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AIBU to consider reporting someone I believe is committing benefit fraud?

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Hereforadviceee · Yesterday 00:11

Would you report someone for benefit fraud?

Just that. It’s someone I used to know quite well but drifted apart from mainly due to this and from time to time I feel angry that they have made a living out of coning the system and quite often people around them. They claim they can’t walk or leave the house but go to at least 6 countries a year and do a mix of sports regularly they post online.

It hits a nerve as a lot of my family members are genuinely disabled and have struggled to get the right support. This person doesn’t have to pay council tax has every benefit you can think of and will literally use a wheelchair whenever their pip stops then go back to the sports and hiking holidays they do regular whilst claiming they can’t work and they even have been awarded carers to come in and help them. I’ve known this person for nearly 2 decades and they started this in their teens and would often brag about it and how to do it and even helped other friends at the time get awarded benefits so it’s not a case I don’t know them enough to know it’s bullshit. I always thought they would grow out of it as their life progressed.

I don’t think I actually will mainly because I’m so worried they would guess it was me and they are known to be very vindictive such as reporting people to social services or emailing job places to try ‘ ruin people ‘but I guess I’d like to vent as myself and so many people work their socks off to break even each month.

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bingbangwallop · Yesterday 20:49

looselegs · Yesterday 20:46

That's what worries him!
Yes he may go out on his motorbike for a couple of hours or wash the car- at the end of the day,he's got to live and not just exist- but he bloody pays for it the next day; he can barely move. That's what people don't see....

Yes and thats exactly my issue with threads like this because thats the intention behind them, to drum up hate and vitriol against benefits claimants. And its all, oh no only the ones scamming, but its not because what it does is makes all disabled people feel judged and worried.

These posts are just to drive and encourage nastiness so dont think its helping genuine disabled people, its really not. It just encourages the very thing that makes your Husband feel so uncomfortable.

looselegs · Yesterday 20:51

Blackwidowsbite · Yesterday 19:12

Exactly! The stress it causes and becoming financially dependant on it is enough, let alone someone making assumptions and assuming it’s all lies and then report you. I don’t get why people interfere. My point was that this is messing with people’s finances and life. They can suspend the benefit until they have done a full investigation which leaves people in the shit with rent, bills and not being able to feed their families.

My husband gave up a job he absolutely loved due to his health, and lost 3/4 of his income. His benefits just about cover our food bill. And because I work and we have a mortgage and don't rent, there's nothing else we can claim. He does have a motobility car but,as I said, he's got to have something nice coming out of it!

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