartmoor. What's the Scottish connection?

Usernamesalltakenblues · Yesterday 06:48

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 06:38

It is set on Dartmoor. What's the Scottish connection?

Arthur Conan Doyle was Scottish. The character of Sherlock Holmes was based on a Scottish surgeon Conan Doyle studied under at Edinburgh University Medical School.

sittingonabeach · Yesterday 06:55

Studyunder · 13/10/2026 20:49

I read constantly from a young age but had never heard of Winnie the Poo until I was
in my 20’s. Even then just briefly. It still baffles it’s such a big deal 🤷🏼‍♀️ We didn’t watch much tv and the books passed me by. I realise it’s a popular and well known character to lots of people but it just didn’t feature in my childhood. None of my friends ever mentioned it. No one in my family is into it. I’m also in my 50’s. I only saw my first even Disney film less that 10 years ago. Some people seem obsessed with them, but again just not on my radar.

Did you never play Pooh sticks as a child or play it with a child?

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 07:01

Usernamesalltakenblues · Yesterday 06:48

Arthur Conan Doyle was Scottish. The character of Sherlock Holmes was based on a Scottish surgeon Conan Doyle studied under at Edinburgh University Medical School.

Edited

Ah, of course. Sorry and thanks, I did know that but it was buried in my memory somewhere. 😆I thought someone might be doing with HoB what my brain does with Lorna Doone (Exmoor) and Brigadoon (mysterious village in Scottish Highlands).

NerdyBird · Yesterday 07:44

I think it’s quite surprising she hasn’t heard of WTP. Every so often it comes round in the Disney merch that’s everywhere, you can barely miss it.
When I was in my early/mid 20s (I’m nearly 50) I went on a date with a man who had apparently not heard of the Sistine Chapel. He was reasonably well educated, middle class etc so I was surprised about that at the time! Now I would be less so if a 20-something didn’t know it.

I definitely have gaps myself, my husband couldn’t believe the number of 80s/90s popular films I’d never seen, but it was just how I grew up. We weren’t really taken to the cinema, we didn’t have a video player for ages and my parents wouldn’t have dreamed of renting a film once we had one!

IamtheDevilsAvocado · Yesterday 07:52

ShakyBake · 13/10/2026 19:48

Quite incredible but I'm astonished at the lack of political knowledge of the general public with a large amount of people unable to name the prime minister.

When we recently had a last minute cheapie in lanzarote... Came across two different groups who thought we were in Mediterranean 😱

I can understand perhaps not knowing where random islands were around the world, but to not show a tiny bit of interest in where you're physically going on holiday does seem to me odd!

Wordsmithery · Yesterday 08:02

Usernamesalltakenblues · 13/10/2026 19:45

Yes I woukd find it quite amazing OP.
But then I remember a conversation with one the mothers of my son's bf when he was at primary school many years ago and it emerged she had never heard of the Hound of the Baskervilles. I was realky shocked and surprised by that.

I've never watched or taken an interest in the Disney versions of Winnie the Pooh but I love the books. Also A A Milnes wonderful poetry books When we were very young and Now we are six.

Edited

I would think many people haven't heard of HotB to be honest. Not to have grown up with darling Winnie is much more surprising, and sad.

Wordsmithery · Yesterday 08:10

I'm very surprised anybody British can not know about WtP. That suggests they may not have played Pooh sticks either, and they won't have read the books with their wonderful EHShepard illustrations. How sad.