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What’s the point in the NHS?

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younknow · 25/09/2026 23:20

I fell over at work today. My ankle was immediately black and blue and swollen, so I hobbled off to urgent care in a taxi.

I waited for four hours, I was x-rayed and told there were no breaks and a severe sprain. The doctor told me I’ve likely torn ligaments in my ankle and will be sore for three months.

I asked what sort of follow up would be given and she all but laughed at me, saying that I could get myself a support on Amazon if I wanted. I said I couldn’t even weight bear and she said I could also pick up crutches if needed. She then said I could refer to physio but “ChatGPT would give me a plan”. I asked if I’d be scanned to find out how badly damaged it is and she said there was no chance.

What is the point? Genuinely, what are we paying for when even things like this are being directed to Amazon and A.I?! I can’t believe it.

I remember 15 years ago my mum tore ligaments in her ankle and she was scanned the same day it happened, put in a boot and on crutches for six weeks, had a course of physio and consultations with an orthopaedic surgeon to discuss a plan if it didn’t improve.

What’s going on?!

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Gcn · 26/09/2026 22:52

Haven't read the whole thread but - why would you need a scan? You had an xray - it wasn't broken. What difference would a scan have made to any treatment plan??

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 26/09/2026 22:53

younknow · 25/09/2026 23:28

Proper treatment - in other countries a sprain is treated seriously and taken seriously! If you’re suspected to have torn ligaments you get a scan and proper treatment, not told to walk out and go on Amazon if needed. Even 15 years ago it was different!

You don’t know your sprain is exactly the same as your mum’s. If they refused to scan you I’d feel differently but you had an x ray! And just because you didn’t get the exact treatment as your mum doesn’t mean there is no point in the NHS.

Dogdilemma01 · 26/09/2026 22:56

LathkillDale · 26/09/2026 21:08

DH has been a net contributor for over 30 years!

So has my DH, but he is the exception rather than the rule!!!

BIossomtoes · 26/09/2026 22:59

Dogdilemma01 · 26/09/2026 22:56

So has my DH, but he is the exception rather than the rule!!!

Mine was until he had an operation that had a conservative cost of around £300k. He’ll be in deficit for the rest of his life now.

Howdidlifegetsobusy · 26/09/2026 23:15

Urgent care is just that I am afraid. If it’s not fractured, you will simply be asked to rest and ice it (RICE). There is nothing they can do and they would not scan it in urgent care.

if you truly cannot weight bare, they probably should of provided some crutches.

in most areas now it’s self refferal to a muscular sketetal team for a physio assessment. But you cannot do that until the swelling is down, so they won’t see you straight away.

Did they not give you any advise on resting it etc for now? That is literally all that can be done, and then it’s back to GP if it’s not healed in a few months time.

you can of course see a private physio too.

Motherofdragons17 · 26/09/2026 23:15

Pippa12 · 25/09/2026 23:24

My husband suffered a perforated bowel and sepsis in July. The nhs performed life saving surgery for him. He’s led next to me right now when he very nearly wasn’t.

That’s the point of the NHS.

I am glad for you both. However that is not the point of the nhs, all ailments deserve to be treated not only life threatening. The level of care at the moment is alarming

Blushingm · 26/09/2026 23:22

IzzyLeng · 26/09/2026 22:35

Did you actually get physio or a list of exercises? I got a list of exercise which I did do but they didn’t help. Maybe they did a bit as I recovered in a year and they say it can be 2-3 years Certainly no hands on physio. Had to pay privately for that. I think the hands on stuff helped more than the exercise. I wish I’d been six weeks.

I got hands on physio, naproxen and a couple of steroid injections and then hydrodilation for my frozen shoulder. All NHS

coe78 · 26/09/2026 23:29

I completely agree that the NHS is struggling right now. But it's naive to think that you'd be better off directly paying for services unless you're banking on being fit and well indefinitely. About 20% of the average person's tax goes towards the NHS and the NHS as a whole spends about £300 per person per month.

This is broad brush maths, but there are fun calculators out there where you can work out if you're a net beneficiary or contributor based on how much tax you're paying. Look up "where does my tax go calculator".

It's shit when you're paying tax but feel you also need to top up privately. The NHS does need radical change but I don't know what that will look like.

wordler · 26/09/2026 23:48

coe78 · 26/09/2026 23:29

I completely agree that the NHS is struggling right now. But it's naive to think that you'd be better off directly paying for services unless you're banking on being fit and well indefinitely. About 20% of the average person's tax goes towards the NHS and the NHS as a whole spends about £300 per person per month.

This is broad brush maths, but there are fun calculators out there where you can work out if you're a net beneficiary or contributor based on how much tax you're paying. Look up "where does my tax go calculator".

It's shit when you're paying tax but feel you also need to top up privately. The NHS does need radical change but I don't know what that will look like.

It feels anecdotally, from seeing complaints on here and elsewhere that the first place everything breaks down is at the local level - the GP’s surgery.

So many people not being able to get appointments within a reasonable timeframe.

