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Kids chasing pigeons and ducks

103 replies

Aveno432 · 26/07/2026 17:17

Yet another day of seeing children chasing ducks with the parents doing fuck all to stop them. This was even worse in that the parents were both filming the two kids on their phones and obviously finding it funny and cute. Since when is terrifying animals funny? I see it regularly with pigeons and ducks and I'm so sick of it.

Aibu to think it's animal cruelty?

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BigGra · 27/07/2026 00:13

Pigeons and gulls are completely unfazed by being scattered, be it by a vehicle, a bike, a dog whatever. Their natural instinct is to move, so they are not being scared.
That being said its crap parenting to allow your children run at and ‘scare’ animals for a shits and giggles,

Conicallychronic · 27/07/2026 00:25

I would never let my kids do this. They have always been taught to respect animals. I don’t know what these parents are thinking, allowing such awful behaviour.

PearlofWisdo · 27/07/2026 00:28

Pigeons are fair game.

Ducks, no, especially if they’re with their bairns.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 27/07/2026 10:51

HollyhocksandPeons · 26/07/2026 20:48

Savages, children of savages.

100%!

AgentPidge · 27/07/2026 13:36

OchreSnake · 26/07/2026 19:22

Pigeons are vermin. I've never seen them 'terrified' whilst being chased; they go back to the exact spot they were chased from. Again and again.

They are domesticated birds that we've abandoned. I find their calls soothing. It's disgusting to call a creature 'vermin'. Who decides? Yes I probably have rats living in my garden ( never seen one but have seen holes.) They don't bother me.

W0tnow · 27/07/2026 13:37

I’ve never been able to get myself worked up about this and am surprised that others do.

Culpeper · 27/07/2026 13:38

Hateful little fuckers. I know exactly what type of feckless parents they have.

AgentPidge · 27/07/2026 13:39

seagullstolemypie · 26/07/2026 20:16

I don't care that you think it's a horrible attitude. After you've been hit at what seems like a million miles an hour by a ton of weight trying to grab a pie on it's way to your mouth, and blood drawn - seagulls deserve to be chased off. Nasty marauding seagulls tarnish them all with the same predatory brush. You can see them operating in gangs: the 'spotter', the 'fly-by-er', the 'distractor', the 'attacker'.

Try eating your pie without letting the birds at it. I seem to be able to manage it by covering up my chips when I'm eating. And shooing a seagull off your food is not the same as allowing children to harass birds.

GofE · 27/07/2026 13:44

wafflesmgee · 26/07/2026 19:22

Doesn’t bother me when it’s pigeons, I hate them and think they’re gross pooing everywhere. I’d tell a child to stop if it was bothering other humans eg making the birds fly at ppl eating in an outside restaurant

duck chasing i find so so, if it’s a little chase I wouldn’t mind, if it’s charging at them repeatedly whilst waving a stick for half n hour I’d tell the child to stop. Normally a child does it once or twice then moves on though, which I think is fair enough and not cruel.

in general I think children should come before animals though, it really annoys me when people put animals before children. This no doubt affects my response to your question!

Can both animals and children not matter?

I would rather teach a child to be kind than let them have their way and chase an animal, any animal.

aberamagold · 27/07/2026 14:03

I grew up by the sea, never had any problems with seagulls - till I went to St.Ives. Some terrifying evil fuckers there.

mishmashmess · 27/07/2026 14:08

aberamagold · 27/07/2026 14:03

I grew up by the sea, never had any problems with seagulls - till I went to St.Ives. Some terrifying evil fuckers there.

They're not evil - just entitled. 'Twas their beach before we all turned up en masse, after all. As far as they see it, a bit of free food is fair rent.

WildWindySeascape · 27/07/2026 14:22

I don’t think chasing is a big problem. This is literally what animals do to each other in the wild. This is precisely why birds have evolved to fly.

WildWindySeascape · 27/07/2026 14:26

However, I stop my children from doing it, loudly and performatively. Not because I am worried about the birds but because I know from mumsnet that some people get upset by it. Obviously throwing any object at birds is unacceptable.

Weekendnaughtiness · 27/07/2026 14:30

WildWindySeascape · 27/07/2026 14:26

However, I stop my children from doing it, loudly and performatively. Not because I am worried about the birds but because I know from mumsnet that some people get upset by it. Obviously throwing any object at birds is unacceptable.

