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To think making a Will is pointless if yoyu have no assets?

123 replies

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 16:27

Just that really. My husband and I have literally nothing so nothing to give away!!

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FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:52

@JustAQuestion12 I'm happy for it all to be binned 😀

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FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:54

@Vroomfondleswaistcoat We have nothing to leave. Clothes etc could all be tipped v easily!

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JustAQuestion12 · Yesterday 22:57

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:52

@JustAQuestion12 I'm happy for it all to be binned 😀

Right.

So write it down then?

CraftyNavySeal · Yesterday 22:57

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:43

@singthing Can I not just simply say to them: "Don't waste your money on a funeral and bin all of my shit, it's worth nowt?!!!" Anything else seems like a bit of an unecessary faff?
I don't get why my son would want to have my relatively cheap wedding ring for any purpose...I'm not even married to his dad?

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You won’t care because you’ll be dead though.

What would be much more useful is saying “direct cremation please and then go to the pub, there’s £1500 in my bank account for that”.

Dealing with your corpse still requires decisions and money so make it easy for them.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:58

@JustAQuestion12 I can do. Literally just write that and sign?

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NoNotDolly · Yesterday 22:58

Seems you’ve made your decision not to have one until you inherit, so what was the point of this post?

DurinsBane · Yesterday 22:59

If you have a pension, is it one you take out when you retire and then invest to provide a pension? If so, the lump sum should be mainly left (or some at least) when you die

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:59

@CraftyNavySeal I've never had that left over in an account, but perhaps I might do when the time comes? Although unlikely if I'm retired?

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JustAQuestion12 · Yesterday 22:59

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:58

@JustAQuestion12 I can do. Literally just write that and sign?

You'll need it witnessed. What about back accounts? Even if there's two quid in it you need to say where it goes.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:00

@DurinsBane How will I pay the rent though? That will still need paying...

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FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:01

@JustAQuestion12 What would happen to the £2 if I hadn't written it down?

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DurinsBane · Yesterday 23:11

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:00

@DurinsBane How will I pay the rent though? That will still need paying...

No, I’m asking about the pension. Most pensions nowadays you take a lump sum and it is invested by experts, and then you get an income every month from the interest (may eat into the capital depends how much you take each month). Then whatever is left when you die is still there to be left to whoever you want it to be.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:14

@DurinsBane Pension will (hopefully) just about cover the rent and bills so there won't be any to invest unfortunately. If not, I will need to look for top-up work. There won't be any left over.

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JustAQuestion12 · Yesterday 23:14

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:01

@JustAQuestion12 What would happen to the £2 if I hadn't written it down?

It depends who of your next of kin is still alive

I don't really understand why you're bothering with all these questions though. You could have written a bloody will in the time it took to post all these.

As I say it's caused a lot of heartache for me but you seem more interested in what abouts so ill leave you to those.

Bigcat25 · Yesterday 23:14

You should have medical and financial power of attorney (not sure what it's called on the UK.) sorted out. You could also do an affordable online will for possessions if you'd like.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:16

@JustAQuestion12 Because I don't have anything to give!! Yoy say it caused you heartache, but I assume you're talking about more than £2?

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JustAQuestion12 · Yesterday 23:18

Yes.

£30.

And that has caused an an entire family split...but you really don't seem to be grasping what people are saying to you so....?

NoNotDolly · Yesterday 23:19

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:16

@JustAQuestion12 Because I don't have anything to give!! Yoy say it caused you heartache, but I assume you're talking about more than £2?

OP this appears to be the real issue here. You sound quite sad. I don’t think writing a will has much to do with it.

Bigcat25 · Yesterday 23:24

I think posters are saying that dealing with an estate without a will is a big logistical hassle, even if the venue is low.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:24

@NoNotDolly No - I've just got nothing to leave when I die. My sons won't need my £2! They are very fortunate financially and also very bright so they will be absolutely fine 😀 I am very pleased for them ❤️

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Nearlyamumoftwo · Yesterday 23:24

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 22:48

@Nearlyamumoftwo As I say, I'm remarried so unlikely my sons would want my rings. They are worth nothing from a cost pov and I am sure their wives would want their own??? What would they do with them?

No one knows your families health and dynamic better than you so if you think it's absolutely pointless than who is anyone to argue! However sadly even with the happiest of families, people can show their true colours when someone passes, so if you want to make sure they end up with their rightful owners, I'd do a will! You could even make a joke of it when you write it up and give everyone a laugh when they read it when you're gone!

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:26

@Nearlyamumoftwo Genuinely - nobody is going to want my wedding ring!! Why would my sons want that?!

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Nearlyamumoftwo · Yesterday 23:27

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:26

@Nearlyamumoftwo Genuinely - nobody is going to want my wedding ring!! Why would my sons want that?!

It sounds like you've made your mind up , so not sure why you're asking the internet if you should have one or not 🙂

NoNotDolly · Yesterday 23:27

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 23:24

@NoNotDolly No - I've just got nothing to leave when I die. My sons won't need my £2! They are very fortunate financially and also very bright so they will be absolutely fine 😀 I am very pleased for them ❤️

But you’re worried about your pension covering the rent. What about your daughter?

JustAQuestion12 · Yesterday 23:27

Jfc

Ok..just do what you want then?! You've been given answers, repeatedly, you clearly think you know better so just do that.