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The Waltons weren't poor

115 replies

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 14:43

I'm watching an episode and a neighbour comes by saying he's been living on skimmed milk and wild onions for 2 years. Grandpa sympathises and pipes up that he's lived on the edge of poverty his whole life. The show description says follow the family through the hardships of the Depression. Admittedly, there are episodes where the children walk to and from school with no boots/shoes. Generally speaking it's presented as a poor family.
But

  • they had 7 kids (people then did know how babies were made and didn't have to have large families despite lack of contraception, the pull out method is not infallible but been used forever)
  • they own a bloody mountain full of timber, and run a sawmill business
  • they have livestock, chickens for eggs, and garden for veggies
  • they own a truck
  • they own a massive house
  • everyone's well fed and well clothed, just maybe not always the latest 'smart' outfits when they want one

They were in no way 'poor' for the 1930s.

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OP posts:
TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 10/07/2026 22:48

SkippitySkoppity · 10/07/2026 22:03

Her parents were illiterate and she grew up eating squirrel.

But that level of poverty wouldn't have made for a hit feelgood show.

But that level of poverty wouldn't have made for a hit feelgood show

And this is it exactly. OP if you’re really interested you should read up on Earl Hamner Jr. The Waltons, his stories based on his real life family history, are deliberately VERY sanitised versions of his reality growing up. What he really wanted to convey was the love, support and close family relationships from his time growing up through the depression, rather than the real life grinding poverty, specifically as a message of hope.

Abitlosttoday · 10/07/2026 22:58

I thought you meant that you'd been watching The Waltons when YOUR neighbour popped round to tell you he'd been living off wild onions. 😜 I should get some sleep.

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 10/07/2026 23:01

MsGreying · 10/07/2026 15:06

I am reminded of the episode of Big Bang where Sheldon picks apart LHOTP
bigbangtheory.fandom.com/wiki/Little_House_on_the_Prairie

And he made the food of that time and poisoned them both.

Lucinda7 · 10/07/2026 23:51

I like the Waltons but I could never understand their casual walking about the countryside. Surely there were bears about!

SquirrelGG · 11/07/2026 00:26

SkippitySkoppity · 10/07/2026 21:51

This is the cutting edge pop culture analysis I come to MN for 😂

I have real fondness for The Waltons. Watched it as a kid and then found it a couple of years ago playing late at night on some obscure TV channel.

The sitch with Mary Ellen's husband was very odd. John Boy was painfully earnest, and Jim Bob was a bit...Deliverance.

Oh I loved Jim Bob. I had a real fondness for them all really, but he was always my favourite.

SqueakyFromme · 11/07/2026 00:29

It couldn’t have been that hard, they got to see Bobby Bigelow and the Haystack Gang live

SnowFrogJelly · 11/07/2026 00:34

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 15:17

I loved the show as a kid but watching it now, I think I'd hate them as neighbours.

They remind me of the posters on here who wail on about how poor they are as there's nothing left out of their £100,000 salary after they've paid big mortgage, new car lease etc etc.

How starving neighbour didn't twat fat, smug grandpa sitting in his son's massive property, I don't know.

This is the fun sponge talking..

SqueakyFromme · 11/07/2026 00:39

Bit off on a tangent here, but if anyone has Tubi (free channel) there’s a film called ‘stalking Laura’ with John Boy and Brooke Shields, it’s a true story and though he tries his utmost to not be ‘John Boy’ with his automatic rifles and rocket launchers he just remains…..’John Boy’ It was just his defining role to me.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 11/07/2026 00:40

Ponoka7 · 10/07/2026 15:58

Can their poverty ever compare to the slums surrounding the factories across England/Scotland? At least no-one was actively choosing to not pay enough wages, or build mansions, while children died from the slum housing they collected rent on. I never realised they were supposed to be poor, because life looked exceptionally good to what my GM described, including the death of her brother from TB.

That would be a different programme. It's just telling one family's story, in a way that appealed to millions of others across the world at the time.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 11/07/2026 00:42

HelenaWilson · 10/07/2026 22:25

Those of us who are old enough remember Michael Landon as Little Joe in Bonanza.

They were all on (repeated) around the same time as a child in the 1980s.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 00:47

It’s based on a true story. They were largely self-sufficient but didn’t have a whole lot of cash money. And as noted, it’s just a TV show, not a documentary.

knitnerd90 · 11/07/2026 00:51

I was going to use Dolly Parton as an example of Appalachian poverty!

The Waltons absolutely soft-soap things — and Virginia was a Jim Crow state, they certainly didn't show that. But most people didn't own land to farm at all. Many miners lived in company towns where they didn't own their homes, and bought their food at high prices from the company store. You wouldn't have been self sufficient. You were tied to local employers in ways that urban slum dwellers were not. Coal companies were strike-breaking up until the 1970s (at that point, it was becoming moot because the industry was shrinking so much).

To this day the poorest places in the USA are Native reservations and central Appalachia. LBJ, who grew up pretty poor himself, was appalled when he visited during his War on Poverty. Here's some photos of what that looked like:

https://time.com/3878609/war-on-poverty-appalachia-portraits-1964/

To this day, West Virginia has the lowest life expectancy in the US, over a decade less than the healthiest states.

Sharecroppers in the Deep South were almost as badly off. There's a famous book called Let Us Now Praise Famous Men about the lives of three tenant families during the Depression.

Okiedokie123 · 11/07/2026 00:51

There are multiple episodes/characters in The Waltons that were much poorer than they were but they were still poor. They had what they needed yes (a house to live in, a business, food, the basics of life, family, love) but rarely any extras.

