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To ask French Mumsnetters / parents how you're doing given today's protests?

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MistressoftheDarkSide · 06/10/2026 13:47

Am starting this thread because I'm keeping an eye on both the Guardian live feed about the French student protests and Agenda Free TV on TouTube which is currently showing live feed from Toulouse.

My now adult kids were mid teens when we had the student lian protests here, and it was the devils own job preventing them trying to go to London. I was conflicted. On the one hand I admired the principles at play. On the other, protecting my offspring from themselves / the authorities / bad actors over rode that. And that was relatively small scale.

I know this is a complex situation and countrywide. I suppose I'm thinking in terms of solidarity with those with kids involved, or involved themselves as it's been reported parents and others are joining the protest, from the point of it being such a chaotic and scary situation. And I'd like to hear real thoughts from real people, as all media has different perspectives. Not a journalist, just a concerned human being, willing to listen to real thoughts and experiences from those in the vicinity.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/live/2026/oct/06/europe-french-school-protests-paris-germany-afd-bulgaria-drones-russia-ukraine-latest-news-updates

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LuckyHazelFox · 06/10/2026 21:46

99bottlesofkombucha · 06/10/2026 21:43

So you think nobody should protest ever in case someone gets violent? I can’t work out if you’re just stirring, think everyone should be apathetic, or if it doesn’t affect you so nobody should care.

So long as you can remain consistent when judging all protests, that get out of hand.

Duncantoldme2 · 06/10/2026 21:52

AlicePottery · 06/10/2026 21:45

In their last year (terminale/upper 6th/Yr 13) all pupils who want to pursue their education input as many as 20 choices (it's a national database) into the Parcoursup platform.

They need to include motivational letters depending on what they want to go into.

Their grades from both years (première and terminale) and their bulletins (school reports) are also input with their teachers' opinion (avis très favorable, avis favorable etc.) into Parcoursup.

The algorithm sorts everything out and sends the info to the requested establishments (universities etc.).

If the parcours (place/degree) is in high demand, only the highest grades and avis très favorable are even considered.

Your grades depend very much on where you live and which lycée you to.

Some pupils are immediately accepted for up to amd including their 20 choices, and other pupils aren't even accepted anywhere amd usually end up on a waiting list.

As pupils accept a placement (can only accept one obviously) it frees up places for other pupils who then move up the waiting list.

This goes on for weeks (sometimes even months) and is hugely stressful for everyone. My DS's girlfriend didn't get a place until a couple of weeks before university started.

Some establishments require face to face interviews before offering places, frequently this happens all in the same week, some even on the same day (last year a pupil in my DD's school had an interview in the morning in Marseilles and in the afternoon in Gap).

I'm sure Im missing things out, but you get the idea.

That sounds almost exactly like the UCAS system and applying to university here in the UK.

Except is max 5 choices. Perhaps they need to do that. Still stressful though.

Chocolatefreak · 06/10/2026 21:58

Noodledog · 06/10/2026 20:00

To be honest, the impression given in the UK media is that what's happening are not so much protests as riots. Is that not the case? The videos I've seen are pretty shocking.

The issues are being reported pretty clearly in serious media. Kids are fed up with large class sizes, dilapidated buildings, lack of teachers and long school hours.

if you’re not hearing about the actual causes then where are you getting your information?

CandidLurker · 06/10/2026 22:00

@AlicePottery

Thanks. sounds a bureaucratic nightmare.

Noodledog · 06/10/2026 22:08

Chocolatefreak · 06/10/2026 21:58

The issues are being reported pretty clearly in serious media. Kids are fed up with large class sizes, dilapidated buildings, lack of teachers and long school hours.

if you’re not hearing about the actual causes then where are you getting your information?

I'm getting my information from The Times and The Guardian, do they count as acceptable sources for you? I've certainly seen claims about those things (I've also seen claims suggesting that the true situation is not as black and white tbh), but the details I've read on this thread are mostly new to me.

