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To find make-up weird

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elprup · 28/08/2026 22:20

I kind of get foundation because it can cover spots, blotches and blemishes. But to “enhance” perfectly good eyes with black lines and smudges (eyeshadow) and to colour in your lips - I don’t know, isn’t it all a bit odd when you think about it? (Most) men don’t wear it so why do women? Just a thought! 🤣

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Floatlikeafeather2 · Yesterday 00:07

Jk987 · 28/08/2026 23:12

No makeup usually means looking pasty and tired with small eyes and lips that look
dry and blended with the rest of your skin.

Speak for yourself.

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:07

For your entertainment ..

  • Wodaabe men wear makeup, adornments, and show off to attract wives.
  • Karo men, women and children decorate themselves every day.
  • Each Native American tribe has different face paint styles and headdresses for specific purposes.
  • 17th-18th century European aristocrats wore full makeup, wigs, and festooned themselves with lace and jewellery.
  • Tattoos. Every people throughout history has injected ink under their skin.
I love humans, we're bonkers! And take it all so seriously!
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ClairDeLaLune · Yesterday 00:13

BigWig78 · 28/08/2026 22:30

Yeah it is weird bit most things are when you think too long about them. Clothes? Weird. Jewellery ? Weird. Working is quite weird too as the concept of money is also weird. Sex is weird. Eating and pooping quite weird.

so yeah. We are weird.

Ooh interesting! That is definitely food for thought.

I think social rules and cues are weird. Who made up these rules? Why do we all have to stick to them? Why can’t we make other rules? Weird!

Newname26 · Yesterday 00:18

TheOriginalEmu · 28/08/2026 22:50

My ears aren’t at all mental, thanks!

😆

Debatable if that's a dyslexic moment or autocorrect going mad.
Metal metal

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:18

Autumnleaveswillfall · 28/08/2026 23:50

I don't find it weird, but I do wonder why people think make up makes them look better. I get it if you have acne etc. But why do people consider black eyelashes look better than blonde eyelashes? The other day I looked at pictures of people before and after putting on make up, and suddenly all i could see was a load of make up on naturally beautiful faces. Now j can't unsee it. We have really been conditioned to think eyes with make up look more beautiful than those without.

Eyes with makeup do look more beautiful!

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Bunnyofhope · Yesterday 00:20

Jk987 · 28/08/2026 23:12

No makeup usually means looking pasty and tired with small eyes and lips that look
dry and blended with the rest of your skin.

But that is what people do look like! Skin is skin coloured, eyes open the perfect amount to allow vision and lips are pretty much skin coloured. Its a feature not a bug. Makeup just makes us a bit...dirtier.

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:26

Bunnyofhope · Yesterday 00:20

But that is what people do look like! Skin is skin coloured, eyes open the perfect amount to allow vision and lips are pretty much skin coloured. Its a feature not a bug. Makeup just makes us a bit...dirtier.

Oh, stop being so sensible!

If nobody ever wore makeup or did their hair and only dressed for practicality, we'd all swoon at the first sight of someone with eyeliner, plaits and a swishy outfit. I mean, that must have happened at some point in history, mustn't it?!

Even chimps decorate themselves with leaves & stuff.

Charlottian · Yesterday 00:26

Jk987 · 28/08/2026 23:12

No makeup usually means looking pasty and tired with small eyes and lips that look
dry and blended with the rest of your skin.

Thanks, I’ll use that for a confidence boost the next time I go out

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 00:28

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:18

Eyes with makeup do look more beautiful!

Really? The only striking thing there, imo, is how green the model's eyes are – so I'm not sure what your point is regarding make-up?

XenoBitch · Yesterday 00:30

Bunnyofhope · Yesterday 00:20

But that is what people do look like! Skin is skin coloured, eyes open the perfect amount to allow vision and lips are pretty much skin coloured. Its a feature not a bug. Makeup just makes us a bit...dirtier.

Yep. No make up is what people actually look like. Oh no!

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:31

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 00:28

Really? The only striking thing there, imo, is how green the model's eyes are – so I'm not sure what your point is regarding make-up?

Your attention's drawn to his eyes because he's outlined them with khol.

If you really didn't spot that, you're singularly unqualified to opine on the topic of makeup ...

BusterGonad · Yesterday 00:32

I love make up and there's no denying people look better with it, unless, of course they are useless at applying it.

