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Which burger would you prefer?-Cultural differences?

236 replies

Stopshoutingtv · Yesterday 21:55

Option A: Bbq burger on a burger bap with cheese, ketchup, salad, wedges and corn on the cob

Option B: Grilled burger (no bap etc) with plain pasta and salt

We had Dds friend over for lunch after Dd asked her if she wanted to come for burgers and toasted marshmallows. She was quite confused about the burger as has it like option B at home, aside from at McDonald’s.

Which burger do you prefer and can anyone guess which country we’re in?

OP posts:
rubyrued · Today 07:58

I wouldn’t say B was France at all as someone with French family

101Alsatians · Today 08:01

@Stopshoutingtv Finland?

muddyford · Today 08:01

Thank you for saying 'bap'. To me a bun is sweet, rounded bread lump, perhaps with dried fruit in it, like a hot cross bun without the spice. Didn’t have them in bread growing up. My mother made the best beefburgers ever!

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Today 08:05

Never heard of option B so am curious. I would have assumed fussy eater.

Snufkin88 · Today 08:08

Burger with pasta sounds so unappetising

QuintadosMalvados · Today 08:08

rubyrued · Today 07:39

Option 2 sounds like prison food

I agree.
I don't wish to be harsh, if that's all you got to eat/afford I wouldn't mock at all.

but to pick this when you've got the choice of option A?

Obviously it's a kid that picked this and it would be truly awful to mock that child but yeah if it were another adult and I knew them well enough, knew they didn't have to only eat burgers and pasta out of be necessity and had no eating disorders I'd be a bit WTF? albeit in a jokey way.

PuggyPuggyPuggy · Today 08:13

By definition I would have said a burger is meat-in-a-bun. You can add other things, but it's not a burger without the meat, or the bun. Come to think of it, there's also veggie burgers so reall it's just something-in-a-bun 😆

If someone asks if you want to come round for pizza and puts some kind of pepperoni, cheese, tomato concoction on a pile of rice, it's not pizza.

Franxi · Today 08:14

rubyrued · Today 07:58

I wouldn’t say B was France at all as someone with French family

I was served this at friends houses growing up in France.

diddl · Today 08:14

I remember as a kid having burger (no bun), chips & salad.

Not that different to B.

If I have a burger in a bun at home I wouldn't have chips/wedges as well.

PollyBell · Today 08:15

Option b isnt a burger that i can see

DoAWheelie · Today 08:16

B style was quite common for me growing up. Burgers were basically cheep steak to us and used the same way, so with mash and gravy, chips and beans, chopped up with noodles or pasta etc.

Attictroll · Today 08:18

Haven’t seen an option like B since the 70s tbh.

Munchie1965 · Today 08:18

Italy!

drspouse · Today 08:21

Not guessing as my ideas have been done, but here (NW) it seems to be a burger bun, and a sausage or bacon roll or barm. Which is confusing for me having grown up calling them baps.

rubyrued · Today 08:21

@Franxisteak hache & plain pasta? Not everyone in France can cook though.

NoNameNoOne · Today 08:23

Persephonia1966 · Today 02:31

Is it one of these?

