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To think some things should just be turned away from A&E?

299 replies

ifallinlove · 14/07/2026 13:41

I saw a channel 4 video about a day in a&e during the heatwave.

The first guy seen was a bloke who had decided to walk across hot tarmac to get food while at the beach and now had burns on the bottom of his feet.

He said he had “forgotten to get shoes”. I’m sorry but it’s been 35 degrees for at least two weeks now. There is no way on earth that you “forget” to put shoes on. He made the decision to do it and now sought emergency care.

AIBU to say things like this should be redirected to minor injuries and the appropriate referrals made from there? It’s his own stupidity taking up a bed in a&e!

OP posts:
Askingforafriendtoday · 14/07/2026 19:48

ifallinlove · 14/07/2026 15:12

I’m just a normal person who is aware that when it’s hot, it’s too hot to walk barefoot on tarmac.

If it “burnt down to the bone” that implies a long, long time stood on the surface. It don’t occur to him at any point to slip a pair of shoes on?

See my post about people with diabetes, diagnosed or undiagnosed

MeridaBrave · 14/07/2026 19:54

I mean I think things that are not urgent and a GP should be able to deal with can be turned away, eg someone needing an antibiotic. But they come to A & E as hard to get GP appointment.

But burns on feet even if he is a total idiot surely he needs treatment.

Partingofthewaves · 14/07/2026 20:01

ifallinlove · 14/07/2026 19:00

The key being that you were sent there by a GP!

Yes but how do you know how people arrive at A&E? You can’t tell by looking at them. Someone else may have taken themselves there with the same symptoms and they wouldn’t be wrong to do so.

hahabahbag · 14/07/2026 20:03

Many city hospitals have a minor injury unit and an out of hours gp service all on the same campus, makes so much sense

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:31

HalzTangz · 14/07/2026 18:59

I think as long as they have paid national.onsurance they should be allowed treatment, anyone not paying NI should be billed

So disabled people who can’t work because they’re too disabled to work shouldn’t be treated because they’ve never paid national insurance ? You might want to rethink that.

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:35

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 17:34

What can you sue a&e for for turning you away?

A&E and walk in acute care both missed my husbands’ lung cancer. He didn’t even get the courtesy of a chest X-ray , despite presenting with what I now know were classic signs of the disease that they should have picked up on from the start. The only reason I didn’t sue them after he died (less than a month later after being admitted as an emergency when he collapsed) was that I don’t believe in profiting from the NHS’s mistakes. And neither did he.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 20:41

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:35

A&E and walk in acute care both missed my husbands’ lung cancer. He didn’t even get the courtesy of a chest X-ray , despite presenting with what I now know were classic signs of the disease that they should have picked up on from the start. The only reason I didn’t sue them after he died (less than a month later after being admitted as an emergency when he collapsed) was that I don’t believe in profiting from the NHS’s mistakes. And neither did he.

Edited

Why do you think you could’ve sued them though, and why do you think it would’ve been successful?

what all these “I went to a&e with a cut lip and it turned out I had cancer” takes sort of miss the point that a&e isn’t there to diagnose chronic conditions. Cancer is not something you treat in emergency medicine. These are long term specialist treatment plans (as you obv know better than most) it isn’t a failing of a&e not the diagnose chronic conditions

notatinydancer · 14/07/2026 20:49

Blueyblueyblue · 14/07/2026 13:54

I was sent to A & E by the practice nurse. I had, what I thought was fairly mild breathlessness. The receptionist at A & E took one look at me and asked if my GP was closed.

I was subsequently admitted to hospital with multiple blood clots in both lungs.

This is the difficulty with turning people away. Who wants to take that risk?

Edited

That is not a decision for a receptionist to make.

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 20:52

YABU
Stupidity and carelessness is a common reason for people to end up in A&E but the reason does not matter... the treatment of their injury does.

user293948849167 · 14/07/2026 20:53

I think everyone should be seen and triaged, then after that some people should be turned away. I would say burnt feet is exactly the kind of thing A&E is for though even if it was caused by stupidity

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 20:56

user293948849167 · 14/07/2026 20:53

I think everyone should be seen and triaged, then after that some people should be turned away. I would say burnt feet is exactly the kind of thing A&E is for though even if it was caused by stupidity

Even triage can get it wrong.
I broke my foot, could walk on my heel but not my whole foot. The triage nurse outright accused me of making it up and said I was walking fine... then said I did it on purpose (how?). She begrudgingly booked me in to have an x-ray.
It is a shame she did not see me hobble out in a boot with crutches, and a follow up appointment to the fracture clinic.

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:58

user293948849167 · 14/07/2026 20:53

I think everyone should be seen and triaged, then after that some people should be turned away. I would say burnt feet is exactly the kind of thing A&E is for though even if it was caused by stupidity

So when they’re turned away, where do you suggest they go ? Given that a GP appointment is often too late to stop a condition turning from minor to needing inpatient or similar treatment ?

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:59

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 20:56

Even triage can get it wrong.
I broke my foot, could walk on my heel but not my whole foot. The triage nurse outright accused me of making it up and said I was walking fine... then said I did it on purpose (how?). She begrudgingly booked me in to have an x-ray.
It is a shame she did not see me hobble out in a boot with crutches, and a follow up appointment to the fracture clinic.

