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To be delighted I'm retiring

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Vengefulpomegranate · 09/10/2026 13:33

I will be retiring from my coal face NHS job in April 2027. Ive done nearly 40 years, full time except for my preganacies and short mat leaves (5 months longest at that time). Im just finished, I have nothing left to give. My mother started on about 'all my training' and I'm 'still young' - I'm almost 62. For context she retired from her part time secretarial work at 54. ... taken the shine off it a bit from me ...

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Sharptonguedwoman · Today 13:27

Juliette414 · Today 11:50

But at 62 she is a baby boomer and I very much doubt if her mum is

Yes, her mum will be a young 'Silent Generation', likely in her 80s.

Trottersup · Today 13:36

Just retired from the NHS at 60. Genuinely had nothing left to give. Already my stress levels have reduced significantly. There are so many younger people who can't move up the chain if we all carry on til 67. I had to downsize my home, and only have a small pension, but it's so worth it.

Enjoy your last few months, and enjoy your retirement.

Could I urge anyone younger to take retirement planning seriously, especially if you are lucky enough to be in a position to invest.

Branwells77 · Today 13:58

Enjoy every second of it, I don’t understand your Mother given the fact she retired early.
Go and enjoy yourself and do all the things you never got chance to do

Talkingfrog · Today 14:41

Enjoy your well earned retirement

RikthePoet · Today 15:06

WhiteCat13 · Yesterday 19:24

So untrue. My two younger brothers worked in the private sector and have both been retired for many years (around 10 if my memory serves). I work in the public sector and am hoping to retire next year at 62. Both brothers spend many weeks on foreign holidays with their (also retired) wives. I meanwhile will be lucky to have a weekend by the british seaside, but am still looking forward to retiring on a very much smaller income than now. Public sector working is not as great as you might imagine.

It offers much better pensions than my private employer...

Hydrangeblueeyes · Today 15:21

I am just about exactly in your position, retired from stressful sometimes traumatic NHS role six months ago,am also 62. It is amazing. I work (Very) part-time in a shop. I can't get over that all I have to do for the customers is take money for the things they buy and cheerfully chat to them. I don't have to worry about their bowel movements, medication side effects, mobility needs, care plans or appointments!!! and the shop shuts at the same time every day 😊so I don't have to be 'on call' or cover for colleagues at short notice! Enjoy your retirement, I thought part of me would miss it, but I honestly don't know how I kept going for so long.

gingercat02 · Today 15:22

As a long term NHS worker get out if you can. I'm planning to go in 2.5-3.5 years at 60/61.
Can't bloody wait. Ignore your mum, you have done your time 🎖

Goaliestar · Today 15:33

Of course you are.
Be very very firm with anyone who tries to plan your retirement for you.

Stay away from anyone suggesting volunteering or caring duties, childcare etc.

Book a long holiday and get away from everyone.

PuffinIsle · Today 15:37

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 09/10/2026 14:42

The only people who retire at 62 are people in the public sector. Many others need to work longer to get better pensions. The state pays a premium for state employees not working beyond 60 in many cases. The younger employees won’t get this lucky.

Not for me. I've been saving every month for the last 30 years. Even if it was only a tenner that particular month. I'll be using up my savings until I reach 67.

CarbootJunction · Today 16:02

I took very early retirement, from the NHS, at the age of 52, and have not regretted it. I was lucky that I had a very good private pension, a side-hustle I could develop, and a generous partner.
YA definitely NBU.

YenSon · Today 16:57

Why would you not want to celebrate this??! You’ve done your time. Now your time is yours.
I’ve just turned 50, 26 years in education and I can’t think of anything I’d like more than to be able to retire. I’m done.
Enjoy it! Happy retirement!

MilkBreadToiletroll · Today 17:26

40 years - wow, what an achievement! Congratulations. Sounds like you've worked hard and planned well.

TeethAreImportant · Today 17:30

Vengefulpomegranate · 09/10/2026 13:33

I will be retiring from my coal face NHS job in April 2027. Ive done nearly 40 years, full time except for my preganacies and short mat leaves (5 months longest at that time). Im just finished, I have nothing left to give. My mother started on about 'all my training' and I'm 'still young' - I'm almost 62. For context she retired from her part time secretarial work at 54. ... taken the shine off it a bit from me ...

When I started in the NHS (last century, so a long time ago to be fair), clinical staff could retire at 55, so you've already done 7 years more than other 'well trained' NHS staff did who would have been contemporaries of your Mum. 40 years is amazing, enjoy your well earned retirement.

Iloveacurry · Today 17:33

Congrats op! I would find it difficult not to say something to my mother considering how old she was when she retired!!

godmum56 · Today 17:39

MaddestGranny · Yesterday 21:16

thank you. Baby boomer here. I totally agree with @BunnyLake .

Before Thatcher and neo-liberalism came along, the mainstream guiding value in British society was around working together to make the future better for everyone and our children. `
I remember having this dinned into me at school (as an Infant from 1950).
"Don't Let the Bullies Take Over" is a mantra remembered from many a Primary School Assembly. It was a value I took forward into my working life.

In those days, we were proud of our public services.
Public Service were not dirty words.

I was proud to be a public servant from 1974 to 2006.

Mrs Thatcher (front-piece for a deeper neo-liberal/libertarian comeback, which continues to this day) set out to poison all of that, with a great deal of success.
But very many folk, working in NHS and in state education, have remained aligned and faithful to the core value of service to society.

Congratulations to all those who still do this, who commit their working contribution to the general good.
To OP, I wish you a very long and very happy retirement. Do expect to find that the "outfall effect" and the "rest period you think you need" continues much longer than you expected.

Boomer and ex NHS here. I was neither proud not not proud of working in the NHS. I was proud of how I improved life for my patients. My late DH worked in the public sector and contributed to the improvement of international maritime safety. Its not just public servants who contribute. I was also an infant in the mid 50's and do not remember that mantra or indeed any other.

PeachTrifle · Today 17:50

@Vengefulpomegranate wishing you a very happy retirement! I retired 3 months ago after 45 years in the NHS, latterly as an 8b. I thought I would miss work, miss colleagues and miss patients and even joined the bank. And do you know what - I have absolutely NO desire to go back. It has been a revelation - waking up in the morning and realising I am not responsible for anything! I'm done with the Trust politics, constant reorganisations. I'm free.
Enjoy your retirement, revel in the peace.

Poppiespancakes · Today 17:52

Congratulations,enjoy your retirement.I left the NHS( patient facing) after 40 years.I struggled initially,but now a year later believe it was the right decision and couldn’t be busier! I don’t miss the workload at all.

PurpleVine · Today 18:28

congrats i hope you have a lovely retirement. i've been working since i was 16, hoping i can make it another 10 years to 60 but i already have bad arthritis in my hands as you can probably tell from my bad typing! i like working but the aches and pains make it harder every year i get older.

Imisssleep88 · Today 19:33

Sounds like you've earned your retirement. If you can afford to retire earlier than state pension age and want to, then you should. Life is for living not working, enjoy your retirement

Smokeywater · Today 20:02

I'm retired though a good bit older than you - and it's great - so brilliant for the time to be for you to do what YOU want to do.

fivepastmidnight · Today 20:39

Have a fantastic and well earned retirement .Thank you for giving 40 years.

abracadabra1980 · Today 20:41

Your mother is being a nostalgic ignoramus. Enjoy OP 🥂

Plmnki · Today 21:08

Well done you, and your mother can shut the fuck up. Enjoy your very well earned rest. Go you!

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · Today 21:16

I retired from education at 62, it's bloody great! Congratulations!

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