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Aibu to walk this far?

75 replies

dontwakemum · 11/07/2026 12:41

Dentist appointment at 3pm and cars playing up.
It will be 29 degrees at 3 and it’s an hours walk each way with a toddler in push chair and two primary school children.
Reschedule or walk?

OP posts:
SaySomethingMan · 11/07/2026 14:42

Could you get an uber there?

Mt563 · 11/07/2026 14:53

DrRylandGrace · 11/07/2026 14:37

This is standard (or low) summer temperature for most of Europe, it’s really not a reason to cancel appointments.

I presume the children have suncream, sunhats, a shade for the pushchair?

Walking will be fine if you take proper precautions and water with you. Or you can book taxis. It would be silly to cancel just because it’s sunny and warm.

But I'm pretty sure no one is recommending walking for 2 hours in the heat of day even in those countries. Humans are just not designed for that, especially children.

5128gap · 11/07/2026 14:57

Given its only 15 degrees in Aberdeen, coastal areas are quite breezy and someone in the NE has had to put her cardi on, definitely walk. But do make sure you wrap up. A 20 minute, 1 hour, 3 mile walk round the corner is just what you need.

Tumbler2121 · 11/07/2026 15:06

If was urgent, taxi. Child's checkup with no problems, change,

Idontjetwashthefucker · 11/07/2026 15:11

5128gap · 11/07/2026 14:57

Given its only 15 degrees in Aberdeen, coastal areas are quite breezy and someone in the NE has had to put her cardi on, definitely walk. But do make sure you wrap up. A 20 minute, 1 hour, 3 mile walk round the corner is just what you need.

What?

backformoreofthesame · 11/07/2026 15:21

I think it was humour? Given one or two of the utterly irrelevant “incapable of understanding that conditions vary across the county “ comments

and from a northern perspective which I find particularly apt as the South has a habit of not understanding that the north is often different

UniquePinkSwan · 11/07/2026 15:22

Alone, yes but not with kids

BagaChips · 11/07/2026 15:25

5128gap · 11/07/2026 14:57

Given its only 15 degrees in Aberdeen, coastal areas are quite breezy and someone in the NE has had to put her cardi on, definitely walk. But do make sure you wrap up. A 20 minute, 1 hour, 3 mile walk round the corner is just what you need.

Finally someone on this thread talking senseGrin

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 11/07/2026 16:23

5128gap · 11/07/2026 14:57

Given its only 15 degrees in Aberdeen, coastal areas are quite breezy and someone in the NE has had to put her cardi on, definitely walk. But do make sure you wrap up. A 20 minute, 1 hour, 3 mile walk round the corner is just what you need.

🤣 Excellent. Most excellent!

DrRylandGrace · 11/07/2026 23:54

Mt563 · 11/07/2026 14:53

But I'm pretty sure no one is recommending walking for 2 hours in the heat of day even in those countries. Humans are just not designed for that, especially children.

You’re suggesting that in much of Europe nobody walks for an hour with children anytime between May and October?

Mt563 · 12/07/2026 02:50

No. 2 hours when the temperature is almost or over 30C with high humidity.

Are you saying that all of Europe is over 29C for the entire time of May to Oct? Because it's not. And also I said 2h, which is twice as long.

Would you would genuinely take your child out walking for 2h in 29C heat?

The uk government recommends exercising first or last thing on hot days, even for a dog walk, which is usually adults and under 2h. No strenuous activity at all on hot days for kids. Under 5s particularly vulnerable to heat stroke. there is also some truth to uk heart being different because high humidity makes sweat less efficient.

Some very hot countries are literally designed around trying not to be outside mid afternoon. They are also more likely to have air con so when you do get inside you can actually cool down.

But maybe the uk gov is molly coddling us.

Anyway, your kids, your life. I don't care what you do.

thejelliclecats · 12/07/2026 08:01

DrRylandGrace · 11/07/2026 23:54

You’re suggesting that in much of Europe nobody walks for an hour with children anytime between May and October?

It would be two hours (there and back) with young children during the hottest part of the day. Why would anyone think that was a sensible thing to do?

worldshottestmom · 12/07/2026 17:15

Why even post this. Obviously not

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 17:18

My kids are great walkers, but I would still reschedule. It's just unnecessary to walk that far back and forth just for a check-up.

Is it even likely to be a nice walk, or just schlepping across town surrounded by traffic? Mine COULD do it, put a hat and drink enough, but I wouldn't bother.

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 17:19

thejelliclecats · 12/07/2026 08:01

It would be two hours (there and back) with young children during the hottest part of the day. Why would anyone think that was a sensible thing to do?

it's England, it's not a life-threatening heat if you are sensible, don't push it.
I wouldn't bother because it does seem like a pointless trip, but it's not as bad as you try to make it

TicklishMintDuck · 12/07/2026 17:23

VoteForCountBinface · 11/07/2026 12:44

Walk. Allow plenty of time.

I walk a lot and would allow 20 minutes (expecting it to take 15 mins) but you'll be pushing a toddler and have two children, so I'd allow an hour.

She said it’s an hour’s walk each way in normal conditions.

If you can’t get a lift or a taxi I’d reschedule. It’s a long walk for anyone in the heat, but especially young children.

Moonnstarz · 12/07/2026 17:26

Is it a NHS appointment for the child? I would definitely try and keep it.
As others suggest, can you get a taxi or is there a bus?
I would not want to walk it myself, let alone having a child walking alongside and pushing a pushchair.

ipityyou · 12/07/2026 17:29

Walk. No excuse to cancel this close.

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 17:31

Moonnstarz · 12/07/2026 17:26

Is it a NHS appointment for the child? I would definitely try and keep it.
As others suggest, can you get a taxi or is there a bus?
I would not want to walk it myself, let alone having a child walking alongside and pushing a pushchair.

are there any NSH dental appointment left in this country? I thought that was a thing of the past 😂

Coconutter24 · 12/07/2026 17:31

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 17:31

are there any NSH dental appointment left in this country? I thought that was a thing of the past 😂

Especially on a Saturday

mrswithkidsx · 12/07/2026 17:43

dontwakemum · 11/07/2026 12:41

Dentist appointment at 3pm and cars playing up.
It will be 29 degrees at 3 and it’s an hours walk each way with a toddler in push chair and two primary school children.
Reschedule or walk?

Reschedule my goodness it shouldn’t even be a thought!!! You can’t do that to little kids

BaileyHorse · 12/07/2026 18:47

Reschedule.

thejelliclecats · 12/07/2026 18:48

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 17:19

it's England, it's not a life-threatening heat if you are sensible, don't push it.
I wouldn't bother because it does seem like a pointless trip, but it's not as bad as you try to make it

It very much can be life threatening for small children who are not used to it.

susiedaisy1912 · 12/07/2026 18:53

Reschedule. Not worth it

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 12/07/2026 19:09

It was yesterday afternoon 🦷

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