  • Afghanistan
  • Albania
  • Algeria
  • Andorra
  • Angola
  • Antigua and Barbuda
  • Argentina
  • Armenia
  • Australia
  • Austria
  • Azerbaijan
  • Bahamas
  • Bahrain
  • Bangladesh
  • Barbados
  • Belarus
  • Belgium
  • Belize
  • Benin
  • Bhutan
  • Bolivia
  • Bosnia and Herzegovina
  • Botswana
  • Brazil
  • Brunei
  • Bulgaria
  • Burkina Faso
  • Burundi
  • Cabo Verde
  • Cambodia
  • Cameroon
  • Canada
  • Central African Republic
  • Chad
  • Chile
  • China
  • Colombia
  • Comoros
  • Congo, Democratic Republic of the
  • Congo, Republic of the
  • Costa Rica
  • Cote d'Ivoire
  • Croatia
  • Cuba
  • Cyprus
  • Czechia
  • Denmark
  • Djibouti
  • Dominica
  • Dominican Republic
  • Ecuador
  • Egypt
  • El Salvador
  • Equatorial Guinea
  • Eritrea
  • Estonia
  • Eswatini
  • Ethiopia
  • Fiji
  • Finland
  • France
  • Gabon
  • Gambia
  • Georgia
  • Germany
  • Ghana
  • Greece
  • Grenada
  • Guatemala
  • Guinea
  • Guinea-Bissau
  • Guyana
  • Haiti
  • Honduras
  • Hungary
  • Iceland
  • India
  • Indonesia
  • Iran
  • Iraq
  • Ireland
  • Israel
  • Italy
  • Jamaica
  • Japan
  • Jordan
  • Kazakhstan
  • Kenya
  • Kiribati
  • Kosovo
  • Kuwait
  • Kyrgyzstan
  • Laos
  • Latvia
  • Lebanon
  • Lesotho
  • Liberia
  • Libya
  • Liechtenstein
  • Lithuania
  • Luxembourg
  • Madagascar
  • Malawi
  • Malaysia
  • Maldives
  • Mali
  • Malta
  • Marshall Islands
  • Mauritania
  • Mauritius
  • Mexico
  • Micronesia
  • Moldova
  • Monaco
  • Mongolia
  • Montenegro
  • Morocco
  • Mozambique
  • Myanmar
  • Namibia
  • Nauru
  • Nepal
  • Netherlands
  • New Zealand
  • Nicaragua
  • Niger
  • Nigeria
  • North Korea
  • North Macedonia
  • Norway
  • Oman
  • Pakistan
  • Palau
  • Palestine
  • Panama
  • Papua New Guinea
  • Paraguay
  • Peru
  • Philippines
  • Poland
  • Portugal
  • Qatar
  • Romania
  • Russia
  • Rwanda
  • Saint Kitts and Nevis
  • Saint Lucia
  • Saint Vincent and the Grenadines
  • Samoa
  • San Marino
  • Sao Tome and Principe
  • Saudi Arabia
  • Senegal
  • Serbia
  • Seychelles
  • Sierra Leone
  • Singapore
  • Slovakia
  • Slovenia
  • Solomon Islands
  • Somalia
  • South Africa
  • South Korea
  • South Sudan
  • Spain
  • Sri Lanka
  • Sudan
  • Suriname
  • Sweden
  • Switzerland
  • Syria
  • Taiwan
  • Tajikistan
  • Tanzania
  • Thailand
  • Timor-Leste
  • Togo
  • Tonga
  • Trinidad and Tobago
  • Tunisia
  • Turkey
  • Turkmenistan
  • Tuvalu
  • Uganda
  • Ukraine
  • United Arab Emirates (UAE)
  • United Kingdom (UK)
  • United States of America (USA)
  • Uruguay
  • Uzbekistan
  • Vanuatu
  • Vatican City (Holy See)
  • Venezuela
  • Vietnam
  • Yemen
  • Zambia
  • Zimbabwe

If yes, which one?

And now no reply.....

5128gap · Today 08:24

We were served burgers that way in Italy. I didn't enjoy it.

LivingDeadGirlUK · Today 08:26

ffs, all that and no answer!

Tulipvase · Today 08:26

I’d have said Poland, haven’t read the whole thread.

AgentCooperdreamsofTibet · Today 08:26

Read all seven pages and there's no answer yet.

Plain burgers were a staple dinner when I was young (80s/90s) but usually served with potatoes and veg (carrots and peas) or salad - never pasta. I've been known to crumble leftover burger patties from a bbq into tinned tomatoes for a very quick and bastardised version of spag bol though (a few drops of worcestershire sauce helps too).

We go through a merry dance with my mum whenever we go to any sort of pub lunch type place. She always says she's not very hungry so will just have the burger. We have to point out that this will be a burger on a bun, with cheese and other toppings - look, just as it says on the menu. She'll study the description again and be all, well, I never. I just can't see it coming like that. We're not in an American diner. Insists on ordering it anyway and is then aghast when a tower of bread, meat and cheese arrives. Every bloody time.

HoppingPavlova · Today 08:26

We’ve only ever said burger bun🤷‍♀️

LejlaKapovic · Today 08:28

Stopshoutingtv · Yesterday 21:55

Option A: Bbq burger on a burger bap with cheese, ketchup, salad, wedges and corn on the cob

Option B: Grilled burger (no bap etc) with plain pasta and salt

We had Dds friend over for lunch after Dd asked her if she wanted to come for burgers and toasted marshmallows. She was quite confused about the burger as has it like option B at home, aside from at McDonald’s.

Which burger do you prefer and can anyone guess which country we’re in?

Option B is not even a burger. It's a really strange combination that I've never seen before. A patty with PASTA?! What the Hell?!

ApolloandDaphne · Today 08:29

Finland? My SIL lives there and makes some strange combos.

Tweetypie30 · Today 08:29

Greece?

Natsku · Today 08:29

101Alsatians · Today 08:01

@Stopshoutingtv Finland?

Not unheard of, though the patties are much smaller than normal burgers and you'd have several. With ketchup.