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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

521 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

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InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · Yesterday 16:49

RaraRachael · Yesterday 16:34

We had dogs when I was young. They weren't allowed in any eating places. We manages - the dogs just stayed at home.
I've no idea why this is suddenly impossible. Dogs aren't vastly different nowadays.

This is what’s so confusing
Dogs used to be just fine left tied up outside or left at home having a snooze
And the talk about separation anxiety.. surely this is 90% projection?

Queenncat · Yesterday 16:49

whatdoidonowffs · Yesterday 16:48

But but the poor fur babies can’t be left out of anything 😢😢😢
about time people realised they’re animals !!!

I do think the term 'fur baby' or 'fur babies' should be banned.

Mycatisreal · Yesterday 16:49

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

Fucking gross. Entitled pricks.

Lowlagal · Yesterday 16:50

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

This is why I believe every restaurant should display clearly on their window and on their website if they are dog friendly or not.

I had to call ten brunch places in South London once just to find one that wasn’t dog friendly.

My issue is not even the fact that so few don’t allow dogs and so many do - that’s up to them if they want dogs there .

My issue is the fact restaurants don’t always advertise it.

I propose a national symbol (perhaps a paw?🐾 )that all shops and restaurants display on their window/websites to let us know if they allow dogs - so the ones who are ok with that can go there and those of us who don’t can’t go elsewhere. Everyone wins!

Perhaps email the manager and advise them you’d prefer them to advertise it being dog friendly.

Topseyt123 · Yesterday 16:50

If they are well behaved and under good control they don't bother me. I even like them and used to have two of my own.

Same with children.

You need to find a place that doesn't encourage dogs, though all are obliged to accept assistance dogs.

ChocolateCinderToffee · Yesterday 16:50

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:36

I am sorry that for whatever reason, you have never met any decent human beings and are surrounded by poor specimens of humanity in your social circle.i wonder why that is.

ODFOD

Queenncat · Yesterday 16:50

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · Yesterday 16:49

This is what’s so confusing
Dogs used to be just fine left tied up outside or left at home having a snooze
And the talk about separation anxiety.. surely this is 90% projection?

Babies used to be left outside in prams for fresh air. Ah the good ol days

Miyagi99 · Yesterday 16:50

Willope · Yesterday 16:31

Leave them at home in kennels or with a friend or family member obviously. It’s not hard.

Nope, our dog is part of the family and would always come on holiday with us.

Dobeebeedah · Yesterday 16:51

If you go on holiday with your dog eat a takeaway, sit outside, pub garden away from everyone else. We have had a dog (18 years) and never took him into a restaurant or cafe ever. A pub that didn't serve food, yes if allowed. It was just part of being a dog owner. He loved every sort of food apart from fruit and chewing gum so wasn't safe to take in anywhere, so we didn't.

We live near an outlet centre and the number of bloody dogs in all the shops is dreadful and I hate it. It is not a suitable place for them and there are lots of children around. Leave the dog in a daycare or kennels if you are away on holiday, otherwise at home.

WerewolfOfLoudon · Yesterday 16:51

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:31

I briefly read about a case in the Outer Hebrides. A community charity-funded café is being threatened with closure because they can’t afford the legal funds to defend themselves in a case where a woman is insisting that she should be allowed to bring her dog in. Depressing.

It's shocking she's doing that, daughter of the actress who played MASHs Hoolihan.

Started off suing the wrong place and costing them a fortune in legal fees too. She will close down a community hub for a community she doesn’t lie in because she can't leave her dog at home.

I don't hate dogs but this sort of dog owner is the problem.

YANBU @Doseofreality , environmental health is supposed to ensure animal hair doesn't reach food, 3 dogs in such a small area doesn't sound clean to me.

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · Yesterday 16:51

I left my (now toddler) outside in the garden
He seems fine

ACynicalDad · Yesterday 16:51

Generally dogs are dogs not humans, shouldn't be on public sofas etc, one smallish dog that is well trained is very different and 3 large dogs very uncommon.

Nothungrycat · Yesterday 16:52

Spaniels4Eva · Yesterday 16:23

But if you're on holiday what are you supposed to do with your dogs? Genuine question btw. You can't leave them in the holiday accommodation unattended, so are you not supposed to eat out the entire time you're away?

