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Would Labour voters be upset if joining the EU meant they could no longer tax children’s education?

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Blarneyspoco · 04/10/2026 12:03

Taxing children’s education is banned as part of EU membership. If the U.K. rejoined the EU, would Labour supporters be upset that they can no longer levy the tax or would it be seen as a necessary compromise.

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BIossomtoes · 08/10/2026 08:46

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 08:44

No one is asking for grovelling. Just a stop to the insults, recognising that actually we're contributing a lot, and stop deliberately and vindictively harming our families.

If the UK can't manage that, then frankly it's fucked within a generation.

You should read that Times article I linked.

I have read it. You are asking for grovelling. Your attitude stinks.

EasternStandard · 08/10/2026 09:12

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 08:44

No one is asking for grovelling. Just a stop to the insults, recognising that actually we're contributing a lot, and stop deliberately and vindictively harming our families.

If the UK can't manage that, then frankly it's fucked within a generation.

You should read that Times article I linked.

Pay it no mind. Constantly going for higher earners won’t work.

It’s a U.K. thing atm, very few countries apply this tax for a start.

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 09:16

BIossomtoes · 08/10/2026 08:46

I have read it. You are asking for grovelling. Your attitude stinks.

No. You've just got used to contributors abasing themselves and apologising for existing, without a thought to them being part of the society they're funding.

But you've pushed it too far. That's over.

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 09:19

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 06:25

I also saw the many people who paid proportionately more tax than you. Less in £ and pence maybe, but as a %, more

You really should actually think about the ideas you hear before believing them. And ideally put some numbers to them, to test them out. Rather than believe any old emotive shit, because it resonates. Confused

I assume you've extrapolated from the whiny nonsense people spout about VAT being regressive, and you've got all high-horse about the rich not paying their 'fair share'... without the slightest fucking clue about how much we're giving you.

Do please explain to me how someone earning £24k and paying £3,200 income tax (13.4%) can possibly be considered to be paying more tax than someone earning £124k and paying £46,322 income (37.2%).

Even proportionately.

Even if the lower earner paid VAT on every penny (no accomodation, no food, no children clothes - nothing VAT free) they would only be paying 33.4%. Whereas the higher earner is already paying 37.2% just in income tax, even if they didn't buy a single thing that incurred VAT.

But neither of those things is realistic. In fact the higher earner will almost certainly use more of their income on things which aren't VAT exempt - by design, because VAT isn't charged on necessities.

And that's without considering any of the other progressive taxes like council tax (£thousands a year difference), stamp duty (£10s of thousands)

Your confident statement is very obviously complete nonsense, when you just think about it for a moment.

So have a bit of fucking appreciation for how much people are paying in.

And whilst you're at it, think about what actually makes the UK the fabled 'rich country' that gives all it's citizens so much already... but you use to justify extra theft from people you don't like.

And then think about whether you want it to remain a 'rich country' - with free healthcare, free education, social care, an incredibly generous welfare state, and outflows of foreign aid and asylum support - for another generation... which frankly is looking pretty damn unlikely right now.

And then maybe - just maybe- think about what you need to do yourself to contribute to that.

Here's a starting point:

https://www.thetimes.com/article/c21bd8d7-e7b1-42d8-b82d-efe61e589721?shareToken=84961487a3e596365afbdb4faefdb686

And whilst you're at it, think about what actually makes the UK the fabled 'rich country' that gives all it's citizens so much already...with free healthcare, free education, social care, an incredibly generous welfare state

I agree. The people who work so hard to deliver all those services deserve better recognition and, in many cases, better wages.

BIossomtoes · 08/10/2026 09:22

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 09:16

No. You've just got used to contributors abasing themselves and apologising for existing, without a thought to them being part of the society they're funding.

But you've pushed it too far. That's over.

Your attitude is fortunately extremely rare. We never have and never will canonise people for simply paying their taxes however much you rage.

EasternStandard · 08/10/2026 09:25

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 09:16

No. You've just got used to contributors abasing themselves and apologising for existing, without a thought to them being part of the society they're funding.

But you've pushed it too far. That's over.

As people will opt out taxes go up. Some will applaud any new tax but it’s crazy to get behaviour change, it just ramps up taxes for more people.

LathkillDale · 08/10/2026 09:29

I don’t know the figures, but I suspect more people would be upset, if standard rated VAT was applied to essential food, children’s clothes and energy?

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 10:56

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 08:44

No one is asking for grovelling. Just a stop to the insults, recognising that actually we're contributing a lot, and stop deliberately and vindictively harming our families.

If the UK can't manage that, then frankly it's fucked within a generation.

You should read that Times article I linked.

And yet your posts are repeatedly the ones throwing out bitterness and rage. You seem to justify that by deflecting it to probably a handful of randoms on an anonymous site. It might help you to understand that most people are not vindictive, maybe just ambivalent. If ambivalence enrages you then I’m sorry but you have no right to dictate what people should have strong feelings about. As for taxes, we all pay them. I pay loads and that’s life. Also you can’t put a value on the contribution people make to society on the basis of the taxes they pay. The surgeon who could be saving a life or the ICU nurse nursing someone back to life will be earning and financially contributing less than they could be in some other careers. Does that mean they are making a less valuable contribution to society?

