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Another day, another person with inadequate travel insurance

235 replies

JulietteHasAGun · 10/07/2026 08:18

So very sadly a British man has died in Cape Verde while on an all inclusive Tui holiday with his wife.

She believes his travel insurance wouldn’t cover repatriation of his body so has buried him in an unmarked grave over there and had to come home without him. Which must be very distressing for her. I do sympathise but also think why on earth don’t people get adequate travel insurance. I know it’s expensive as you get older and have pre existing conditions, etc.

friend of mine it cost 5k in travel insurance for her mum to go to Florida for 2 weeks when terminally ill but they paid it. I pay £hundreds for Dd due to her medical issues.

If i couldn’t afford it I wouldn’t go. They could have gone to Spain and had a cheaper holiday, then afforded holiday insurance as well plus being covered by ghic…..though obviously that wouldn’t cover repatriation.

Have to say I’m surprised Tui didn’t help out as they have their own planes especially because there’s lots of rumblings about Brits dying in their hotels over there due to Norovirus, stomach bugs being rampant in their hotels and this guy died after a severe episode of d&v.

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Settlersa · 10/07/2026 09:32

Dollymylove · 10/07/2026 09:21

Not a day goes by without a go fund me popping up on social media begging for funds to pay someones medical bills abroad, because they thought nothing would happen, or didnt read the T&Cs .
It should be mandatory at the point of booking.
No insurance=no travel.
There, thats easy

But you could get any old cheap policy that was rubbish

Tryanalogue · 10/07/2026 09:32

It’s not unknown for a stone on a lair in someone’s home town to refer to mortal remains in a distant land.

AMurderofMurderingCrows · 10/07/2026 09:34

Xiaoxiong · 10/07/2026 09:20

I felt like this trying to claim on supposedly "lifetime" pet insurance for my old dog, and the company tried to say that whatever it was wasn't covered because it wasn't "injury" but also "illness" (grass seed in her ear which then got infected). I was like...what on earth am I paying insurance for then!

Ultimate kick in the teeth was to find out a few years later that the insurance also didn't cover her end of life and cremation because it was "just" from old age.

I do think that travel insurance is tricky and they try and wriggle out of paying, even when you would have had a very reasonable expectation that you were covered for exactly that scenario.

Not to derail the thread and I appreciate it's too late for your lovely old dog's insurance but my insurance company tried that when my older horse got an abscess in her foot from standing on a stone (injury by accident). I asked my vet to write to the insurers to advise in his opinion it was an accident and should be covered. Surprise, they paid out.

Just in case you or anyone else finds themselves in that situation, speak to your vet.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 10/07/2026 09:38

In an ideal world, ordinary people would be able to understand all of the eventualities in a clear, comprehensive way and ensure that they included everything, or indeed understood what they were excluding; but the reality is that this is impenetrable to the average person.

It's very much in the insurance industry's interests for them to control what they offer; and their lovely, fluffy advertising department that urges people to know that they have peace of mind that they are 'fully' covered is right at the other end of the building - with a huge wall between them - from their department that carefully words the policies to make it look like it's fully comprehensive, but actually to pull back any ground of liability that they possibly can in every way.

Right next to them is the department that looks at scenarios that apparently were covered, but where they can find any tiny reason for refusing the payout - leaving trusting families and individuals heartbroken and destroyed, but a slightly higher figure on their own balance sheet; so that's all obviously just great.

itchyelbowsandswollenankles · 10/07/2026 09:39

Did she even check with the travel insurance? Or just make an assumption?

Stompythedinosaur · 10/07/2026 09:40

Settlersa · 10/07/2026 09:18

No one is going to check if it’s adequate for every circumstance though

Aren't they?

I absolutely do check my insurance and what it does or doesn't cover, including repatriation. I thought that was normal!

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 10/07/2026 09:43

Doteycat · 10/07/2026 09:31

But why not?
It must be one of the most devastating things to havs happen.
Surely not having to worry about cost would make it somewhat less dreadful.
If u can afford a holiday u can afford insurance.
And i have claimed for illness. 1250 for a doc to come to the hotel for noravirus. They paid out without question.

If u can afford a holiday u can afford insurance.

What on earth makes you assume that? There are plenty of us who could otherwise afford a decent basic holiday abroad, but who have health conditions and disabilities which mean that insurance would slam the door on that opportunity shut to us for the rest of our lives.