They also wore 1970s flares etc which is impressive timetravelling fashion sense for the 1930s.
Its a tv show........ best not to over analyse!

SqueakyFromme · 11/07/2026 01:03

@knitnerd90 thats an interesting link, thanks. I think though the Nick Hedges for Shelter photos from the UK 60’s look much worse, sadly

knitnerd90 · 11/07/2026 01:41

i remember the Glasgow ones. Horrible.

but in the US, a country that hadn’t had its infrastructure destroyed by war, at the time enjoying the greatest prosperity in history, and millions of people still living this way.

OonaStubbs · 11/07/2026 01:47

They could afford a radio which was a luxury item at the time.

Toastytina · 11/07/2026 02:37

I always wanted to try that recipe the Baldwin sisters made.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 04:04

knitnerd90 · 11/07/2026 00:51

I was going to use Dolly Parton as an example of Appalachian poverty!

The Waltons absolutely soft-soap things — and Virginia was a Jim Crow state, they certainly didn't show that. But most people didn't own land to farm at all. Many miners lived in company towns where they didn't own their homes, and bought their food at high prices from the company store. You wouldn't have been self sufficient. You were tied to local employers in ways that urban slum dwellers were not. Coal companies were strike-breaking up until the 1970s (at that point, it was becoming moot because the industry was shrinking so much).

To this day the poorest places in the USA are Native reservations and central Appalachia. LBJ, who grew up pretty poor himself, was appalled when he visited during his War on Poverty. Here's some photos of what that looked like:

https://time.com/3878609/war-on-poverty-appalachia-portraits-1964/

To this day, West Virginia has the lowest life expectancy in the US, over a decade less than the healthiest states.

Sharecroppers in the Deep South were almost as badly off. There's a famous book called Let Us Now Praise Famous Men about the lives of three tenant families during the Depression.

As stated earlier, they had a sawmill. It didn’t matter what most people had or didn’t, they weren’t most people. The series is loosely based on writer Earl Hamner’s family. The focus of the show was the strength and love of family and the belief in community. If there’s no conflict, no obstacle, no struggle, there’s no story. The car, the radio, etc. are props to support the narrative. It was never intended to be about the bleak, gritty, hopeless aspects of the Great Depression. It was meant to be cozy, inspiring, and uplifting. It was meant to ENTERTAIN. That’s all.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 04:07

HelenaWilson · 10/07/2026 17:43

In America, owning a massive house on a massive bit of land is not the indicator of wealth that it is in the UK

Not necessarily an indicator of wealth even in the uk. Plenty of landed gentry have had house and land but drove old cars, wore old clothes and would have struggled to raise the cash to fix a leaking roof.

Exactly. It’s called being “House Poor”. You have a home and land but very little in disposable income. This is a common situation in the Southern United States.

maxslice · 11/07/2026 04:09

lljkk · 10/07/2026 20:15

My grandmother's grandmother was born about 1850. She raised her children on the North Dakota prairies. She had about 11 children, of whom only 4 made it to adulthood.

I dunno, if you were born 1895 & your grandmother was telling you about her 7 children who didn't survive long, I think you'd be minded to see a large family as a welcome blessing.

A large family means more people to work on the farm.

Beekman · 11/07/2026 04:31

I don’t think it’s a particularly large house for the US but they did appear well fed and comfortable unless the storyline required them not to be for that week’s episode.

I have visited Walton’s Mountain and surrounding area and it’s one of the most hostile to outsiders places I have ever visited. Wherever we went, we got stared at and our out-of-state plates on the car made us a target on the roads. When we were driving around admiring the scenery, householders would come onto their porches with guns when they spotted a strange car. We had dinner in a chain restaurant and were stared at for a full hour by locals in there. There is a Walton’s museum there which for no known reason has a “war room” which includes Nazi memorabilia including a massive Swasitika flag proudly on display. We didn’t stick around for the planned length of our stay. Very unlikely they would have been friendly to outsiders back then either.

Dawnintheageofaquariams · 11/07/2026 05:00

And the show glosses over the incest that definitely happened.

Monty36 · 11/07/2026 05:43

The Waltons is a sanitised rosy glasses world of rural life in the 30’s in the US.
It is a TV show with underlying moral themes of the goodness of being a Christian and coming from a close family.

It is not a reality of the depression in the US . As someone else has said The Grapes of Wrath is that.

OvernightBloats · 11/07/2026 09:12

Beekman · 11/07/2026 04:31

I don’t think it’s a particularly large house for the US but they did appear well fed and comfortable unless the storyline required them not to be for that week’s episode.

I have visited Walton’s Mountain and surrounding area and it’s one of the most hostile to outsiders places I have ever visited. Wherever we went, we got stared at and our out-of-state plates on the car made us a target on the roads. When we were driving around admiring the scenery, householders would come onto their porches with guns when they spotted a strange car. We had dinner in a chain restaurant and were stared at for a full hour by locals in there. There is a Walton’s museum there which for no known reason has a “war room” which includes Nazi memorabilia including a massive Swasitika flag proudly on display. We didn’t stick around for the planned length of our stay. Very unlikely they would have been friendly to outsiders back then either.

Oh my god! That must have been so unsettling. Why were they grabbing their guns so quickly?

This is what scares me about America - the easy access to guns and the willingness to use them. 😲The Waltons seems very, very sanitised in comparison.

Laurmolonlabe · 11/07/2026 14:02

Complaining about poverty is mostly about expectations- there is always someone poorer than you. They are resource and business owners, so not really poor, but as such they could reasonably expect not to send children to school shoeless- so from their perspective they were poor.

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