I wouldn’t be happy with duck chasing because they’re so nervy and easily spooked plus the racket!!

Pidgeons…. I swear they antagonise people! So I really didn’t have an issue with my young children taking a run at them, especially given seconds later they return to precisely the same spot

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:14

AgentPidge · 27/07/2026 13:39

Try eating your pie without letting the birds at it. I seem to be able to manage it by covering up my chips when I'm eating. And shooing a seagull off your food is not the same as allowing children to harass birds.

Victim blaming! How very dare you. A child chasing off a threatening seagull is not harassment, it is defence. I previously said I do not like the chasing of pigeons and ducks, neither of which are predatory pie stealers.

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 16:18

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:14

Victim blaming! How very dare you. A child chasing off a threatening seagull is not harassment, it is defence. I previously said I do not like the chasing of pigeons and ducks, neither of which are predatory pie stealers.

You REALLY didn't take the loss of that pie well 😂

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 16:20

aberamagold · 27/07/2026 14:03

I grew up by the sea, never had any problems with seagulls - till I went to St.Ives. Some terrifying evil fuckers there.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cornwall-57886909

Unfortunately then you have people who feel justified doing things like this.

Porthgwidden beach

Man 'beat seagull to death' on St Ives beach

Police are appealing for witnesses after the alleged attack at Porthgwidden Beach in Cornwall.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cornwall-57886909

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:21

aberamagold · 27/07/2026 14:03

I grew up by the sea, never had any problems with seagulls - till I went to St.Ives. Some terrifying evil fuckers there.

100%, this. Spotters: oooh, an isolated victim, ripe for attack. Fly-byers: yep, all exits clear, it's a definite 'attack, attack, attack'. Distractors: oooh, look at me walking menacingly towards you so you don't see my mate about to swoop from behind. Attacker: ha, ha, sucker!

They recruit new gang members every season. Evil! Spawn of the devil.

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:30

@aberamagold Unfortunately then you have people who feel justified doing things like this.

That's awful. Cruel.

My only retaliation has been a wave of the fist and a few choice words before paying attention to the bleeding wound and scratches.

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:32

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 16:18

You REALLY didn't take the loss of that pie well 😂

Can you tell? Am I that obvious? 😂

FFSItsTooHot · 27/07/2026 17:18

This really annoys me. I see it frequently in the town centre that visit regularly. The parents do absolutely nothing,just stand there smiling indulgently at them (when they're not too busy staring at their phones).

50Balesofgrey · 27/07/2026 17:21

seagullstolemypie · 26/07/2026 17:21

I don't mind seagull chasing but ducks and pigeons should be left alone.

To be fair, it would be a brave kid that chased a seagull. Hard bastards, seagulls.

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 17:44

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 16:32

Can you tell? Am I that obvious? 😂

My DH is still salty (scuse the pun) about the Great Fish Theft in Whitby about a decade ago.

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 17:49

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 17:44

My DH is still salty (scuse the pun) about the Great Fish Theft in Whitby about a decade ago.

For the purists, it wasn't a pie the seagull stole, it was a lovely genuine, created and baked on the premises Pengenna Cornish Pasty. For those that know, they will realise this must have been a couple of years ago, before my favourite pie place closed down in St Ives (and I refuse to travel to Tintagel). Hold a seagull-centred grudge for years? Moi? Yep! I'm 'with' your DH and his saltiness around the Great Fish Theft. St Ives seagulls must go on holiday to Whitby.

SpaceRaccoon · 27/07/2026 17:51

seagullstolemypie · 27/07/2026 17:49

For the purists, it wasn't a pie the seagull stole, it was a lovely genuine, created and baked on the premises Pengenna Cornish Pasty. For those that know, they will realise this must have been a couple of years ago, before my favourite pie place closed down in St Ives (and I refuse to travel to Tintagel). Hold a seagull-centred grudge for years? Moi? Yep! I'm 'with' your DH and his saltiness around the Great Fish Theft. St Ives seagulls must go on holiday to Whitby.

I can genuinely understand your pain. A good pasty is a thing of beauty.
If it helps, I saw a Greater Blackback gull pinch someone's half lobster at the ferry terminal in Oban. And that was twenty years ago and I bet they're enraged every time they remember.

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