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Would Labour voters be upset if joining the EU meant they could no longer tax children’s education?

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Blarneyspoco · 04/10/2026 12:03

Taxing children’s education is banned as part of EU membership. If the U.K. rejoined the EU, would Labour supporters be upset that they can no longer levy the tax or would it be seen as a necessary compromise.

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SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 10:18

There’s certainly precedent for that as a decent amount of people voted Leave to spite Cameron/Conservatives/Government. (I haven’t forgiven him for not setting a super majority then treating the narrow result as if it was binding as it was an entirely avoidable mess that could have led to some introspection about our relationship with the EU without flushing it all away despite having no plan).

That is something I am in agreement with.

It would be beyond parody if a future anti-EU reason is stated to be "that's not as good as the deal we had ...."

PriorPreparation · 06/10/2026 11:05

Bloozie · 06/10/2026 09:56

"France and Germany have problems, therefore closer relations with the EU cannot be good for Britain.” is a false equivalence and weak arguing position.

EU membership or closer alignment doesn't require the UK to accept that becoming France or Germany is as good (and bad) as it gets and is what anyone should be aspiring to. The actual question to answer is, "Would the UK economy perform better with fewer barriers to trade, investment and movement with its largest neighbouring market than it's performing right now, with the barriers created by Brexit?"

The evidence suggests yes.

Since 2016 the UK economy has sat on a path around 5% below that implied by six comparable major EU economies. We can't prove that every percentage point is caused by Brexit, but alongside a fairly broad economic consensus that the post-Brexit increase in trade friction has reduced UK trade, investment and productivity relative to where they otherwise would have been - we are deffo economically worse off out, than in.

Also not sure why you think France and Germany are the countries we should aspire to - suspect you're just cherry picking countries with big problems right now and concluding that EU membership is the cause of those problems because that suits your world view. The single market contains quite different tax systems, welfare states, labour markets and industrial strategies.

You can't also say that people in France and Germany are unhappy therefore the EU is bad, when the EU also counts the happiest countries in Europe/the world as members - Denmark, Finland. Austria and Poland are also happy countries.

If you want me to pick a country to emulate, I'd say Denmark. Or even Spain, actually. Malta's doing well. We can cherry pick our arguments and data points until the cows come home though.

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I don't think we should aspire to France or Germany at all
We don't need to.
We set our own path..

Bloozie · 06/10/2026 11:11

PriorPreparation · 06/10/2026 11:05

I don't think we should aspire to France or Germany at all
We don't need to.
We set our own path..

So why bring them up at all, if not to try and somehow draw a false equivalence between EU membership and struggling economies?

TheChickenRun · 06/10/2026 11:19

SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 10:18

There’s certainly precedent for that as a decent amount of people voted Leave to spite Cameron/Conservatives/Government. (I haven’t forgiven him for not setting a super majority then treating the narrow result as if it was binding as it was an entirely avoidable mess that could have led to some introspection about our relationship with the EU without flushing it all away despite having no plan).

That is something I am in agreement with.

It would be beyond parody if a future anti-EU reason is stated to be "that's not as good as the deal we had ...."

I think that fact will be central to any sensible (not ideological) anti-rejoin campaign!

PriorPreparation · 06/10/2026 11:19
  1. people think the EU is a strong eccomic Bastian we must rejoin. No . The two strongest ecconomies are massively failing.
  2. people think our money woes are due to Brexit . No look at the two biggest ecconomies France and Germany and many other EU counties face the same issues we do. Ie re joining won't make our worries go away.
Zzxzzz · 06/10/2026 11:20

Markovenchip · 06/10/2026 09:06

An EU member state can opt-out of EU legislation if they wish to, Major did that with the workers charter (a mistake in my opinion), personally I dislike the EU, it's modern day colonialism, rejoining would just make a mockery of the democratic vote to leave, in out, in out, the rest of the world would laugh, as mentioned, if people can afford to send their kiddies to public school, they can afford the VAT (or maybe ditch the Range Rovers if they can't !).......😋

This is really wrong and stupid. A country can only secure an "opt-out" if it is explicitly negotiated and agreed upon unanimously by all other member states during major, foundational EU treaty revisions.

Araminta1004 · 06/10/2026 11:23

But that is why I said the only way to do this is agreement in principle on the exact deal we had before, no ifs no buts. Because that also limits the other countries from objecting and their politicians using leeway. Then it can also be done quickly. If they were all to agree in principle it’s hard to back out on both sides.

