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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

524 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

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AlienGround · Yesterday 17:02

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:22

I am away , in a new City, and don’t automatically presume that a £50 per head restaurant is going to be over run with animals.

Check online first or ring ahead if there is an issue like this that it’s important to you.

If dogs are allowed and you choose to go there, it’s a you problem.

AuntieBiotics · Yesterday 17:03

I hit peak dog when one had a shit on the floor in front of me in B&Q. I said "ewwww" as you would - owner said "was that her?" My response was that it certainly wasn't me. Dogs - other than proper guide dogs, hearing dogs or assistance dogs - should not be in shops or restaurants. And there should be a ban on people buying stupid coats for their pets from Amazon and saying that it is an emotional support animal.

Gloriia · Yesterday 17:03

Mooselove · Yesterday 16:56

Stupid comment. My dog is a rescue and no way would he cope in a kennel. No family member can look after him as most have cats and/or live too far away.

Dog sitter or sit in an outdoor area then? If he was a rescue wasn't he actual in a kennel when you rehomed him?

IsawwhatIsaw · Yesterday 17:03

ThereIsAlwaysWine · Yesterday 16:25

What I don't understand is, I'm allergic to dogs, get wheezy very quickly and red eyes, itchy, all the usual allergy symptoms, but that doesn't seem to matter. But if you have a food allergy then that's a different story, it's not right imo

Me too. There are very few places I can actually go to now .

Limeandfigs · Yesterday 17:03

Gloriia · Yesterday 16:55

What?! Restaurants and cafes are for people.

Leave your dog at home. No one wants it sat licking it's bum or shaking fur everywhere whilst they're trying to enjoy a meal or coffee out.

Restaurants and cafes are for people.

Restaurants and cafes are for whoever the owners / managers of those establishments decide they are for. There's a cafe near me that apparently serves ice cream for dogs.

Leave your dog at home

I don't own a dog.

No one wants it sat licking it's bum or shaking fur everywhere whilst they're trying to enjoy a meal or coffee out.

Valid, but in this case the onus is on them to go somewhere which doesn't allow dogs - and they need to accept there may well be a guide dog in there anyway.

Complaining about dogs being in a dog-friendly establishment is highly illogical at best.

OneQuirkyPanda · Yesterday 17:04

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:59

Can we not aim for a world where people are considerate? No dogs and no feral kids and no loud tablets blaring noise? These aren’t mutually exclusive. Twenty years ago this was largely possible.

I don’t see anything wrong with a minority of establishments being dog friendly, if the presence of dogs bothers someone so much then they can go somewhere that doesn’t allow them.

I can’t think of a single time an experience of mine was ruined by a badly behaved dog in an establishment, but I’ve had plenty of experiences ruined by kids that don’t behave and parents that won’t parent them. Even in adults only areas people will bring their children and allow them to be disruptive.

I see so many anti dog threads on here, when I think in reality they’re a very very minor issue for most people compared to badly behaved kids.

Gutachenow · Yesterday 17:04

Queenncat · Yesterday 17:01

We were in a gorgeous pub last weekend. Family of 4 with toddlers sat next to us. What had been a peaceful gorgeous lunch ruined... became an earache and really rather painful. I was annoyed. However I also understand this is a free country (for now), and they were entitled to be there. As were we. As was our dog. who was impeccably behaved as always. We'd been on a long walk, he'd eaten and everyone was happy. until the peace was ruined. c'est la vie. People are so miserable... Usually (not always) ones that don't have pets, I've noticed

Same experience we have had many times. Often, fellow diners don’t even realise our dog is with us until we get up to leave and she comes out from under the table. If she was barking and whining thoughout our stay in the way that a lot of kids whinge and whine then I’m sure we would have been asked to leave.

Mycatmax · Yesterday 17:05

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:31

An assistance dog is very different to entitled twats with 3 large dogs, sitting at a table for two people, imposing their animals on other people.
That’s the thing, it’s become a complete piss take now.

How is it a piss take? You don’t like dogs, don’t go to dog friendly establishments.

I like PP idea of a paw symbol on the door to make it clear. I live on the outskirts of a National Park, so it’s definitely the default here that places are dog friendly.

For those who object, there’s always Wetherspoons…

Rainbows246 · Yesterday 17:05

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

To be honest most of the dogs i see lie down under the tables/at the side. I don’t agree with dogs on seats but other than that it doesn’t bother me.

Kids running around while hot food and drinks are being served. Kids not parented, touching other tables,cutlery crawling on the floor etc. In and out the toilets. Aren’t anymore hygienic tbh.