We're firmly 'second-class' people in that respect. "Oh, isn't it lovely to have a wonderful, relaxing holiday and making memories with the family after working hard and looking forward to it all year.... oh, no not YOU!!"

JulietteHasAGun · 10/07/2026 09:44

HortiGal · 10/07/2026 09:20

The main reason insurance doesn't cover 100% is the failure to have declared an accurate medical history. Repatriation is easily £20k, where possible cremate in place of death.

I googled and from CV it’s 3.5k to bring a body back. But yes you’d have to pay and then claim and there’s the risk if the insurance can find a reason not to pay then they won’t.

I remember reading about a woman who broke a leg in an accident and insurance said she hadn’t declared being on hrt and refused to pay. I have a lot of sympathy with such cases.

dd had an £80 hospital bill last year. I had to pay £50 excess and the hoops I had to jump through to get it paid were insane. They wanted proof of her flights in and out of Portugal but she’d flown to somewhere like bulgaria, then got a train to Spain and a bus to Portugal. So had no proof of a journey into Portugal. They spent more than £30 worth of time arguing about it.

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NovaF · 10/07/2026 09:47

Doteycat · 10/07/2026 09:31

But why not?
It must be one of the most devastating things to havs happen.
Surely not having to worry about cost would make it somewhat less dreadful.
If u can afford a holiday u can afford insurance.
And i have claimed for illness. 1250 for a doc to come to the hotel for noravirus. They paid out without question.

In the original post it does not say they didn't have travel insurance but that she believed her husband's travel insurance would not cover the repatriation. So she did have insurance and it still did not cover this.

That is great they claimed for illness, but there is a big difference between and illness and being dead! Do you know for certain they would have paid out if you died?

ScholesPanda · 10/07/2026 09:47

People have already answered, but to re-iterate:

Maybe she didn't care- more and more people are having direct cremations and no headstone anyway, so maybe they chose to save money by getting travel insurance that didn't include repatriation.

Maybe she bought travel insurance assuming it would cover repatriation of a body and it didn't. Most people don't thrill at the idea of reading small print, they just want a simple affordable policy (the exact opposite of what the insurance industry offers).

Maybe she was shafted by the insurers. Perhaps he had a glass of wine the night before he died so the insurance have wriggled out of paying by attributing his death to alcohol.

Anyway, the people who post these threads every summer usually wang on and on about consequences. This woman got her consequences- shouldn't you be happy things went your way this time?

Settlersa · 10/07/2026 09:48

Stompythedinosaur · 10/07/2026 09:40

Aren't they?

I absolutely do check my insurance and what it does or doesn't cover, including repatriation. I thought that was normal!

Not the person taking it out, the cruise company checking you have it

Stompythedinosaur · 10/07/2026 09:49

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 10/07/2026 09:43

If u can afford a holiday u can afford insurance.

What on earth makes you assume that? There are plenty of us who could otherwise afford a decent basic holiday abroad, but who have health conditions and disabilities which mean that insurance would slam the door on that opportunity shut to us for the rest of our lives.

We're firmly 'second-class' people in that respect. "Oh, isn't it lovely to have a wonderful, relaxing holiday and making memories with the family after working hard and looking forward to it all year.... oh, no not YOU!!"

I have a dp with a chronic health condition that's tricky to get coverage for. I wouldn't dream of going away without arranging insurance though, that seems absolutely irresponsible! Yes, we pay more that another family would have to, but we're adults and it's responsible to plan for emergencies.

Ultimately holidays are a luxury. It probably is unfair that families with health issues have to pay more for insurance, so might go away less often. But, there are so many other reasons people pay more - number of dc, jobs that only allow time off at peak times if year, care responsibilities. I think as individuals we just have to cope with the situation as it is sometimes.

LasagneGoblin · 10/07/2026 09:50

Honourable mention to people who get basic travel insurance but don't declare pre-existing conditions then wonder why it doesn't pay out. For those unaware even if the cause of death or injury isn't directly related to the pre-existing condition a lot of policies will be void if not declared.

sandalbed · 10/07/2026 09:52

I think a lot of travel insurance is a scam, I have never checked if repatriation is included. No idea why people feel better about themselves by chastising others.

Chewbecca · 10/07/2026 09:54

That's a really old news story, plus she is not doing a GFM. The story is more about poor standards in CV hotels and healthcare.

Flippoflak · 10/07/2026 09:56

I think it's irresponsible to publish these sorts of stories about insurers failing to pay out without the full facts. Surely all it does is lead people to think well why bother with insurance if they're not going to pay out anyway. In this case, there's no confirmation that there is insurance at all.