Biloute · 06/10/2026 22:27

French students definitely work a longer day but I’m pretty sure they get more holidays throughout the year (and bank holidays)

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2026 22:48

It must be really bad to have come to this.💞

99bottlesofkombucha · 06/10/2026 22:52

LuckyHazelFox · 06/10/2026 21:46

So long as you can remain consistent when judging all protests, that get out of hand.

consistent includes judging people’s motivations / what they are protesting. Not all causes are equal. A neo nazi demonstration? Judge away. Kids protesting about school conditions? Go for it.
And then there are behaviours -Anyone turning up just to trash things and hit people? Judge away, but that doesn’t mean the rest of the protesters aren’t there for a good reason. If you were walking along the street peacefully with a banner reading ‘better maternity care on the nhs’, some public nuisance maker threw a few punches further down the line, you’d be furious at being tagged a violent trouble maker who should have stayed home.

AlicePottery · 06/10/2026 22:56

I tried going to sleep to no avail 😅

2 weeks at toussaint (All Saints)
1st (usually during holidays) & 11th November
2 weeks at Christmas
2 weeks in February
Easter Monday (sometimes during holidays)
2 weeks around Easter
1st (sometimes during holidays) & 8th May
Ascension Thursday (plus Friday & Saturday)
Whit Monday (although technically teachers catch this up at some point in one form or another).
July & August (teachers work during the first week of July and only primary kids go in that week). Many pupils stop coming in mid June and the ones in seconde (yr10) officially stop around then.

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 06/10/2026 23:00

AlicePottery · 06/10/2026 20:19

If you align the education budget with inflation it has gone down. They're axing another few thousand teaching positions (by not replacing people who retire) next year because the number of children entering the system is going down, so class sizes are actually getting bigger.

But France like the UK is bankrupt.

Where do you think the money should come from?

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2026 23:17

MustTryHarderAndHarder · 06/10/2026 23:00

But France like the UK is bankrupt.

Where do you think the money should come from?

Education is not a luxury. It is a necessity for the future of any nation. It is sad that kids are having to protest to get it.🫤

My kids were aghast when I told them what it was about. They went off muttering that they wouldn't be protesting for more school and that French people love an aul riot.
🤣🤣😬

inerja · 06/10/2026 23:21

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2026 23:17

Education is not a luxury. It is a necessity for the future of any nation. It is sad that kids are having to protest to get it.🫤

My kids were aghast when I told them what it was about. They went off muttering that they wouldn't be protesting for more school and that French people love an aul riot.
🤣🤣😬

Edited

We do love a strike.
my kids grew up in England and say we ‘faire du smashy smash’ eg f**ck shit up.
it has made me proud to be French that most are supporting our kids.
education is a right not a commodity

Joliefolie · 06/10/2026 23:22

Attempted french pension reforms to try to get the pension age nearer to that of other countries and things like parcoursup (which does put kids in the same positon they find themselves in with UCAS) seem understandable to people from other countries because they've had these sorts of systems for ages, but feel wildly unjust when such changes are imposed, not least in a culture where the need to protest is deeply embedded. Just like in the UK and other countries, there's a question of where the funds get allocated - it's impossible for it to carry on as it is, triple locks and retirement at 60 with a larger than ever eldery population etc does eat into what is available for the young, of course it does. The kids are right to protest about absent teachers, 40 in a class, poor quality facilities, lack of care etc. on top of a uncertain future. The violence from certain activists and the heavy-handed police response is clearly very regrettable. It's not a joke. It's violently manifesting something that is affecting millions of people in many different countries.

CrispySquid · 06/10/2026 23:23

2BarbieOrNot2Barbie · 06/10/2026 20:02

I think as woth most things it’s a mixed bag. Quite a few of the things the students are protesting are fair enough. Some a little less from my perspective. What I have seen in my city (which is not the worst affected) are a lot of burning bins and a thankfully limited fire in one of the schools which burnt down the caretakers office. I honestly don’t feel that there is any justification for ever setting fire to things, vandalising schools or street furniture such as bus shelters. One of the badly damaged schools where the fire caused a lot of damage was less than 10 years old. What a waste of resources to fix that could instead have been used to address some of the legitimate grievances.

This. I was reading yesterday that the protesters have burnt down a brand new 80 million Euro school that had just been built.

ilovesooty · 06/10/2026 23:32

99bottlesofkombucha · 06/10/2026 21:43

So you think nobody should protest ever in case someone gets violent? I can’t work out if you’re just stirring, think everyone should be apathetic, or if it doesn’t affect you so nobody should care.

There are always going to be posters who believe protesters deserve what they get. At least those who live and work in France are telling us what the issues are and what's happening from their own personal and professional experience.

