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AIBU to think some weekly shops contain far too many snacks?and this is not grocery shopping!?

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Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 10:59

AIBU to think that the amount of processed snacks people buy in their grocery shopping is getting ridiculous? Watching people share their grocery shop on instagram etc and I can’t see what meals they can even make as it’s all snacks?? And then they say oh grocery shopping is so expensive!Do people really do this? I don’t buy any biscuits, fizzy drinks (18-20 pack slabs) or crisps as a part of me weekly family shop. I buy the meat, veg and pantry items. That is my weekly shopping. I buy one packet of oat bars for my DCs lunches. If my dc want a snack they have fruit, yogurt, homemade flapjacks etc.

OP posts:
ThreadGuardDog · 17/08/2026 13:18

TheCrowCrossRoad · 17/08/2026 13:16

God, yes. And 'sweet treat' and 'light bite' and things to 'munch' and 'chomp' and 'chow down on' and 'snaffle'. Just fuck off with your stupid food words. And stop 'offering'. Just give it to them.

’Grazing’ is bloody irritating too !!

Mapletree1985 · 17/08/2026 13:19

Gooseling · 17/08/2026 12:24

Chocolate or crisps with their own pocket money???

Poor little sods.

Isn't that what pocket money is for?

Mapletree1985 · 17/08/2026 13:20

DolphinOnASkateboard · 17/08/2026 11:49

As we're judging people we don't know based on a brief glimpse of their lives on the internet, can I say what I think about people who use "past time" instead of "pastime"?

Knock yourself out.

Ohdearnotthisagain · 17/08/2026 13:21

It never ceases to amaze me how many people on mumsnet make and talk about flap jacks. I had to google them the first time someone talked about them!

But OP I give you 5 stars for smugness.

In our weekly shop we buy snacks. For us it’s muffins, yoghurt topped rice crackers, popcorn and plain biscuits (this week). Devil’s food!!!! We also buy lots of fresh fruit and vegetables so maybe we get a star or two.

Noras · 17/08/2026 13:22

I would never judge someone as the reality is that when you are feeling low it’s easy to eat any old rubbish. Been there and got the t shirt.

However I do judge the food industry that is making people processed food junkies using science to encourage people to eat too much.

MageKing · 17/08/2026 13:23

BleedinglyObvious · 17/08/2026 12:23

The people who complain that fresh food is too expensive are probably the ones who buy 'snacks'.

I rarely buy biscuits but fancied some but when I looked at the prices, I left them there. I don't like the usual cheap ones like bourbon and custard creams but even they are something like £2.25 a kilo. Carrots are 69p a kilo.

The chocolate digestives I fancied were £8.46 a kilo.

that's not a reasonable comparison though. A serving of carrots would be heavier than a serving of a biscuit. Mcvities Digestives, which we like in this house, range in price but work out to about £2 per packet so roughly £6/kg. But a portion is 1 (me) or 2 (everyone else) biscuits. So if there are roughly 25 biscuits in a packet, each "serving" costs something like 16p.

Notaninfluencertype · 17/08/2026 13:26

Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 11:24

It’s not about being virtuous but people need to stop buying processed crap and actually meal plan if they want to reduce their shopping bills! It’s the “oh look I bought all this and it cost £150 and I’ll still have to do a top up shop in 3 days time!” Statements that are ridiculous! Well yeah no shit Sherlock because I’m you didn’t actually buy anything that constitutes a meal you bought snacks…

I’ll decide what I need to buy thanks.

SiberFox · 17/08/2026 13:27

70% of the UK population are overweight but everyone on mumsnet is ‘unclenched’ and healthy cooking from
scratch and also allowing themselves an occasional snack. Perfect harmony.

Howyoudoings · 17/08/2026 13:29

I agree had ppl say my food shop is really cheap, but we eat breakfast, lunch and dinner. People always question if it in includes cleaning products but never question if their shop contains loads of snacks, fizzy drinks , alcohol etc

Dovesono · 17/08/2026 13:29

Upsetbetty · 17/08/2026 11:15

I have my own eyeballed recipe I don’t use sugar or syrup. I use some coconut oil and it has oats and seeds etc, banana, dates (these are great for binding) and some almond or Peanut butter etc

What's an eyeballed recipe?

I buy processed snacks, but I don't use run-on sentences. Each to their own.

Mapletree1985 · 17/08/2026 13:30

takealettermsjones · 17/08/2026 11:56

🙄

In response to this and also your earlier comment, I think the reason people are pushing back is sanctimoniousness.

They're reading the sanctimony into it.

takealettermsjones · 17/08/2026 13:32

Mapletree1985 · 17/08/2026 13:30

They're reading the sanctimony into it.

