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Do parents think about the repercussions of sending their poorly child to nursery etc?

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Babycatsmummy · Today 09:01

Currently sat waiting to be admitted to the children’s ward with my 4 week old baby and I’m wondering if I’m being unreasonable here!

If you can clearly see you have an unwell child, why would you send them to nursery/childcare? I appreciate some parents have to work and it’s difficult to let your employer down but do people actually consider the domino effect?

my 2 year old came home 4 weeks ago the night before I was due for a c-section and started projectile vomiting all night. When I cane out with the baby 24 hours later, he was then taken to A&E with his breathing and stayed in to be treated for bronchitis. a week later he was back to his normal self.

Then on Saturday he developed a cough and cold. Sunday projectile diarrhoea and Monday again his breathing was awful. Trip to the GP and he’s been prescribed antibiotics, steroids and aerobiotics.

then my baby started to become unwell and last night we had to take him A&E where we are waiting to be admitted.

in the last 4 months we’ve had tonsillitis twice, chicken pox, hand foot and mouth and D&V!

the childminder sends out a newsletter and puts in big bold letters “ please do not send your child in if they are ill” and I’m constantly getting messages apologising because some parent has yet again decided to mark their child’s illness with calpol for a few hours!

I know children get ill quickly when so young because they are building their immune systems but are some parents really that selfish?!

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TempestTost · Today 14:39

Babycatsmummy · Today 12:50

Keeping them apart is very unrealistic. My toddler has just had this huge change in his life and my newborn is very dependent on me, obviously. My toddler’s behaviour has already changed and to keep him away from me would just encourage more more bad behaviour

If you don't want him to get infected at school you need to keep him home with you and the baby.

ByCosyGreyPoet · Today 15:00

Why didn't you get you get your toddler the chicken pox vaccine? And I would have taken my child out of childcare 2 weeks prior to my c section for this reason. I agree with you poeple are selfish as hell but you can only control your own actions mot other people's. I would have also kept my child at home for a month at least when I had a newborn. I'm not trying to be harsh but you need to make better decisions. People are never going to stop concealing illness in their kids. I have a 2 year old so I do know the realities of this.

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