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Should personalised Christmas stockings be M & D for mummy and daddy, or their actual initials?

86 replies

Peterrabbity · 03/08/2026 11:10

I think M & D

DH thinks actual initials of our names.

Kids are aged 1 and 4!

OP posts:
catcatmewomeow · 03/08/2026 11:43

I think that names are better.

MiddleAgedDread · 03/08/2026 11:43

initials

principalskinna · 03/08/2026 11:44

Fuxake

ANewName2026 · 03/08/2026 11:44

Initials of actual names

OttersOnAPlane · 03/08/2026 11:45

Initials. Mum is not my real name.

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 03/08/2026 11:49

Personalised stockings for adults are cringey as fuck.

ScarlettSarah · 03/08/2026 11:59

First initial of actual name.

Bobbyelvis4ever · 03/08/2026 12:01

First initial. Your names are not mummy and daddy. At 1 and 4 your children already know this.

although certainly get M and D if you’re also getting S and D for Son and Daughter.

InterestedDad37 · 03/08/2026 12:01

Full names, including middle names, plus postcode and house number 👍

Kidsandhouse · 03/08/2026 12:02

It's August

34feeling54 · 03/08/2026 12:06

Bobbyelvis4ever · 03/08/2026 12:01

First initial. Your names are not mummy and daddy. At 1 and 4 your children already know this.

although certainly get M and D if you’re also getting S and D for Son and Daughter.

Does a 1 year old know that?

Either way, I really don't think it matters.

Father Christmas doesn't buy for adults in our house.

BeethovenNinth · 03/08/2026 12:06

Sweet Jesus Christ

Spacestory · 03/08/2026 12:06

Actual initials. By the time the children can read they’ll know you have a real name!

BumblebeesandPaperbags · 03/08/2026 12:09

While it really doesn’t matter for this purpose it is actually very important that your children learn their parents’ names (first name and surname) so anything that helps with that can only be a good thing.

FuzzyPuffling · 03/08/2026 12:14

BeethovenNinth · 03/08/2026 12:06

Sweet Jesus Christ

Yes, He's Christmas!

Morethanadecade · 03/08/2026 12:15

Actual initials.

nocoolnamesleft · 03/08/2026 12:16

It’s August. Christmas topics should not be escaping the specific Christmas forum this early. Please.

VodkaAndSoda · 03/08/2026 12:16

YABU not to post this in the Christmas topic.

Overitallnow · 03/08/2026 12:19

Really?????

Whoops75 · 03/08/2026 12:24

names

EllieQ · 03/08/2026 12:24

Actual initials, not M & D. You still have a name, not just mum!

We use DH’s stocking from his childhood, discovered when PIL were having a clear out. It has his name on, but mine doesn’t match his and isn’t personalised.

Our rule is that Father Christmas only brings stockings and presents for children, so DH and I do the stockings for each other as a treat. Though DD is 11 and doesn’t believe any more, so there’s no need to keep up the pretence 😀

Ineffable23 · 03/08/2026 12:25

Initials for actual names!

ToKittyornottoKitty · 03/08/2026 12:25

Unless the kids are buying presents for the stockings then it’s your actual name initials. Santa doesn’t fill stockings for mum and dad, they do it for eachother. And it’s not a secret that you have actual names

sohard · 03/08/2026 12:26

Actual initials.

blackberryhill · 03/08/2026 12:26

Your actual initials. As someone else said, by the time your children are old enough to identify letters they'll almost certainly know you have a real name (funnily enough I was discussing this with my 4 year old yesterday and he was under no illusions on the subject!)