Absolutely this. Triage missed an advanced lung cancer in my DH’s case. He was discharged with pain killers and a referral for physio for a trapped nerve. He was dead a couple of months later.

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 21:01

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 20:52

YABU
Stupidity and carelessness is a common reason for people to end up in A&E but the reason does not matter... the treatment of their injury does.

Totally agree. The concept of A&E being a safety net is lost on MN.

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 21:02

notatinydancer · 14/07/2026 20:49

That is not a decision for a receptionist to make.

Maybe not, but receptionists have seen their fair share. It’s not ideal but heigh ho.

Tryagain26 · 14/07/2026 21:03

I don't think that being a self inflicted injury should make any differences most accidents are self inflicted in a way, because they are often caused by carelessness, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't be treated.
Burns can quickly become infected and cause sepsis if not treated properly. And not all areas have minor injury clinics anyway.

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 21:04

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 20:59

Absolutely this. Triage missed an advanced lung cancer in my DH’s case. He was discharged with pain killers and a referral for physio for a trapped nerve. He was dead a couple of months later.

Sorry to hear that. That is awful Flowers

sparklyblueberry2 · 14/07/2026 21:07

I wouldn’t turn people away but health promotion and education is key. People that arrive at A&E with injuries from the silliest of things know they’ve been silly but some polite health education goes a long way whilst they are being assessed. Sunburn for example…we see it a lot….assess, treat accordingly and educate and hope they learn that lesson.

ChoosingMyOwnRandomUsername · 14/07/2026 21:07

now I’d never had either of these above conditions before and with HINDSIGHT they’re not remotely serious but sudden onset incoherent pain or what felt like paralysis was really frightening

Dh rushed me to A&E the first time I had an ocular migraine. Absolutely harmless and rarely even something to bother a GP with, never mind A&E. But at the time, one minute I was cooking dinner and two minutes later I was blind in one eye and half blind in the other...it was utterly terrifying, I thought I was having a stroke or haemorhage and my number was up 🙈

Saladbargirl · 14/07/2026 21:10

PenandPip · 14/07/2026 13:52

I was in A&E about four weeks. I was in absolute agony, kidney stone that had to be removed with surgery and then got a kidney stent put in to. Anybody who has had kidney stones will understand the pain.

I waited 9 hours to be seen, obviously no proper triage, just waiting time. I was disgusted at the amount of time wasters. So many laughing, chatting, eating,smoking while I was on my hands and knees in pain vomiting into a bag. There were at least five names called that left before they were seen, so obviously not that unwell.One woman was with her husband and was told she could be waiting another four hours. Husband asked her if she wanted to wait and she said " no ,we will go home and I will just take a motilium ".

Don't get be started on the drug users and drunks who get seen before everyone because they are brought in by the police.

Right ok, one time I was actually sitting there laughing with my partner and eating dairy milk as I felt awful, I ended up having urosepsis and ended up in ICU due to my blood results. You have no idea why anyone is in there.

XenoBitch · 14/07/2026 21:15

Saladbargirl · 14/07/2026 21:10

Right ok, one time I was actually sitting there laughing with my partner and eating dairy milk as I felt awful, I ended up having urosepsis and ended up in ICU due to my blood results. You have no idea why anyone is in there.

I was laughing and joking, but had a broken foot (that only hurt if I tried to stand on it).
Weird how some people think that you are only genuine if you are sombre and/or groaning in pain.

I used to work in a children's hospital, and the patients in A&E would often be playing and zooming about.

GreenCa · 14/07/2026 21:16

ifallinlove · 14/07/2026 14:25

Our a&e asks breaks to attend MIU, or UTC, not a&e.

We don't have either of those in our large Northern city. We have to go to A&E. Register wait to be triaged and then get sent to the minor injuries area of the A & E.

allthingsinmoderation · 14/07/2026 21:17

Depends on the extent of the burns and any systemic complications and any underlying conditions. I don't think the idea that a person brought it on themselves is of any relevance as to wether this is a matter for A&E or minor injuries unit.

GreenCa · 14/07/2026 21:20

thisandthats · 14/07/2026 14:28

Unfortunately (for you) how triage works is they look at symptoms according to risk of life and risk of rapid deterioration. So someone with chest pain, even if they seem OK within themselves, will be seen sooner than others in case it's a heart attack. Burns will also be seen quickly as if untreated they get worse and worse. Kidney stones is crazy painful but equally not an immediate or urgent risk for life so it's one of those situations where you have a long wait with horrible symptoms. It feels really awful and unfair but that's the way it goes sadly.

For my own part I had a pretty awful 15 hour wait last year with a thunderclap headache, impaired vision and nonstop vomiting. I had a pretty frank discussion with the doc who explained that either it was a terrible migraine (dreadful but not life threatening) or a brain hemorrhage (life threatening but not time critical) I was a lower priority even though I was probably the sickest person in the waiting area.

Fair enough right.

A brain haemorrhage is very time critical!

PinkJ · 14/07/2026 21:36

Ithinkhesamerdog · 14/07/2026 13:59

It's just who I am. A consequence of abuse. I don't need congratulations. I just need recognition that you can't see how ill someone is

If you were significantly unwell you would not be 'chatting to a friend' 💯, I'm sure a GP or minor injuries would have sufficed....there are people in cardiac arrest being treated whilst you're chatting away!