In the OP’s example best practice taking into account triage and resources would be do the x-ray - establish not broken - advice on RICE given for the next 48 hours and to see GP in five days if no significant improvement.

The GP would then be able to assess - advise on ankle supports, boots, crutches or not, refer to PT.

But if the follow up care is not likely to be available the OP is left feeling that something may be missed / worried etc.

What’s going on at so many GP surgeries?

I left the UK over ten years ago but it wasn’t hard to get a that week appointment or even a same day appointment if it was serious.

vitahelp · 26/09/2026 23:48

Blushingm · 26/09/2026 23:22

I got hands on physio, naproxen and a couple of steroid injections and then hydrodilation for my frozen shoulder. All NHS

That’s the trouble with the NHS, it’s a lottery..what happens with one person on one day might not be the same for the next person on another day. It feels like it’s down to chance which is scary when it comes to health.

Lis947 · 26/09/2026 23:49

Mumofone545 · 26/09/2026 22:37

Lets stop a moment and think why its struggling? Maybe its all the doctors/nurses ect going on strike demanding xxx payrise, wheres the money coming from to pay such a wage? There is a cost of living crisis and the nhs is spitting their dummys out insisting on a ludicus payrise.

A young woman I know who has been nursing for about 4 years now was attacked by a patient last week and has a torn rotator cuff. There needs to be serious changes all around. Quite honestly you couldn't pay me enough to do their job!

wordler · 26/09/2026 23:52

vitahelp · 26/09/2026 23:48

That’s the trouble with the NHS, it’s a lottery..what happens with one person on one day might not be the same for the next person on another day. It feels like it’s down to chance which is scary when it comes to health.

So the problem starts at a local authority level?

My DF is in the UK and he gets appointments and referrals very easily. He’s in a small Cumbrian town and his GP surgery is fantastic. The downside is he does have to travel 40-50 miles for any specialists such as cardiology or dermatology. He’s still a good driver at 85 so okay so far but I can see that being difficult when he can’t drive any more.

Livpool · 27/09/2026 00:09

You sprained your ankle, get a grip

Constantrunner · 27/09/2026 01:16

vitahelp · 26/09/2026 23:48

That’s the trouble with the NHS, it’s a lottery..what happens with one person on one day might not be the same for the next person on another day. It feels like it’s down to chance which is scary when it comes to health.

No it isn't. It's a sprained ankle. The advice is RICE, rest, ice, compression, elevate.its a very basic low scale injury.

Plumnora · 27/09/2026 01:44

Oh well next time just pay and go to a private hospital then.
Plenty of people would have been very thankful just to be seen at all.
Urgent care is exactly that. They see you, patch you up and then you follow up with your GP if it's not life threatening.
I hope your ankle feels less painful soon.

IzzyLeng · 27/09/2026 05:42

BIossomtoes · 26/09/2026 22:42

I had three physio appointments. The guy I saw was brilliant. It was hard work but I went from not being able to get my hand any further than my hip to being able to do my bra up behind my back in six weeks. The Naproxen was vital.

ETA Sorry, I quoted the wrong post.

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That’s good that you got physio. I didn’t. I also didn’t get pain relief as they refused to allow me to see a gp. Anything which is muscular skeletal you’re now only allowed to see the physio for. Who wears a suit and doesn’t touch you and can’t prescribe anything. 🤷‍♀️. I argued on more than one occasion that I wanted to see a dr not a physio and was told i couldn’t. I told the physio I wanted pain relief and he said over the counter stuff would be sufficient.

sashh · 27/09/2026 06:12

So you were seen, X-rayed and given advice. But you are pissed off because someone else with a similar injury years ago got different treatment?

It is a sprain. Yes a sprain can be nasty and painful but it doesn't need a follow up appointment.

Hoostin · 27/09/2026 06:44

I’m sorry you hurt your little ankle. You must be very sad. I suggest you pay privately for your treatment and let the NHS take care of people who are actually ill. The money you pay does not mean you’re entitled to absolutely everything for free, it’s not a savings account.

SezFrankly · 27/09/2026 06:53

Same experience. Nasty fall. GP instructed straight to A & E. X-rayed - no breaks but ligament damage from hip to toes: Told it’ll take 6-8 weeks and self-refer for physio at GP if required. Asked GP after 3 months, seeing physio in 2 weeks - 9 months later. Still in pain. Only just getting back to normal.

Decades of under-funding.

Lurkingforalaugh · 27/09/2026 07:01

Partner stumbled a little dec 2023, thought just sprained something in his knee but it didn’t improve, docs sent for x-ray feb 2024, nothing broke so ‘must be’ tendon told to rest it for 6-8 weeks, still no improvement, he also lost job in this time as according to docs notes it was a tendon and he ‘should’ve’ been back to work, had an MRI after having to repeatedly go back to the doctors to say it wasn’t improving, this was then June 2024 which shown full acl tear, meniscus tear and cruciate ligament tear, November 2024 for eventual consultant appointment to review, waiting list for surgery to rebuild knee, October 2025 surgery!! Gotta love the nhs 🤬

Fortuity · 27/09/2026 07:19

younknow · 25/09/2026 23:24

So the only care it can provide is emergency surgery?

