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Husband has ruined dinner

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OnAJetPlane26 · 23/08/2026 16:24

I’m been upstairs packing for a holiday so asked husband to cook dinner, all of the ingredients for a shepards pie are in the fridge/cupboard.
Came down and thought.. That smells nothing like shepards pie. He has poured an entire jar of Passata and half a jar of parsley into the meat.
Im going to beans on toast. My AIBU is this..
YABU.. Sounds fine to me.
YANBU.. He has made bolognese with mash potatoes and gravy.

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FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:14

chirrupybird · 23/08/2026 17:11

Usually in tubs not jars, jars sound more like some sort of paste or something.

I can't think I've ever seen dried herbs in tubs - maybe pre-made mixes occasionally.

Herbs and spices come in glass jars - Schwartz if you're feeling flush, own brand if not, but always those little skinny glass jars.

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:15

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:14

I can't think I've ever seen dried herbs in tubs - maybe pre-made mixes occasionally.

Herbs and spices come in glass jars - Schwartz if you're feeling flush, own brand if not, but always those little skinny glass jars.

Asda value mixed herbs and similar come in small plastic tubs. Plastic containers. Not glass jars.

tilypu · 23/08/2026 17:15

For everyone that hasn't heard of jars of dried herbs - what country do you live in?

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:15

Oh Ground pepper - that comes in a plastic pot (it's still tall though, so I'd call it a pot rather than a tub I think - or more likely container TBH). Unground comes in jars though still

PhaedraTwo · 23/08/2026 17:16

tilypu · 23/08/2026 17:13

Do you not go to a supermarket, like, ever?

Exactly - how is it possible to be old enough to post on MN and not know you can buy jars of dried herbs? It's like saying you didn't know sliced bread and tins of baked beans exist.

Createausername1970 · 23/08/2026 17:16

OnAJetPlane26 · 23/08/2026 17:10

I did try it, I didn’t like it.
DS is not a child.
DH & DS could not give a toss that I had beans on toast, really really, they do not care.

So, pray tell.... what is the point of your post?

julie3001 · 23/08/2026 17:16

Mumalala · 23/08/2026 16:28

How do you get parsley in a jar?

You can get dried parsley in supermarkets

countrylifeorcitylife · 23/08/2026 17:16

Laughing at everyone who didn’t know about parsley in a jar. I was the opposite way and didn’t know Parmesan was kept in the fridge and not the cupboard because growing up we always had the tub of Parmesan 😂

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:16

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:15

Asda value mixed herbs and similar come in small plastic tubs. Plastic containers. Not glass jars.

Ahh, yes, now you say it - if you buy the bigger containers of mixed then that's plastic - like 'italian herbs' or whatever.

tilypu · 23/08/2026 17:16

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:15

Asda value mixed herbs and similar come in small plastic tubs. Plastic containers. Not glass jars.

They are the exception, and they are sitting next to the glass jars of herbs and spices.

SewYellowLikeButter · 23/08/2026 17:17

It’ll be absolutely fine stop being weird

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:17

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:16

Ahh, yes, now you say it - if you buy the bigger containers of mixed then that's plastic - like 'italian herbs' or whatever.

Exactly

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:17

tilypu · 23/08/2026 17:16

They are the exception, and they are sitting next to the glass jars of herbs and spices.

Still not a glass jar though.

NoWordForFluffy · 23/08/2026 17:18

OnAJetPlane26 · 23/08/2026 16:41

The sauce consistency, it was really thick and the parsley was overpowering. He did this last time I asked him to cook.. I’d made a curry and asked him to cook some rice so it was ready when I finished work, he added Turmeric to the rice because he thought it would taste nice, it didn’t.

Nonsense. Yellow rice (as we call it) is lovely.

Jellycatspyjamas · 23/08/2026 17:18

Itsa10fromLen · 23/08/2026 16:30

It’s giving middle class isn’t it? 😂

If by middle class you mean insufferable snobbery.

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:18

OK.. but.. a couple of value mixed spices being in plastic doesn't negate the fact that the vast majority of dried herbs, especially single-type ones like the aforementioned parsley, definitely come in jars, pretty much exclusively, and on the same section of shelves as the plastic mixed herb pots.

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:19

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:18

OK.. but.. a couple of value mixed spices being in plastic doesn't negate the fact that the vast majority of dried herbs, especially single-type ones like the aforementioned parsley, definitely come in jars, pretty much exclusively, and on the same section of shelves as the plastic mixed herb pots.

I have big plastic tubs of dried herbs that I got from the cash n carry but clearly I’m not middle class 🤣🤣🤣🤣

diddl · 23/08/2026 17:19

Were the gravy & passata both in with the mince?

Not sure about that if so.

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:19

NoWordForFluffy · 23/08/2026 17:18

Nonsense. Yellow rice (as we call it) is lovely.

And the very best for if you're having kedgeree.

SewYellowLikeButter · 23/08/2026 17:19

chirrupybird · 23/08/2026 17:11

Usually in tubs not jars, jars sound more like some sort of paste or something.

If it’s glass it’s a jar. Every supermarket sells dried herbs in glass jars. That doesn’t mean they’re in big jam jars they’re in herb jars.

Megifer · 23/08/2026 17:20

Op it'll be fine, I use passatta or chopped tomatoes in a cottage pie. Stick a couple of beef stock cubes/pots in, some mixed herbs if you have them, and you'll wonder why youve not used it before.

And lolz at all the "parsley in a jar?" faux surprise posts.

diddl · 23/08/2026 17:20

Mumalala · 23/08/2026 16:28

How do you get parsley in a jar?

Take the lid off & put it in?

SewYellowLikeButter · 23/08/2026 17:21

diddl · 23/08/2026 17:19

Were the gravy & passata both in with the mince?

Not sure about that if so.

Bourguignon often has both tomato paste (just a more concentrated Passata) and beef stock.

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/08/2026 17:21

Knickerstoya · 23/08/2026 17:19

I have big plastic tubs of dried herbs that I got from the cash n carry but clearly I’m not middle class 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yes, Costco also does big plastic jars (I'd call them jars - taller than wide and seethrough) - but the vast majority of people don't need half a kilo of dried parsley in one go, and buy it in little glass jars from the supermarket (and they still go out of date by the time you're getting to the end of it).

OnAJetPlane26 · 23/08/2026 17:22

Createausername1970 · 23/08/2026 17:16

So, pray tell.... what is the point of your post?

It was supposed to be light hearted.

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