It's pretty obvious that your comment means that you think enjoying creative hobbies and country walks is morally better than enjoying cigarettes and fatty foods. It's hardly a riddle.

SapphireSeptember · 17/08/2026 13:38

Lilyhatesjaz · 17/08/2026 12:53

You would have massively judged my last weeks shop. Magnums were on offer, I will say no more, except I am glad I have a big freezer.

I did that when Tesco had soleros and twisters on offer! I do not have a big freezer, but managed to get them all in somehow. Bloody needed them too with the hot weather. Now I'm down to ice pops.

Lomonald · 17/08/2026 13:39

TheCrowCrossRoad · 17/08/2026 13:16

God, yes. And 'sweet treat' and 'light bite' and things to 'munch' and 'chomp' and 'chow down on' and 'snaffle'. Just fuck off with your stupid food words. And stop 'offering'. Just give it to them.

I have a strange "urgh" reaction when I read or hear sweet treat. My friend has a baking business and I had to block her page because of her use of sweet treats! Just say cake or biscuits or whatever the things are

Mangelwurzelfortea · 17/08/2026 13:42

Humble brag first post alert.

Yeah people probably do eat too many snacks, it's almost like there's a massive industry marketing snacks to them.

PinkyFlamingo · 17/08/2026 13:43

I can't imagine caring whatsoever what other people eat and I can't imagine watching this kind of crap either and caring

Crikeyalmighty · 17/08/2026 13:43

crackofdoom · 17/08/2026 11:08

I absolutely do not watch other people's weekly shops on the conveyer belt at Lidl and think exactly the same thing. Oh no, not me 😳

(All those brightly coloured plastic multipacks though...)

Ha ha- that’s me- even in Waitrose and M&S I see it and particularly with lots of the students here - What look like full shops crammed with such a lot of crap and not much that looks as if it would make actual meals - maybe they go to the farm shop or Cook or something as we have lots round here

Jerrybalanitis · 17/08/2026 13:44

I made the doctor laugh the other day, he asked if I eat enough fibre and I told him I exist mainly on Coca-Cola, haribos and bread. Its true but I also do a load of pilates and other exercise, dont drink alcohol and am happy. He said I look like I eat a lot of vegetables which I hope was a compliment 😀 we eat what we like, i cannot imagine twitching my bumhole over other people's trolleys. I think its even sadder than looking at the trolleys on Instagram.

pinkspeakers · 17/08/2026 13:46

All these posters saying "why do you care?". I care because I care about the general health of the population. It matters. And yes I know that you can be healthy and eat some processed snacks. But I think that in a significant number of cases people eat badly and it is a problem.

Loub1987 · 17/08/2026 13:46

I couldn’t possibly say what other people’s weekly shopping contains as I don’t watch social media clips of it.

Mine probably does contain too many snacks but also lots of vegetables for the dinners I freshly prepare.

Why would anyone care what someone else’s shopping contains?

Princessfluffy · 17/08/2026 13:46

It’s truly shocking how much processed food the average Brit consumes and it’s reflected in the obesity epidemic and type 2 diabetes nightmare for the NHS. We are lining the pockets of Big Food Companies and destroying our own future health. It might be normal to buy loads of processed foods but it’s in no way good for health. Budget wise though it’s cheap whereas it ought to be heavily taxed. Government Fail.
Big Food and our government want to keep us all just about healthy enough to work whilst pumped up on long term expensive meds for blood pressure, diabetes etc. Big Food and Big Pharma
are the only winners here as the rich get so much richer.
Junk food is addictive, it’s chemically designed to manipulate us. As a nation we are papering over the problems of our lives by self soothing with junk food and alcohol. They are not the answer, they are part of the problem.

MargaretMeldrew · 17/08/2026 13:48

Maybe time to get off Instagram. Lentils to weave. Quinoa to knit.

Or start your own story showing everyone how to eat. There’s an Irish woman who comes up on my Facebook reels and she’s got smug down to a fine art. A bit of healthy competition for ye, so to speak.

Am Irish myself before I’m accused of xenophobia. Or something.

Gooseling · 17/08/2026 13:50

Mapletree1985 · 17/08/2026 13:19

Isn't that what pocket money is for?

Not for my kids, no.

Sartre · 17/08/2026 13:52

I’m judging you far more for watching videos of people unpacking food shopping than I am them for eating crisps and biscuits.

DrEmilyCrabtree · 17/08/2026 13:52

Instagram = upf for the brain

See I can judge too

If the shoppers are anything like me, 'proper' food comes from 1 shop (aldi/lidl/asda) and stuff like biscuits/drinks from another - Home bargains, where its generally cheaper (necessary, especially in schools holidays)

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