Surely, if you were actually looking to make people aware you'd say, we bought insurance from the post office, it was their bronze policy and we were unaware it didn't cover repatriation....

Goatsarebest · 10/07/2026 10:00

Fairyliz · 10/07/2026 08:45

I have been travelling and arranging my own insurance for 48 years now and obviously it has got more and more expensive as I have aged.
Despite never once claiming on insurance I am sure the insurance company would try their best to wriggle out of paying. Of course they are going to shaft you, every other company does why should insurance companies be any different? There would be no consideration of the premiums I had paid over the years and the fact that I am clearly not a fraudulent claimant.

We have used trave insurance for 38 years and made our first ever claim in Budapest last year for emergency dental treatment. Not even particularly complicated and only around E1500 total and all with an English speaking provider. The insurance company were an absolute nightmare. Long prolonged calls from the hospital, then being referred to another Department and starting everything again, sending documents to wrong email account that they were told was not accessible, not phoning back when they promised to, refusing payment on a technical aspect of one page not having a stamp, insisting on Hungarian notes being translated. This all whilst in hospital getting emergency intravenous antibiotics to prevent sepsis. After 6 months complaints and investigation they admitted the service wasn't 'their usual high standard' and gave us 100 Euro compensation which didn't even cover all the calls and transport. It's really hard dealing with them from abroad when you or a loved one is sick, so I have sympathy for those that struggle. But to not have insurance in the first place is neglectful. It's just part of the holiday budget.

igelkott2026 · 10/07/2026 10:00

Why do you care OP - how does it affect you if someone doesn't buy adequate travel insurance?

igelkott2026 · 10/07/2026 10:02

LasagneGoblin · 10/07/2026 09:50

Honourable mention to people who get basic travel insurance but don't declare pre-existing conditions then wonder why it doesn't pay out. For those unaware even if the cause of death or injury isn't directly related to the pre-existing condition a lot of policies will be void if not declared.

And one of the pre-existing conditions is.....drumroll....menopause! You have to declare if you are on HRT (I am not but I still find it outrageous).

IonianNerveGrip · 10/07/2026 10:03

Lomonald · 10/07/2026 09:07

There is no crematoriums.on cape verde.

That's interesting, I had no idea.

I always get travel insurance, but I must admit I've never thought to check whether anywhere I'm going on holiday has a crematorium/what funeral type facilities they have in general.

JustAnotherWhinger · 10/07/2026 10:05

travel insurance companies are awful for not paying though.

We had to pay 5k for flights and hotels when our DS ended up in hospital while away. We had travel insurance, but they refused the claim.

Luckily for us we could put it on a credit card, but many people couldn’t do that.

We also fought the insurance company when we got back and won. They paid the 5k plus compensation for the credit card interest and the stress. One of their staff members basically said they deny most claims first time round as policy.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/07/2026 10:06

Insurance companies are not known for being helpful.
The husband of a friend died whilst abroad.
My friend arranged for his cremation & a small ceremony in that country.
When she claimed on the insurance, she was told that she was only covered for repatriation of the body, not funeral expenses.
The costs bear no comparison - £x000 v. £x00

It took a long fight to get the money.

WeddingInvitation · 10/07/2026 10:09

I've just checked our (packaged with a bank account) travel insurance due to this thread and it does cover repatriation of a dead body or ashes. I wonder if some of the cheaper ones I've used in the past have....

It's a strange one this - I would rather repatriate than leave a relative somewhere thousands of miles away in an unmarked grave.

cinquanta · 10/07/2026 10:11

igelkott2026 · 10/07/2026 10:02

And one of the pre-existing conditions is.....drumroll....menopause! You have to declare if you are on HRT (I am not but I still find it outrageous).

I declare HRT but it has made no difference to the premium.

It is medication with a possibility of serious side effects, so I’m not surprised they want to know.

cinquanta · 10/07/2026 10:14

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/07/2026 10:06

Insurance companies are not known for being helpful.
The husband of a friend died whilst abroad.
My friend arranged for his cremation & a small ceremony in that country.
When she claimed on the insurance, she was told that she was only covered for repatriation of the body, not funeral expenses.
The costs bear no comparison - £x000 v. £x00

It took a long fight to get the money.

I’m surprised they got the money at all given that they would have had to pay for it themselves if he had died at home.