I’m glad he had life saving surgery. But the NHS isn’t fit for purpose if it’s directing injured people to Amazon and A.I.

Well, no, and you know perfectly well that is not all that it provides. The NHS saved my nephew's life when his heart stopped suddenly and gave him fantastic care in Intensive Care. It diagnosed and treated my shingles and has been working to prevent glaucoma damaging my eyesight. It investigated my husband's anaemia, discovered and treated an ulcer and took action to prevent a repetition, replaced his knee, and is regularly monitoring for possible cancer. It is looking after my niece who has gestational diabetes. It is about to give me free vaccinations against flu and pneumonia.

The simple fact is that there is not a great deal they can do for a sprain.

RosesAndHellebores · 27/09/2026 07:20

coe78 · 26/09/2026 23:29

I completely agree that the NHS is struggling right now. But it's naive to think that you'd be better off directly paying for services unless you're banking on being fit and well indefinitely. About 20% of the average person's tax goes towards the NHS and the NHS as a whole spends about £300 per person per month.

This is broad brush maths, but there are fun calculators out there where you can work out if you're a net beneficiary or contributor based on how much tax you're paying. Look up "where does my tax go calculator".

It's shit when you're paying tax but feel you also need to top up privately. The NHS does need radical change but I don't know what that will look like.

Just worked it out and over the last ten years I've paid about £7.5k per annum towards rhe NHS. Definitely a net contributor. I pay an additional £3k per annum in private insurance.

Now here's a good example of where the NHS lets people down in relation to non acute issues.

For the last four years, I've had to replace my glasses every year. High myopia, plus long sight and astigmatism which extrapolates to about £900. At the last optician appointment, I was told if my vision could be corrected with a prescription I coukdn't be referred for cataract surgery but did need driving glasses and occupational lenses as well.

For reference, I am struggling at work with three screens, struggling to read, feel unbalanced, have lost contrast when driving and the lights arw blinding and fracturing and arcing. So work/reading is difficult and night driving is a no no. I need tondrive home from work and it's almost winter. Also my 90 year old mother is 80 miles away, there coukd be an emergency and if she has a late afternoon hospital appointment, it's 15 miles across country roads.

In summary I am having difficulty at work and can't drive at night when it's essential. My GP advised if the optician won't refer neither can he. I ended up paying him £40 for a private referral for my insurance.

I saw an ophthalmologist privately who described the cataract in my right eye as "ripe" in old money terms; in my left as earlier but due to the high presription both eyes must be done. Booked in in a couple of weeks. My insurance will fund what the NHS won't.

Without the surgery, I'd have to work less and pay less tax and I woukdn't be able to care for my mother and that would cost the NHS more. And that's quite apart from the fact that I have been able to afford very expensive glasses every 12 months for four years.

Gladioli7 · 27/09/2026 07:21

Sartre · 26/09/2026 07:48

I feel the opposite and have no idea what the point of private healthcare is in this country. They don’t treat emergencies, don’t provide dental or MH or maternity services… We have it through DH’s work but have never used it because it doesn’t seem to cover anything!

The NHS is deeply flawed but ultimately means people who can’t afford health insurance mostly still get the support they need. Too many people abuse it and we’re overpopulated so there can be a substantial wait for that help but if you’re dying, they’ll step in pretty quick sharp in most cases.

The US system is awful. People will turn down help they desperately need because they’re not insured or their policy doesn’t cover it. They also ship you out of hospital the second you wake up after surgery.

That’s the insurance coverage that’s lacking, not private healthcare. Admittedly, you can’t get private A&E but private dentistry, mental health services and maternity absolutely exist, your plan just isn’t comprehensive enough to cover it. I had private maternity care - all scans, consultations, C section, nice recovery in private room etc.

Fortuity · 27/09/2026 07:22

younknow · 25/09/2026 23:28

Proper treatment - in other countries a sprain is treated seriously and taken seriously! If you’re suspected to have torn ligaments you get a scan and proper treatment, not told to walk out and go on Amazon if needed. Even 15 years ago it was different!

You get scans in the US because it's a way for hospitals to make money out of insurance companies. Not because you need them.

Badbadbunny · 27/09/2026 07:23

FancyLilacHare · 26/09/2026 18:51

Everyone will tell you it's free at the point of demand so your complaining is unreasonable.

But they aren't German or Swedish or Dutch or French or Italian or Australian or Finnish or from all those other places which have a healthcare system that isn't steeped in parochial notions of national treasuredom.

The older I get the more scared I become of what will happen when I get sick.

I now pay for private insurance because I just don't trust that the NHS would diagnose me on time or give me a decent treatment if I became ill.

Which is ironic because that's what the NHS was set up to avoid; people not being able to access decent healthcare if they are too poor to do so.

Nail on the head