to want to think up ingenious ways of torturing the (((insert word of choice))) that hit me and the kiddies last october........

[Psychomum5]

..........with his car, making me think (and I still cannot rid myself of the picture in my head), that my darling eldest daughter was dead in the seat next to me, and is now being an utter fucking wanking tosspot shity bastard of the highest order by................

saying that it was not him driving, he had sold the car, and they were inpersonating him!!!!

since the accident he has...

1, sent ballifs to our door demanding payment for the recovery and storage of his manky mazda written off car.

2, said that I was the one driving dangerously and erratically and weaving around parked cars

3, (the latest), has now denied causing the accident, saying that he had sold the caar 5 days before said accident (and yet he was still paying for the insurance

now, the police attended the scene, they spoke to the tosser man, and HE admitted liability AT THE SCENE.......the police CONFIRMED to us, while we were in A&E and I was being treated for chest injuries and the children were being treated for broken nose/head injuries/friction burns etc, that he was the cause going on the statements taken, and I know what happened.....and yet.....and yet......

I now need to provide a detailed statement of truth about what happened, what he looked like, as do maybe the children.

we may need to go to court.

I may need to also now start criminal proceedings against him (not sure on that, the solicitor mentioned it, I have to now speak to police officer in charge when he is on duty tomorrow).

I do not need this.........we had grandma's ashes service today, it has been hard enough!.

soooooooooooooooooooooo

AIBU to want to dream up ways of torturing this bastard into just fucking agreeing to all this and letting me put this behind us all???

Hopefully the police will get you to do (if not already) an impact statement - detailing everything that's happened since the accident and how it has impacted on your day to day life - especially that of your dd1.

If they've haven't done one, maybe you could mention when you go to see the police about doing one, sometimes called a victim personal statement or impact statement.

If he still denies he was there and it goes to court, they will obviously have the officers there who spoke to him at the time and confirmed his details - they should have run checks on him at the time and all that should be recorded.

He is a total prick by the way, but that goes without saying. He's not thinking on how it impacted on you and your dc, just trying to squirm out of losing his licence probably. Selfish cock.

BUT......it will almost 100% likely be heading to court

muthahubbard.......the police I spoke to today said that there are things in his background within the immediate month that will immpact this (to do with driving)....I know what they are but cannot say here, for legal reasons.

they did checks tho, which is why we are certain now about court.......

method of torture.
string the bastard up against a wall legs spread eagled.one plank of wood with rusty nail in it.hit repeatedly in the knackers till it falls off

all painful methods sound v satisfying, but i suspect the junkmail one may be legal.
delete this thread and away you go...............

at utter twats!

I'm going to keep a camera in the car and take photos of the bastard if it ever happens to me

well, you lot have evil thoughts.......mwhahahahah.

driving lady thit is taking me out at the moment (for confidence lessons), also implied the junk mail route, altho not sure how to go abut that???

otherwise, am still fucking angry at him, and still wish for plagues of biblical preportions to rain down upon him!!!

one thing that no-one seems to have figured (or maybe they have and I am the stupid niave one), how on earth could HE have thought that I was driving badly and erratically, and therefore have caused the accident, if he was not there to witness said accident as he had sold the car???{hmmmm}

arghhhhhhh.......................MEN twats drivers!

I'm sure if we put our heads together we could find a huge range of free catalogues and brochures to sign this guy up to.

Brochures for say.... trannie clothes, hair loss, impotence, double glazing, holidays, tastefully painted plates with puppies or kittens on them, tupperware, avon, amway, xxx movies.......

Imagine what his postman would think or his neighbours if there was a mix up! he he he!!

Psycho - I am really sorry now for having a pop at your driving

No not the junk mail route - but instead sign him up for Morman and all these God bothers - they never let anyone go.

Or just send him things like Taxi's at stupid o' clock.

flashman.....you are forgiven....but thankyou lots for the apology. Means a lot that!

((which is all the wankoid needed to do.....say sorry!. the other guy did at the t'other accident.....said sorry, said he had not looked properly, I have now (finally) made my peace with that one....this one.....arghhhhh))

anyhoo.....yes......lots of ways of getting him back

oooh, and.....has she discovered the lack of shoes yet??

Nope I am still safe on the shoes - but it is only three weeks now to the due date and is currently like the Hulk on a bad day - If it is discovered now i will just run!!

I would love to know what she would say if she knew you were implying she was hulk on a bad day....!!!!

Sounds to me like he could be facing a driving ban which is why he's decided to try and get out of it now - especially if he drives for his job etc.

If he has 'form' then this is probably very likely.

What an idiot for admitting everything at the scene and producing his documents confirming who he was, and then trying to deny it!!

Have you been told when to attend court? He could be one of these idiots who denies it until the last second (trying it on) and then just coughs it and you won't end up going.

Fingers crossed he will plead at the last second x

not sure on court yet......solicitor has said that will be last (and worst) case scenario (sp?). the police are sending them all the documention on him and also the accident.......the sol's are also waiting on whatever the DVLA have on him, and then, if he is still denying then they will have to take statements from me and the chldren and then it may head towards court...

I am just so fucked off really.......he says I was at fault, and then says it wasn;t him (so how could he say I was at fault if he was not driving to see me be at fault???).....he is just a tosser, but I cannot get over it cos I have enough sodding issues anyway and this adds to it, and now I am scared cos I really do not want to end up in court for something so fucking petty as this, when insurance sorts it anyway.....

sorry for the swearing.......tis angry me I am afriad

and that was not supposed to be a , twas supposed to be a

psycho - I have told her many times that she is the hulk or Donzilla is another one!!!