TadpolesInPool · 07/10/2026 05:54

Im not an expert on parcoursup as DS is npt yet concerned but I have heard many horror stories from friends.

I think the big difference between parcoursup and ucas, is that with ucas, students have to narrow down their offers to 2. Whereas parcoursup they don't. Offers are kept open until after the Bac.

My friend's daughter went into her Bac exams knowing she was only on the waiting list for all of her university choices, and her best position on the waiting list was number 6000.

piscofrisco · 07/10/2026 06:04

Noodledog · 06/10/2026 20:24

That does sound shit. Of course, in the UK we're only reading and seeing what the media chooses to report.

This is exactly what was reported on 5 live and the TV news yesterday. That and disproportionate violence by police and in a few cases retaliation by protesters. Which seems accurate? Not sure what you are seeing reported about thus or where?

Ive always admired the French and their willingness to protest tbh. Under the pavement the beach and all that…

TeenToTwenties · 07/10/2026 06:14

English comp to age 16.
25 hrs education per week usually something like 8.45-3, no free periods, short breaks incl short lunch.
Standard class size 30, may be more or less for some subjects.
At GCSE subject choice is restricted by school timetabling so not all theoretical options actually possible.

16-19, A levels about 5hrs per subject (3 or 4), potentially lots of trapped time or restrictions on subject choice.
16-19 Vocational about 15-18 teaching hours but compressed into 3 or maybe 4 days, with clear day for part time work experience.

French schools currently seem worse, and i understand from radio their PISA scores are declining.

tostaky · 07/10/2026 06:18

CrispySquid · 06/10/2026 23:23

This. I was reading yesterday that the protesters have burnt down a brand new 80 million Euro school that had just been built.

I sont understand the 80 million euros figure… i am a parent givernor in a large secondary school in the uk (and im french) - the cost of the entire rebuild (destruction of school, temporary building, construction of new school incl two inclusive provisions) total cost is £17 million. When i look at benchmarking figuresfor the uk, that cost is average.

so that 80 million euros figure must be wrong - i wonder which media reported it, some are not accurate or maybe they have included a lot of other things in it…

LindorDoubleChoc · 07/10/2026 06:24

YABU.

Yello24 · 07/10/2026 06:31

The NYT had a piece on the protests today. Their take is that France is so broke it’s in serious long term trouble and that the French can’t accept they can’t afford to run their generous public institutions the way they always have.
Agree that it’s admirable that they have their protest and revolution culture but how does that square with them needing to accept economic realities?
Inevitably people look for something to blame when they can’t get what they want. Old people? Immigrants? The far right is doing well there.

Summerhillsquare · 07/10/2026 07:14

MistressoftheDarkSide · 06/10/2026 21:08

Many thanks to those bringing constructive and informative discourse.

To the quoted poster - obviously nothing about the entire situation is "good" but if change is required and voices need to be heard protest is a legitimate means. Todays included other organisations / unions, not just the school related issue. Given the instability in the world and all the division, there may well be agents provocateur in the mix too.

I'm not sure what your point is, but you do like to stir the pot..

It's France. They build a barricade at the drop of a hat. It's why they have a better and earlier state pension than us, as well as more supportive social security generally.

The tutting and pearl clutching about protesting on here has helped the British working people having our conditions worsened by years of right wing governments.

EasternStandard · 07/10/2026 07:28

Summerhillsquare · 07/10/2026 07:14

It's France. They build a barricade at the drop of a hat. It's why they have a better and earlier state pension than us, as well as more supportive social security generally.

The tutting and pearl clutching about protesting on here has helped the British working people having our conditions worsened by years of right wing governments.

The issue is for France is how high it pushes their debt. And how the gov will respond to these protests if they can’t find more money.

NancyThompson · 07/10/2026 07:33

Summerhillsquare · 07/10/2026 07:14

It's France. They build a barricade at the drop of a hat. It's why they have a better and earlier state pension than us, as well as more supportive social security generally.

The tutting and pearl clutching about protesting on here has helped the British working people having our conditions worsened by years of right wing governments.

Their finances are fucked though - they can't afford it.

Summerhillsquare · 07/10/2026 07:39

Afford? Where do you think funds for public services come from? It isnt a zero sum game.

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