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 11:35

Surgeons are well paid in the UK

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 11:48

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 11:35

Surgeons are well paid in the UK

Nobody said they weren’t. However, hedge fund managers, senior management consultants, magic circle lawyers and many tech and finance roles generate significantly more than an NHS surgeon would earn. Principle stands in any case.

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 11:54

Do we not feel that while nurses are lovely a brain surgeon makes a larger impact to the medical community?

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 12:56

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 11:54

Do we not feel that while nurses are lovely a brain surgeon makes a larger impact to the medical community?

while nurses are lovely

And just as necessary as the brain surgeon. And make just as large an impact. More, in fact. But you know that.

BIossomtoes · 08/10/2026 13:19

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 11:54

Do we not feel that while nurses are lovely a brain surgeon makes a larger impact to the medical community?

Nurses are needed for every condition. Brain surgery is a bit niche.

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:24

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 12:56

while nurses are lovely

And just as necessary as the brain surgeon. And make just as large an impact. More, in fact. But you know that.

So if you had a brain tumour requiring surgery, and you could choose either

a) the best brain surgeon in the hospital and the worst nurse in the hospital

or

b) the worst brain surgeon in the hospital and the best nurse

Which would you choose?

Personally, my 'ability' priority would be

  1. anaesthetist
  2. surgeon
  3. nurse

If your choice is different, then I will very happy to celebrate how different we all are in our society

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:26

Let's assume that neither are psychopathic or criminally negligent.

Deciding which profession would be most likely to have one of those traits is probably a rabbit hole too far...

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 13:29

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:24

So if you had a brain tumour requiring surgery, and you could choose either

a) the best brain surgeon in the hospital and the worst nurse in the hospital

or

b) the worst brain surgeon in the hospital and the best nurse

Which would you choose?

Personally, my 'ability' priority would be

  1. anaesthetist
  2. surgeon
  3. nurse

If your choice is different, then I will very happy to celebrate how different we all are in our society

Oh look a 🐿️. Missing the point spectacularly and disingenuously.

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 13:30

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 13:29

Oh look a 🐿️. Missing the point spectacularly and disingenuously.

Absolutely. Pointless engaging further with pp I feel.

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 13:52

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 11:48

Nobody said they weren’t. However, hedge fund managers, senior management consultants, magic circle lawyers and many tech and finance roles generate significantly more than an NHS surgeon would earn. Principle stands in any case.

Many surgeons also do private work. The NHS pay is restricted due to the style of system we have. US surgeons earn oodles more.

The roles you mentioned are well paying, highly skilled and technical roles. Requires a lot of studying and knowledge to deliver. Work that is valued and needed and helps.

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:55

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 13:30

Absolutely. Pointless engaging further with pp I feel.

It's a fairly to-the-point disagreement with your assertion that nurses "make just as large an impact" as surgeons @TemperanceWest

Not sure what your objection to my objection is...

LizzieW1969 · 08/10/2026 14:00

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:55

It's a fairly to-the-point disagreement with your assertion that nurses "make just as large an impact" as surgeons @TemperanceWest

Not sure what your objection to my objection is...

Brain surgeons wouldn’t be able to do their jobs without the assistance of anaesthetists, theatre nurses and theatre technicians. Or hospital porters to wheel patients into the surgery.

Or nurses attending to the patients in ICU and on the wards.

Obviously the brain surgeon has unique skills and is remunerated accordingly. But all these roles play above roles are important in the care of the patients.

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 14:04

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:55

It's a fairly to-the-point disagreement with your assertion that nurses "make just as large an impact" as surgeons @TemperanceWest

Not sure what your objection to my objection is...

Nobody owes anyone a reply and I can't be arsed with going off on your tangent, tbh.

TemperanceWest · 08/10/2026 14:04

LizzieW1969 · 08/10/2026 14:00

Brain surgeons wouldn’t be able to do their jobs without the assistance of anaesthetists, theatre nurses and theatre technicians. Or hospital porters to wheel patients into the surgery.

Or nurses attending to the patients in ICU and on the wards.

Obviously the brain surgeon has unique skills and is remunerated accordingly. But all these roles play above roles are important in the care of the patients.

Exactly.

PippiLongshanks · 08/10/2026 14:05

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:55

It's a fairly to-the-point disagreement with your assertion that nurses "make just as large an impact" as surgeons @TemperanceWest

Not sure what your objection to my objection is...

It’s pretty clear that you are unable to challenge the very obvious points I made and your deflection tactics now stoop to posting a lot of irrelevant drivel. That in itself speaks volumes.

Zzxzzz · 08/10/2026 14:09

strawberrybubblegum · 08/10/2026 13:24

So if you had a brain tumour requiring surgery, and you could choose either

a) the best brain surgeon in the hospital and the worst nurse in the hospital

or

b) the worst brain surgeon in the hospital and the best nurse

Which would you choose?

Personally, my 'ability' priority would be

  1. anaesthetist
  2. surgeon
  3. nurse

If your choice is different, then I will very happy to celebrate how different we all are in our society

The best brain surgeon of course. Their skill and technical expertise is at the top and surpasses others.

The final diagnostic and treatment decisions rest on the doctor. If something goes wrong the buck stops with them.

BIossomtoes · 08/10/2026 14:10

In the case of a brain surgeon if something goes wrong the buck stops with the patient.