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Gift ideas for a 14-year-old boy housebound after a serious injury

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Peeeches · 13/08/2026 15:08

What can I buy as a nice gift for a 14 year old boy who is now housebound and immobile for the rest of the summer due to a severe injury?
He's a good friend of my DS, and I feel so sorry for him. DS and him are frequently out and about biking and climbing trees together; he's now confined to his sofa till October.
Would like to get a nice gift to give to DS to to give to him, but have no clue what to get.
Does anyone have ideas?
I know this isn't AIBU but this gets the most traffic.

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wordledrivingmemad · 13/08/2026 21:07

Does he like building/making stuff? ROKR do loads of wooden makes. I’ve done a few myself, they have loads of different prices and styles. Can get them on amazon.

Twogingercats · 13/08/2026 21:28

Bake him some chocolate chip cookies.
If you know him pretty well, how about something he can learn? Online course in something relevant to his interests. Could your son suggest anything? Something too cool for school.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 13/08/2026 21:29

VR headset

HoppityBun · 13/08/2026 21:29

Ask your son?

Itsgettinghotinere · 13/08/2026 21:30

Todolisttoolong · 13/08/2026 20:27

companionship. I am sure he would appreciate your DS staying in on some sunny days to play computer games with him more than any other gift.

My DS fractured his L4 last summer (bikes) and although he had electronics it was the company that made all the difference.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 13/08/2026 21:30

Or Raspberry Pie circuit building set

Peeeches · 14/08/2026 00:58

Thanks everyone.
Some brilliant ideas that I'm now looking in to.
Yes my DS is going round to hang out with him, despite being a lover of the outdoors especially over summer, DS is spending entire afternoons/evenings round at his friends house keeping him company, they're gaming, chatting, watching movies, playing games. DS is still going out with his other friends, and we've been abroad on holiday, so he can't be round there too regularly, but he's making sure he makes time to visit most weeks.
DS asked me to buy something for him to take round for a gift next time he visits. DS was stuck for ideas though.
Anyway I appreciate all the ideas, think I'll go with buying something he can build as his DM isn't keen on screen use. I like the indoor smores too. And I'll get DS to bake some cookies with me. Then he can take it all round next time.
Thanks for the ideas!🤗

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CoffeeBotherer · 14/08/2026 01:08

As others have said Lego is good as it gives him something to tinker with.

If he's arty then paint by numbers are very cheap, much better than before, and will occupy for hours. (Get a lined dust sheet to protect the sofa and floor!)

sashh · 14/08/2026 04:29

Organise a 'couch party'.

Get a few friends together, pay for a film rental if there isn't anything on his parents TV.

Supply popcorn and hot dogs - DS should be able to cook them. Add a cake and do 'party bags' with silly things in stickers, sweets, mini pencil sets- the kind of things you would give a six year old.

You could even add in pass the parcel.

Another idea, I have a Polaroid type instant camera which has gone down well with teens (at family gatherings it disappears and reappears with a pile of photos) but they are not cheap.

Gemst199 · 14/08/2026 07:25

My son had a digital drawing pad that plugs into his phone for his birthday, he likes to make his own animations - screen use but very different to YouTube/computer games.

Lizchapman · 14/08/2026 18:54

how about Lego if his injuries would allow him to assemble it.

BellaGoth · 14/08/2026 21:10

A card game like Fluxx (zombie Fluxx is a big favourite with my similar aged son) and company to play it.
Hope he's better soon.

failtegusslan · 15/08/2026 09:11

A friend's kid was given a huge balloon modelling kit in the same circumstances - he totally mastered it while stuck in bed for 2 months (leg was.in traction) and loved it.

Screamingabdabz · 15/08/2026 09:13

Millytante · 13/08/2026 20:22

A vintage Clash T shirt of course, and maybe a book token (assuming modern book tokens cover audio books too).

Or an actual book, if DS can give you a good steer re interests (if he lad’s a linguist for example, a book about all the delightful and gobsmacking words in Irish for animals and plants and so on. Great even for non-linguists; those with enquiring minds)
A really good world atlas, but published in the 1960s. Or an atlas of the antique world? If this kind of thing is his thing.

Very specific… 😆

wordledrivingmemad · 16/08/2026 08:43

How geeky is the child? One of mine likes making chainmail key rings. We got him a book and a little starter pack of jump rings off Amazon and he enjoys doing it.

Iftheskywasbkue · 16/08/2026 08:57

Gemst199 · 14/08/2026 07:25

My son had a digital drawing pad that plugs into his phone for his birthday, he likes to make his own animations - screen use but very different to YouTube/computer games.

Do you have a link for this please?

redboxerclub · 16/08/2026 16:38

Amazon voucher and haribo he can get what he wants needs from Amazon. Rubik’s cube food idea for someone incapacitated

Morepositivemum · 16/08/2026 16:41

Comics Lego or a chess set (everyone assumes at that age they only want gaming stuff but even all of my addicts will gravitate towards a gaming/ simpsons/ beano magazine if left with it!!!)

GoldenishFish · 17/08/2026 07:02

Steam gift card, good headphones, streaming subscription for a couple of months as suggested above

DistractMe · 17/08/2026 07:09

Pack of cards plus book of card games rules if he doesn't know many yet.

BCBird · 17/08/2026 07:23

I'd ask your son what he would appreciate if he was in similar circumstances

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