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My parents have become insufferable.

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PleasePleasePleaseDontProve · 15/09/2026 17:11

I am really struggling with my parents. Both are mid-sixties, retired. It seems since retirement they have become quite bigoted, insufferable and insular in their viewpoints. Every time I meet up with them conversations revolve around:

  • Illegal immigration / people on benefits / Reform and Nigel Farage. Essentially focussing around the latest GB news story (which they watch religiously).
  • Their latest or ongoing health ailments and how poor, in their view, the NHS is.
  • Unnecessary and rude descriptions to describe other people (could be random strangers) or people they know. For example, ‘our fat neighbour has put on tons of weight.’

I used to have a fantastic relationship with my parents, particularly my father, and I’m sure he wasn’t always like this. I’m starting to dislike meeting up with them as their attitudes seem to have changed towards life and people in general, and they constantly want to discuss the latest GB News story.

Has anybody else found this has happened to their parents?

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Crikeyalmighty · 09/10/2026 23:27

@SixtySomething. I don’t disagree but On the other side just because someone doesn’t agree with a person who is rather fond of spouting Reform/GB News type politics doesn’t automatically make them a ‘woke lefty traitor snowflake -‘ which some right wingers haven’t grasped either - it does work both ways -

SixtySomething · 09/10/2026 23:38

Crikeyalmighty · 09/10/2026 23:27

@SixtySomething. I don’t disagree but On the other side just because someone doesn’t agree with a person who is rather fond of spouting Reform/GB News type politics doesn’t automatically make them a ‘woke lefty traitor snowflake -‘ which some right wingers haven’t grasped either - it does work both ways -

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Is anyone claiming that’s the case ie you’re one thing or another?
I definitely don’t think that!

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