Newname26 · Yesterday 00:34

BigWig78 · 28/08/2026 22:30

Yeah it is weird bit most things are when you think too long about them. Clothes? Weird. Jewellery ? Weird. Working is quite weird too as the concept of money is also weird. Sex is weird. Eating and pooping quite weird.

so yeah. We are weird.

Money is weird, exchange rates i can't get my head round.
But if you think of money as a unit of labour it kind of makes sense.

You buy diamond what your really paying for its the guys time to mine it, cut it and polish it

Any equipment is the same as the diamond, your paying the time to mine the materials, and someone to process them to make the equipment and transport it.

Charlottian · Yesterday 00:37

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:18

Eyes with makeup do look more beautiful!

That man is absolutely beautiful, with or without eye makeup. He’s literally perfect. No need whatsoever to have put lines around his eyes.

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 00:38

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:31

Your attention's drawn to his eyes because he's outlined them with khol.

If you really didn't spot that, you're singularly unqualified to opine on the topic of makeup ...

Erm, no. No, it's not. My attention was drawn to his eyes because people naturally look at others' eyes, and they were also a focus of the close-up picture.

Additionally, given as I am neither blind, nor colourblind, I'm fairly certain I would've been able to notice his eyes being strikingly green whether or not he was wearing make-up.

I have a male family member with similar very true green irises, and his eyes look stunning and are always commented on...despite him never wearing any form of make-up.

XenoBitch · Yesterday 00:40

GarlicAnything · Yesterday 00:18

Eyes with makeup do look more beautiful!

The colour of is eyes are what draws me in.

I don't care if he wears make up or not. No one needs to wear anything to look "more beautiful". Why should anyone strive to be "more beautiful"?

OverpricedCupcake · Yesterday 00:42

I've worn it twice this year, it has it's place.

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 00:44

BusterGonad · Yesterday 00:32

I love make up and there's no denying people look better with it, unless, of course they are useless at applying it.

I've honestly never seen anyone I thought looked better with make-up on in person. I just prefer a person's actual face to a painted mask, and it's always obvious in person.

That's not to say make-up can't look very artistic and cool, especially when it's bold and editorial, but I certainly don't think it makes a person look better, just different.

And considering women usually wear make-up while men don't, it's sad that so many women think that women's faces are lacking and less attractive without being painted by expensive products, while men apparently look fine either way.

TheOriginalEmu · Yesterday 01:15

Newname26 · Yesterday 00:18

Debatable if that's a dyslexic moment or autocorrect going mad.
Metal metal

haha! it made me giggle anyway!

TheOriginalEmu · Yesterday 01:20

HeddaGarbled · 28/08/2026 22:55

plenty of men wear make up

Pish

not pish at all. I know loads of men in the alt scene who wear make up daily. actors and musicians and anyone on tv or stage wear it. One of my sons and his friends who are just normal lads wear it if they have a break out, some of them wear eyeliner. skin care and make up are popular in the fandom of kpop acts and such like.

Aubin7 · Yesterday 01:37

I wear mascara and like how it enhances the eyes. I hate foundation. I don't think I've ever seen anyone wearing it and thought it looked nice. It makes lines and imperfections more pronounced, showes up slight hair and generally makes people look less attractive.

KlippityKloppity · Yesterday 01:37

Ive never understood why people are so vehemently against makeup. Is it bevause they dont know how to apply it or something?

OtterlyAstounding · Yesterday 01:49

KlippityKloppity · Yesterday 01:37

Ive never understood why people are so vehemently against makeup. Is it bevause they dont know how to apply it or something?

Personally I'm not against make-up itself, but I am against the societal attitude that women look worse without it, need it, and should wear it if they want to look good. It's a misogynistic, silly, entirely subjective viewpoint, which plays into the idea that women 'should' be, and should want to be, ornamental objects instead of active subjects.

PollyBell · Yesterday 02:15

KlippityKloppity · Yesterday 01:37

Ive never understood why people are so vehemently against makeup. Is it bevause they dont know how to apply it or something?

Why do we have to be for makeup? I have no interest in wearing it just because I am female

TheOriginalEmu · Yesterday 04:12

PollyBell · Yesterday 02:15

Why do we have to be for makeup? I have no interest in wearing it just because I am female

I think what that poster means is not people who chose to not wear it themselves/have no interest in it (which is of course totally fine) but those who seem to almost look down on those who do wear it. I have a friend who continually calls wearing make up ‘vain’ and ‘self involved’ and is very rude about it. Im
not vain or self involved, i’m very much the opposite and quite insecure about my skin, if i was vain i’d think i look great without the help of make up surely? hiding my insecurities with paint is not vanity.

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