Araminta1004 · 06/10/2026 11:24

It’s also extremely simple to put to our voters. Same deal as before take it or leave it!

SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 11:48

people think the EU is a strong economic Bastian we must rejoin.

Some may do. Not all. For some the economic benefits are just the cherry on the cake.

And we already know that a lot of Brexiteers explicitly stated that they didn't give two shits about the economics of Brexit anyway.

However, I suspect that trying to enjoin the Brexit debate to the VAT on private schooling debate isn't going to bring the clarity some had hoped for.

EasternStandard · 06/10/2026 11:50

Zzxzzz · 06/10/2026 11:20

This is really wrong and stupid. A country can only secure an "opt-out" if it is explicitly negotiated and agreed upon unanimously by all other member states during major, foundational EU treaty revisions.

Yep I doubt it’s easy to get considering each member state has its own politics and some might be shifting politically with upcoming elections.

Goatsarebest · 06/10/2026 12:14

If people have to or don't have to pay VAT on private school fees will not even figure on any debate about rejoining the EU. It does not come on the radar of the debate except in this weird obsessive corner of MN. It will be too late for you anyway OP. Best to move on and use money saved on fees on enriching your children's education outside the school. There's alot you can do with that saved cash to support them at their new plebian school.

PriorPreparation · 06/10/2026 12:27

SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 11:48

people think the EU is a strong economic Bastian we must rejoin.

Some may do. Not all. For some the economic benefits are just the cherry on the cake.

And we already know that a lot of Brexiteers explicitly stated that they didn't give two shits about the economics of Brexit anyway.

However, I suspect that trying to enjoin the Brexit debate to the VAT on private schooling debate isn't going to bring the clarity some had hoped for.

And many remainers only care about passport queues your point?

SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 12:35

PriorPreparation · 06/10/2026 12:27

And many remainers only care about passport queues your point?

You've already made it for me. Thanks.

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 12:54

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 01:05

Which ones?

Sorry if your search engine is broken.

"A group of independent Christian and faith-based schools, alongside individual pupils and parents, brought the main legal challenges against the UK government's removal of the VAT exemption on private school fees.
Specific Schools Involved in the Legal Challenge
• The King’s School (Fair Oak, Hampshire)
• Emmanuel School (Derby)
• The Branch Christian School (Yorkshire)
• Wyclif Independent Christian School (South Wales)
• Charedi Jewish secondary/faith schools (represented via individual student and parent claimants from the Charedi community)"

Edited to add that earlier in this thread (or another one?) another poster linked websites of a Muslim school and a Welsh language school in London that were not involved in this legal case but are schools in a similar position regarding fees.

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 13:02

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 12:54

Sorry if your search engine is broken.

"A group of independent Christian and faith-based schools, alongside individual pupils and parents, brought the main legal challenges against the UK government's removal of the VAT exemption on private school fees.
Specific Schools Involved in the Legal Challenge
• The King’s School (Fair Oak, Hampshire)
• Emmanuel School (Derby)
• The Branch Christian School (Yorkshire)
• Wyclif Independent Christian School (South Wales)
• Charedi Jewish secondary/faith schools (represented via individual student and parent claimants from the Charedi community)"

Edited to add that earlier in this thread (or another one?) another poster linked websites of a Muslim school and a Welsh language school in London that were not involved in this legal case but are schools in a similar position regarding fees.

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Some religious schools? They are already getting kick backs from their church and now want more tax exemption? They are worse than farmers.

I just want less taxes and more subsidies! I can't see any problems with that approach can you?

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 13:07

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 13:02

Some religious schools? They are already getting kick backs from their church and now want more tax exemption? They are worse than farmers.

I just want less taxes and more subsidies! I can't see any problems with that approach can you?

The problem I am addressing here is with you and honestly many other posters who justify the VAT on private education by making sniffy comments about how the super-rich can afford to pay a bit more tax.
Someone else just made a comment about range rovers. It comes across as simple prejudice.

I understand the initial confusion because that was one of Labour's main messaging points around the policy, but if you keep repeating it after being informed of the facts more accurately, it begins to look like you care a lot less about fairness then you claim to.

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 13:20

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 13:07

The problem I am addressing here is with you and honestly many other posters who justify the VAT on private education by making sniffy comments about how the super-rich can afford to pay a bit more tax.
Someone else just made a comment about range rovers. It comes across as simple prejudice.

I understand the initial confusion because that was one of Labour's main messaging points around the policy, but if you keep repeating it after being informed of the facts more accurately, it begins to look like you care a lot less about fairness then you claim to.

