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AIBU?

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Queuing to board?

159 replies

holachicatita · Today 11:19

So.. currently waiting to board my flight and me and my husband have had a disagreement. Seats are already allocated but I still like to queue and get on the flight once the gates open. He likes to sit and wait until the last minute, looking down his nose at all the silly little people queuing. AIBU to start to queue once the gates open?

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honeylulu · Today 12:25

I agree with your husband although I only ever have a rucksack which goes under the seat - I much prefer to have my stuff accessible so dont put it in the locker even if there's plenty of room.

I hate queuing and then if you board with the other keen beans it's exasperating shuffling sloooowly down the aisle to your row while people faff with their stuff. Much prefer sauntering on at the end, straight to seat, job done.

If you like doing it the other way fair enough though.

TheChosenTwo · Today 12:26

I prefer to sit and wait before boarding. I hate planes so the least time spent cramped and nervous the better for me.
I travel very light, usually just have my Uniqlo cross body bag so no need to be trying to cram a case in the overhead locker.

W0tnow · Today 12:27

Yes otherwise the overhead lockers fill up.

Binnyforthewin · Today 12:27

Definitely Team DH here. Last flight I got they gave we the choice of standing in a queue for 20 minutes for speedy boarding or sitting down for 25 minutes for slow boarding. Slow boarding it was.

Aardvark123 · Today 12:39

My partner and I prefer to wait and board later. This paid off last year when there was a problem part way through boarding resulting in a half hour wait. Those that had already boarded were stuck sat on the plane, we had a more comfortable wait.

paaaj · Today 12:41

I queue, I hate getting on late and my hand luggage having to be in an overhead bin nowhere near my seat as the ones near me are now full.

BiddyPopthe2nd · Today 12:42

I have an allocated seat beside a window - but near enough to the front and want to make sure my case goes over my head or in front of me, not behind me.

I also want to just sit down, pull out my iPad and start the movie I downloaded to escape from the shit show that is my life just now.

But I am happy enough to spend the time on a plane

catmothertes1 · Today 12:43

If you are first to get pass the boarding desk,there is no guarantee that you are going straight into the plane. On flights run by budget airlines,there is a chance you are going to find yourselves standing in a narrow corridor or a staircase as they often start boarding people before passengers are out of the plane that has just arrived.

Shittyyear2025 · Today 12:44

YABU. What's the point of standing around for ages if you can wait a bit until the rush has settled?

Last summer we were waiting for a flight home and before the gate was even open people were queuing up. The plane hadn't even landed on the inbound journey yet, but folk were up and queuing, and moaning about having to stand in the queue. The fact that there wasn't a plane at the end of the skybridge should have been a clue...

Don't get me started on people who rush to stand up as soon as the seatbelt sign goes off after landing. THEY'RE LETTING US OFF IN ORDER, STANDING UP WON'T GET YOU DEBOARDED ANY QUICKER, SIT DOWN

UhOhRatPoo · Today 12:45

catmothertes1 · Today 12:43

If you are first to get pass the boarding desk,there is no guarantee that you are going straight into the plane. On flights run by budget airlines,there is a chance you are going to find yourselves standing in a narrow corridor or a staircase as they often start boarding people before passengers are out of the plane that has just arrived.

Or you’ll be on a bus first so the most you will gain is being first on the bus. Which probably means last off 🤣

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · Today 12:45

Depends.

If we've arrived early and had a good run through security etc, I'm often so sick of sitting around that I'll get up and queue just for something to do!

But there's a special place in hell for the twats who bunch up around the front of the queue and block everyone's way before their group is even called.

Marycontrarygarden · Today 12:45

holachicatita · Today 11:19

So.. currently waiting to board my flight and me and my husband have had a disagreement. Seats are already allocated but I still like to queue and get on the flight once the gates open. He likes to sit and wait until the last minute, looking down his nose at all the silly little people queuing. AIBU to start to queue once the gates open?

Why. Why, why queue?????

ZanyPoet · Today 12:46

Moonnstarz · Today 11:23

Depends on where your seat is. We took the kids for the first time this year and booked the window and middle seat, so if we waited til near the end then it would have annoyed the people sat in the aisle seat having to move.

