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The Waltons weren't poor

115 replies

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 14:43

I'm watching an episode and a neighbour comes by saying he's been living on skimmed milk and wild onions for 2 years. Grandpa sympathises and pipes up that he's lived on the edge of poverty his whole life. The show description says follow the family through the hardships of the Depression. Admittedly, there are episodes where the children walk to and from school with no boots/shoes. Generally speaking it's presented as a poor family.
But

  • they had 7 kids (people then did know how babies were made and didn't have to have large families despite lack of contraception, the pull out method is not infallible but been used forever)
  • they own a bloody mountain full of timber, and run a sawmill business
  • they have livestock, chickens for eggs, and garden for veggies
  • they own a truck
  • they own a massive house
  • everyone's well fed and well clothed, just maybe not always the latest 'smart' outfits when they want one

They were in no way 'poor' for the 1930s.

AIBU?

OP posts:
hahabahbag · 11/07/2026 14:14

It’s a fictionalised version of a real family but made appealing to the audience of the time. I’ve seen a programme on the real family it was based on and things were tighter than depicted in the show. The number of children was typical in that area in that era, remember religion had a lot of influence and pastors/preachers definitely favoured larger families and women had little say in this (look at bios and listen to lyrics by country singers as to how male dominated those areas were and how many kids lived in shacks without running water).

what is considered deprived changes over time eg on Mumsnet people wrote as if kids sharing a bedroom is wrong where 100 years ago whole families shared one room in a tenement block with kids sharing beds.

HelenaWilson · 11/07/2026 14:15

A large family means more people to work on the farm.

The farm has to be big enough to support them all.

suburburban · 11/07/2026 17:25

I remember one episode where cousin Rose and her dc visit and John got annoyed as her son was being faddy

also the Poltergeist episode was really scary, I did like the show

maxslice · 11/07/2026 19:45

AuntieNorma · 10/07/2026 15:05

Yes, entertainment requires what’s called ‘ a suspension of disbelief’ , otherwise you’ll pick holes in it as if it were real.

So, exactly like OP.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 19:48

DeftGoldHedgehog · 11/07/2026 00:40

That would be a different programme. It's just telling one family's story, in a way that appealed to millions of others across the world at the time.

Watch THE MILL on, I think, Amazon Prime. Your craving for misery will be satisfied by by its depiction of a textile mill in the north.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 19:51

Toastytina · 11/07/2026 02:37

I always wanted to try that recipe the Baldwin sisters made.

“Papa’s recipe” I wish I had the formula too.

SqueakyFromme · 11/07/2026 19:56

I always wondered what Hominy Grits were, before the internet

OonaStubbs · 11/07/2026 20:28

Is the Waltons on any of the streaming services? I would love to watch it again.

Toastytina · 11/07/2026 22:06

Yes its on great tv. Free streaming channel

EBearhug · 11/07/2026 22:58

maxslice · 11/07/2026 19:48

Watch THE MILL on, I think, Amazon Prime. Your craving for misery will be satisfied by by its depiction of a textile mill in the north.

Edited

I read the book this was based on, or possibly the book was a spin-off from the series. Anyway, it was just after my mill and mine holiday last year (Derbyshire, Quarry Bank - site of the Mill,) and mining museums. I like a good bit of industrial history.

Peachykeenjosephine · Yesterday 00:45

Additup · 10/07/2026 15:36

I see your Grapes of Wrath and I raise you The Trouble I've Seen by the late, great Martha Gelhorn. A book of factual short stories/recollections of life during the Great Depression. The last story about child prostitution is so awful I couldn't finish it.

The Waltons had it easy in comparison, although they could have benefited from some contraception. Also, surely the most pressing thing aboug the Waltons is why the mother actresses real name is/was Michael. That used to really confuse child me 😅

Yes! I'd forgotten her real name was Michael 🤣🤣

suburburban · Yesterday 07:08

Peachykeenjosephine · Yesterday 00:45

Yes! I'd forgotten her real name was Michael 🤣🤣

Yes me too

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 07:43

maxslice · 11/07/2026 19:48

Watch THE MILL on, I think, Amazon Prime. Your craving for misery will be satisfied by by its depiction of a textile mill in the north.

Edited

It's definitely not me with a craving for misery.

Redflagsabounded · Yesterday 18:36

This was a light-hearted post, that has turned into a really interesting discussion, thank you for the different points of view and recommendations.

OP posts:
lljkk · Today 07:45

Grapes of Wrath is grim, is meant to be about forced (internal) migration/ displacement, not simply about the Great Depression. Of Mice and Men also describes 1930s rural poverty and itinerant workers, not just about a guy with LDs.

The social portrait in To Kill a Mockingbird is better (than GoW) imho for showing 1930s southern poverty. The teacher not understanding the child who came to school with no shoes or lunch, for instance. Scout was feral but she was also grateful to live in a prosperous household & to have choices in life. Which fits with the sequel books where she follows those opportunities to escape the stiltifying atmosphere.

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