First of all, I'm not going to get into the debate over whether Israel truly wanted peace or not. That was the subject of the Oxford Union debate and it's not the point of this thread.
What annoys me is that this debate came after another Oxford Union debate about whether Israel is a greater threat to regional or world peace than Iran. I don't even remember the exact wording of the motion, but the premise itself is so ridiculous that you have to wonder whether there are actually intellectuals at Oxford anymore or just students smoking pot.
Whatever you want to say about Israel, when Israel is left in peace it isn't a threat to the world at large. Iran on the other hand funds terrorist organisations throughout the Middle East, works to destabilise the region and has a regime that openly chants "Death to America." Yet somehow we're having debates about whether Israel is the greater threat to world peace.
But that's not even my main point.
What really bothered me about the "Israel never truly wanted peace" debate is that nobody, including the people arguing on the Israeli side, seemed to think it was relevant to mention who actually started the war.
The UN voted in 1947 to partition Mandatory Palestine into two states, one Jewish and one Arab. The idea was that both peoples had a claim to the land and would each get a state. There was no plan at that point to throw the Arab population out of their homes or create what would later be called the Nakba. It was basically a question of which flag would be flying over which part of the land.
The Jewish side accepted the partition plan. The Arabs rejected it and started a civil war against the Jews.
Then, when Israel declared independence in 1948, the surrounding Arab countries invaded Israel and started the war of independence.
So yes, during that war many Arabs who would later be known as Palestinians lost their homes and became refugees. Exactly why each person left is a separate discussion. Some were expelled, some fled the fighting, some left for other reasons. I'm not trying to get into that here.
My point is much simpler: The Arabs started the war.
And if you start a war, surely the responsibility for stopping that war and making peace lies primarily with the side that started it.
Instead, we have somehow reached a point where Israel is constantly being asked why it hasn't made peace, while the fact that the other side started the conflict in the first place is treated as almost irrelevant.
Israel didn't start the Civil War in 1947. Israel didn't start the 1948 war. The Arab side did.
And the fact that Israel survived, became stronger and is now capable of defending itself doesn't somehow change who started the war.
The victim becoming stronger doesn't turn the victim into the aggressor.
If you start a war against someone and lose, you don't get to spend the next 80 years blaming the person you attacked for the fact that the war is still going.
The responsibility, at the very least the majority of the responsibility, should be on the people who started it to end it.