It's a bit like theatre shows, it always seems to be the people who are sat in the middle are the ones to enter last after the warning bell, minutes before the show starts, making everyone stand up to let them through.

I bet they are hoping to find a free seat that is either window or aisle, but they don't want to pay for one!

ZanyPoet · Today 12:48

Marycontrarygarden · Today 12:45

Why. Why, why queue?????

you will have to queue at some point anyway unless you are front row. You can't just stroll in once everybody is already seated, so I'd rather go quickly inside, sit down and let people stand for ages in the aisle waiting for others to stop faffing and blocking the way.

It's a choice but neither is "wrong".

Someone has to start boarding at some point.

UhOhRatPoo · Today 12:49

SunnySunnyDayz · Today 11:29

I used to send dh on with the luggage and me and DC would wait til the last possible minute.

Neither of you are wrong. There's pros and cons to both.

Budget airlines have been kino wn to double book seats, happened to my friend just last month.

Overbooking does happen, yes. However, the overbooked passenger will be informed at check in that the flight is full. This would never happen at the gate. Otherwise they’d have to remove people’s checked baggage.

catmothertes1 · Today 12:52

Arlanymor · Today 11:58

I didn't say individually. But every flight I have been on they have done priority and then 'Boarding rows A-E' and so on and so forth. It's never been a rugby scrum. With the exception of boarding planes with only eight seats and then it's done by weight!

I mostly fly Ryanair because they are the only ones who vaguely flight from where I live in Scotland (vaguely because 2 hours drive to airport) and vaguely to where I need to flight to in France and they never call by rows.

BillieWiper · Today 12:53

I'd not queue knowing I had a booked seat. Only to try and commandeer a preferable one if it was first come first served. But even then the decent seats would no doubt be booked out by others. So I suppose it would only be to try ensure seats together if you didn't choose in advance?
Else I'm happy to be the last on the plane. And usually I am due to my chaotic travel brain!

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 12:54

Many people lose their heads when travelling - they get anxious. Where possible I let them do their own thing.

sohard · Today 12:57

It depends on whether I have a suitcase that needs to go on the overhead lockers.

Yetone · Today 13:00

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · Today 12:45

Depends.

If we've arrived early and had a good run through security etc, I'm often so sick of sitting around that I'll get up and queue just for something to do!

But there's a special place in hell for the twats who bunch up around the front of the queue and block everyone's way before their group is even called.

I think the industry calls them gate lice.

Chilly80 · Today 13:00

I'm with your husband

UhOhRatPoo · Today 13:01

BringBackCatsEyes · Today 12:54

Many people lose their heads when travelling - they get anxious. Where possible I let them do their own thing.

This is so true. I’ve worked in aviation claims for decades and the shift in behaviour when people cross the threshold of an airport still astonishes me. I’d love a psychologist to do a PhD on it one day.

The thread about the frozen breast milk is a case in point.

Yetone · Today 13:01

catmothertes1 · Today 12:52

I mostly fly Ryanair because they are the only ones who vaguely flight from where I live in Scotland (vaguely because 2 hours drive to airport) and vaguely to where I need to flight to in France and they never call by rows.

It is usually large long haul planes that call by row.

Marycontrarygarden · Today 13:07

ZanyPoet · Today 12:48

you will have to queue at some point anyway unless you are front row. You can't just stroll in once everybody is already seated, so I'd rather go quickly inside, sit down and let people stand for ages in the aisle waiting for others to stop faffing and blocking the way.

It's a choice but neither is "wrong".

Someone has to start boarding at some point.

True

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · Today 13:11

It never fails to amaze me how people have to stand up when they are a minute or two from a bus stop then stagger if the bus has to brake suddenly. One elderly woman did this recently and nearly face planted the wind screen. She was screaming ans swearing at the driver. Wanted her name, she was going to sue the company.
Someone pointed out that she'd been sitting down then stood up when the bus stop was 2 minutes away. Bus was nearly empty and that cctv would show what happened was her own fault.
The driver asked her if she was okay, the reply was 'fuck you' and she got off the bus nearly leaving her walking stick behind.
Why do the idiots do it? Also walking down stairs on a moving bus. What's the rush?