This is tiny edge case. It strikes as whataboutery.

And following your sarcastic shall I use Google for you comment not sure you can take the moral high ground.

But the bottom line is in every tax and spend decision there are winners and losers. Overall I feel the losers here have reserves to sustain them and if we look at huge number of years when austerity has hit the poor time and again this feels like a small step at rebalancing.

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 13:23

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 13:20

This is tiny edge case. It strikes as whataboutery.

And following your sarcastic shall I use Google for you comment not sure you can take the moral high ground.

But the bottom line is in every tax and spend decision there are winners and losers. Overall I feel the losers here have reserves to sustain them and if we look at huge number of years when austerity has hit the poor time and again this feels like a small step at rebalancing.

My children are not "whataboutery" they are real people that matter just as much as everyone else.

I'm sorry for the huge crime of pointing out that the information was readily available and still you chose to insist that I obtain it for you.

I'm getting the impression that you're more interested in scoring points than the actual subject matter, so I'm going to leave it there, hope you enjoyed.

LoftyPlumLion · 06/10/2026 13:27

Interestingnamesuggestion · 06/10/2026 13:23

My children are not "whataboutery" they are real people that matter just as much as everyone else.

I'm sorry for the huge crime of pointing out that the information was readily available and still you chose to insist that I obtain it for you.

I'm getting the impression that you're more interested in scoring points than the actual subject matter, so I'm going to leave it there, hope you enjoyed.

I'm sorry you're getting that impression. The large majority of private school children come from very wealthy families.

Many of them also claim to not be wealthy.

But if course it's me scoring points when you lashes out despite me simply asking a question.

Zzxzzz · 06/10/2026 13:30

The tax barely raises any revenue okay... Like as a % of the budget it's nothing.

Behavioural effects why would anyone want to decrease it when the simple act of private education has no negative impact to the person or to society. It's literally a good thing for the world. It's education and learning

SerendipityJane · 06/10/2026 13:33

And following your sarcastic shall I use Google for you comment not sure you can take the moral high ground.

If you enable "AI mode" in Google, you can get it to say what you want.

EasternStandard · 06/10/2026 13:37

Zzxzzz · 06/10/2026 13:30

The tax barely raises any revenue okay... Like as a % of the budget it's nothing.

Behavioural effects why would anyone want to decrease it when the simple act of private education has no negative impact to the person or to society. It's literally a good thing for the world. It's education and learning

The reasons are on this thread pretty much. Nothing extra for state education but that’s ok as the op’s dc had to move sector.

PippiLongshanks · 06/10/2026 15:11

strawberrybubblegum · 06/10/2026 06:23

It came over so badly.

Right back at you.

No-one cared. No-one cares.

The many, many threads on VAT disprove that. The many, many comments from parents telling us they supported us being hit for £thousands... regardless of whether it actually brought any social benefit... regardless of the damage to some of our children.

Also the vindictiveness towards the state education system

Far, far more vindictiveness towards private school children. Posters revelling in 'little <comedy posh name>' having to go to a sink school because there are no spaces left at their own child's school and suffering there. And quite a few posters saying they deliberately never hire a private school kid.

Nastiness too, with all the insults about thick poshos - how stupid and awful our children are.

There have been a few divisive policies in recent years - like Brexit.

But this is more divisive, more corrosive. For those actually affected by this - just 7% (but a pretty high percentage of the tiny group who carry the UK financially) - this has had a huge affect on our relationship with the UK and with society.

I've seen that despite me happily funding the rest of the UK for most of my working life, they're not grateful for that: they're vindictive. They don't have my back if I need help in my turn: instead they will actively harm me and my family if they can. We're not on the same side, not part of a community. They actively want my child to have a worse life.

And it's brought in practically no money, and will probably go to negative tax income before it's repealed.

Such a fucking waste of UK cohesion and unity. Such a fucking stupid policy by incompetent, vindictiveness politicians.

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And yet here you are still railing against the division and bitterness that your own posts embody. Plus ça change...

strawberrybubblegum · 06/10/2026 15:33

PippiLongshanks · 06/10/2026 15:11

And yet here you are still railing against the division and bitterness that your own posts embody. Plus ça change...

Not sure what your point is?

That I haven't been run off mumsnet or out of the country (yet) by fuckers who take my money and still wish my DC harm?

I'll take you all down from within. Mwah ha ha ha!

Or rather... I'll continue to do what's right for my family. At exactly the time that's best for my family.

And your take on what I choose to do is completely irrelevant to me.