SapphireSeptember · Yesterday 17:06

Gutachenow · Yesterday 16:44

Well that’s because the majority want their dogs with them. Supply and demand

41% of households owning dogs isn't the majority. I'd love to know how many of that group are the kind who take their animals everywhere Vs the people who don't. And why is it only dog owners? I don't see people who own cats or guinea pigs insisting on taking them everywhere.

Miyagi99 · Yesterday 17:06

WerewolfOfLoudon · Yesterday 16:59

Don't think there is anything wrong with fur babies, just people that don't realise the doggy version of fur baby shouldn't be in shops, restaurants or the ladies loos! (There were two little yaps so they were not assistance dogs).

@Miyagi99 Do you take your dogs into restaurants?

People who take their dogs into restaurants etc, what would they do if their dogs started fighting with another dog in the same restricted space? Especially if a person got bitten as a result. Worth the risk of your family member being euthanised?

I personally wouldn’t take my dog into a restaurant, beer garden yes, pub grub in a traditional pub if it’s raining and the owners have a dog themselves, yes. Cafe outside only because they tend to be short of space and public transport because I don’t drive. My dog in 15 years has never got into a fight so that wouldn’t cross my mind to be fair.

vodkaredbullgirl · Yesterday 17:06

Oh dear not on

wishingonastar101 · Yesterday 17:07

Pub garden - fine. anything else. No.

bengalcat · Yesterday 17:07

Theres a lovely cafe near me with a sign outside - Dogs welcome , well behaved owners allowed . Always makes me smile .

toomanyplasticfiles · Yesterday 17:07

There was a wretched dog in Ikea yesterday. There’s no safe space anymore away from them.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 17:07

I can't say as I've noticed or dogs in a venue has ever bothered me. We don't tend to take our greyhound as the pubs near us are tiny and people might trip over her paws when she lies down. We bring her a doggie bag or take her if we can sit outside.

Mooselove · Yesterday 17:07

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · Yesterday 16:49

This is what’s so confusing
Dogs used to be just fine left tied up outside or left at home having a snooze
And the talk about separation anxiety.. surely this is 90% projection?

Oh yes it must be projection that when our dog is left alone he paces and sometimes cries but when he is with us he lays quietly under the table.

Gutachenow · Yesterday 17:07

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:59

Can we not aim for a world where people are considerate? No dogs and no feral kids and no loud tablets blaring noise? These aren’t mutually exclusive. Twenty years ago this was largely possible.

If you said no badly behaved dogs and no feral kids then that would be reasonable. No need to exclude all dogs

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · Yesterday 17:08

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:31

An assistance dog is very different to entitled twats with 3 large dogs, sitting at a table for two people, imposing their animals on other people.
That’s the thing, it’s become a complete piss take now.

Did you say anything to the restaurant? Because it's not the people with the dogs that are the problem, it's the establishment. They've decided they'll make more money if they allow dogs, than if they don't. And they're probably right, unless people who don't like them start complaining and making it clear they won't be eating there in future.

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:08

aliasfrog · Yesterday 16:24

Agree. Found a dog hair in my food last time I went to a dog friendly pub. It's unacceptable and unhygienic.

⁷has anyone actually ever in the history of the world died from a hair in their food....dog or otherwise.
The world will not be kind to you, and you will not be liked.

bababamama · Yesterday 17:08

There’s plenty of restaurants that do not allow dogs, why not check before you book and tell the restaurant why you aren’t booking

Mooselove · Yesterday 17:08

Gloriia · Yesterday 16:56

'Me and DH have had dogs for almost 50 years and for most of those years dogs were not allowed in cafes or restaurants nor in most hotel and often not in pubs'

Well there you go, you managed fine.

We got sick and tired of getting soaked or freezing so we are going to sit inside when it is allowed.

GladBiscuit · Yesterday 17:08

I’m a dog owner and I agree. Dogs should be outside only.

ETA in eating establishments, at home dogs are allowed on the sofa and bed etc, before anyone chastises me for keeping dogs outside. But I think that it isn’t fair on others to bring dogs inside where people are eating.

Justanopinionnothingmore · Yesterday 17:08

I am fine with it in a pub like a specific area like the bar area that allows dogs.

Do not want them in every restaurant and cafe. Especially when they aren't trained and bark at everything and everyone.

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:09

gottakeeponmoving · Yesterday 16:33

I didn’t have strong feelings either way until I went for breakfast at a local cafe. The couple at the next table had a little dog with them which was sat quite happily at their feet while we ate. I have no problem with that.
What happened next horrified me. The lady put her plate down on the floor for the dog to lick. Disgusting.
I would have said something but the owner of the restaurant was clearly a friend of theirs because he came over and joined them at their table.

You know the plates get washed dont you.