So sick of these 'hard done by' BB who have no empathy for any other generation
Me too.
A lot of women the OP's mother's age very likely never worked full time, many probably didn't work that many years at all, and many very likely never went out to work til their youngest child was in their mid 20s. Very few in the OP's mother's generation HAD to work full time because she couldn't afford not to.
I don't like babyboomer bashing, and not ALL of them were/are privileged, but sometimes the criticism is justified. Also, Gen X women are the most screwed over demographic in my opinion. A generation of women who HAD to work whether they wanted to or not, and who were made to feel less than if they weren't high achievers at work, with employers pushing training and 'bettering yourself' on them.
Also only 14 weeks maternity leave, and being expected to still achieve high at work when you're a mother, and side-eyed and slated if you needed an hour off to be with your child. Also, no help with childcare fees, no tax credits, no free school meals for their kids (as they worked!) and no empathy if you had post natal depression, or were really stressed, with 'you women fought for equality so suck it up' yelled at you.
I will be SO glad when I've retired, and will do so at 64 if I can... GenX here, can you guess?!
I don't know why some mothers are so coarse and critical. My mother was the same @Vengefulpomegranate laid into me for getting married 'young' (25!) even though she was 19 when she got married, and sighed and rolled her eyes when I said I was pregnant 3 years later, even though she'd had 3 DC by the age of 25! Also, when I said I was going part time (when my DC were born/were toddlers.) she shook her head and said 'that's lazy that is, you're a bad example to your kids only working 22 hours a week!' even though SHE never worked until she was 42, and that was only part time - 16 hours a week, then she retired at 60!
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