AIBU to feel hurt he did not check after surgery?

[TheOpalFox]

Major surgery and he couldn’t even text me saying hope I’m okay.

he left me 2 months ago after 4 years together
how do they lose feelings that’s quick????? How?

he couldn’t even text saying hope I’m okay ?
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😂😂😂

We're going to miss you when you finally get bored of your weekly threads. You need a new storyline though, you've already done the 'he hasn't contacted me after an operation' theme.

Oh dear God. Channel your inner Elsa. Let it go. Let it gooooo.

I have never had such sympathy for a stranger’s ex. The poor, poor man had a lucky escape.

Because he isn’t one bit interested in you.

Because. He's. Moved. On.

I would have no idea if any of my past boyfriends have had surgery or what's going on in their lives, because it's NONE of my business.

Give over OP, fess up. What's your real identity? Grown bored man? Teenager? Middle aged lady? Do tell. I wonder how many threads you've started.

Maybe we’re all unwitting participants in a psychological experiment to see how alert posters are to repeat threads or to engaging with the same issue again and again…

Because he left two months ago. Very clear he doesnt care

He doesn't care and that won't change no matter how many times you ask. He just doesn't. He is over you. Please accept it.

I just had a quick glance at the previous threads about the “soulmate” while I’m waiting for the kettle to boil, and it’s easily 20+. I stopped counting. It’s quite revealing that a non-soulmate thread was about her friend calling her “constantly negative” and “full of drama”…

@theopalfox he doesnt care because hes your ex!!! There is no reason for him to care any more!! Please accept its over and move on with your life for both your sakes

You keep saying this on here but he didn't because he doesn't care about you anymore as he's your ex.

Stop asking us why he doesn't like you anymore.
You need to get over it and try and reach out to your real friends and family and professional counselors for support.

If you need long term help at home due to your surgery/health issue contact adult social care or some care agencies.

Why should he care?

You aren’t family. You are not his child or his responsibility.

That is the nature of relationships, when someone decides they are ready to break up and move on then that’s what they do. People change their minds and lose feelings in a flash and overnight all the time, he was ready to breakup.

He doesn’t care about you or your surgery in the same way I don’t care or think about my other exs - they are not my problem or concern anymore..

Accept that he’s changed and he’s not coming back.

The op has previously said she has a learning disability, she repeats herself and will not come back to respond or engage with advice. I think she is unable to process her emotions and posting here is a shout into the void. She is a lone parent and her son is also vulnerable, I worry that she’s being met with compassion fatigue, @TheOpalFox do you have a network of support in real life? There is help available but no one can cure your heartache no matter how often you say this.

Because he doesn't love you and tbh he doesn't even like you thats why he blocked you and wants NOTHING to do with you
Leave him alone and get psychiatric help before you get yourself arrested for harassment.

How many times do people have to tell you this is OVER! Thread after thread after thread.

He doesn’t care about you, sweetheart, you have to accept it’s over.

Oh OP, you have had very good advice on all your other threads. It's time to move on. That's tricky when you love some one but for your own well being you need to gather your strength and get on with life. In answer to your question, he has moved on. He doesn't care. Also from all your other threads he doesn't sound very nice. So maybe time to try hard to get past him.

Ha ha, the results would be depressing I suspect.

There are plenty more storylines