Dog friendly restaurants/bars/cafes have recognised this and appear to cater for those people. So surely the answer is just find ones where dogs aren't welcome.

I've just been away with a friend who travels a lot in the UK with her (lovely and well-behaved) dog. She has taught the dog that the boot of her car is his safe space. It obviously doesn't work on hot summer days, but he was entirely fine sitting there for a couple of hours at a time with the windows cracked open while she nipped to art galleries, shops or anywhere where dogs might not be welcome. She'd then take him on a long walk where he could happily do doggy things! There is a way around these things.

Ooodelally · Yesterday 16:52

I have several dogs and never inflict them on people trying to eat. Even when impeccably behaved they still shed, fart and can always be unpredictable at the worst possible moment on account of being animals rather than accessories…

Nonna67 · Yesterday 16:53

It's the furry pound I'm afraid. I would rather a pub full of dogs, than feral children and their yummy mummies on Prosecco at 8pm!

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:53

Queenncat · Yesterday 16:43

So you must think that all blokes wash their hands after they've been to the toilet then.. otherwise you'd never go out in public of course.

What’s your point? I would feel disgusted if I saw the server take a wee and then not wash his hands. But I was not witness to that. It’s not a race to the bottom though.

It is becoming very clear from your posts what kind of owner you are. Thankfully there are many good owners on this thread. You give them a bad name though, which is a shame.

Sarahjane841 · Yesterday 16:53

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

I agree. Dogs are not people! It is getting ridiculous! If places want to accommodate them, they should absolutely have dog friendly and dog free areas. I have allergic asthma and really notice that dogs are allowed everywhere now!

yellowspanner · Yesterday 16:53

I agree. I hate dogs in restaurants. I hate their owners even more when they tell me 'they're just being friendly' Dogs should never be allowed anywhere that food is being served.

NervousSheepy · Yesterday 16:54

I'm not keen, but tablets with the sound up annoy me more.

FannybygaslightinGovan · Yesterday 16:54

Ffs another thread moaning about dogs.

I'd rather be in a restaurant filled with dogs than people moaning about dogs.

And I don't even have a bloody dog.

bananaobama · Yesterday 16:54

Dog owners behave atrociously now

we have a relative who insists on bringing their (large) dog whenever they visit. Why can’t the shitty bastard be alone for a couple hours?

Mooselove · Yesterday 16:54

Gloriia · Yesterday 16:26

You have a picnic, you eat at your accommodation, you get takeaways. It is not rocket science.

Well I don't want to eat a picnic in the rain or always eat at the accommodation or have a grotty takeaway thank you.

Me and DH have had dogs for almost 50 years and for most of those years dogs were not allowed in cafes or restaurants nor in most hotel and often not in pubs. We had no choice therefore but to sit outside whether it was pouring, freezing cold or red hot. Now, thankfully, we have come in line with most of Europe and we can sit inside in comfort with our dog

DuckDowned · Yesterday 16:55

Gutachenow · Yesterday 16:43

Luckily we dog owners don’t care about your whinging. Find a place that doesn’t allow dogs or stay at home if you don’t like it. 🐕

Have you seen the many responsible dog owners here who disagree with you? Please don’t generalise, as many are better than you.

Gloriia · Yesterday 16:55

Limeandfigs · Yesterday 16:40

You could equally say the same about those who don't want to see a dog when they're eating.

The world is full of other people (and if you think people are more hygienic than dogs I have bad news about just how many people DON'T wash their hands after using the loo, and also about how dirty the phone you're typing on is) and we all have to rub along together.

There are plenty of establishments that don't allow dogs which those who don't like animals could patronise.

There's also plenty of dog-friendly establishments for those that want to take their dogs with them.

There's room for both, it's a big enough world.

What?! Restaurants and cafes are for people.

Leave your dog at home. No one wants it sat licking it's bum or shaking fur everywhere whilst they're trying to enjoy a meal or coffee out.

Gutachenow · Yesterday 16:55

I love these threads. All the foaming at the mouth when there is nothing you can do about it. The majority want to be able to take their dogs with them when they are out for the day and that usually includes a meal out too. The RSPCA says that dogs shouldn’t be left alone for more than four hours so it makes sense to include them on days out from that perspective too.
People should train their feral, screaming brats before criticising dog owners IMO.
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