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AIBU to wonder if anti-English feeling is mostly about sport

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Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 22:46

If you support anyone but England in football or other sports do you dislike English people generally or is it just in sports?

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Differentforgirls · Today 07:22

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:17

I don't think my mum was entitled to a job. But calling someone a Sassenach is ignorant, especially in an actual letter of rejection.

Lots of places can also be hyper local. It's not just if you are from another country l, it's an issue if you are from another town/island. Which is on the one hand understandable but in the long run kills those places because that sort of small town mindedness is unappealing to the young and drives local youths away as well

Yes the name calling was completely out of order.

tilypu · Today 07:22

Differentforgirls · Today 06:33

So did Shetland once but it now votes SNP!

Shetland voted for Hannah Mary Goodlad, not for SNP.

She ran a magnificent campaign and the Lib Dems didn't. Added to that, Emma Macdonald is a known quantity: she is in local politics, and she is known to be unresponsive by the people in her constituency.

I can say with 100% certainly that if Hannah had stood for the Lib Dems, she would still have been voted in.

OhBotherSaidPoo · Today 07:22

Sartre · Today 07:12

Hm but Edward I invaded and conquered Wales, Scotland were never conquered but basically bribed/forced into unification. I think it’s understandable to hate the English as a Welsh or Scottish person…

That aside, we’re arsehole tourists so have a terrible reputation.

The Tudors were Welsh, Henry VII killed the last English king at the Battle of Bosworth.
James I of England was James VI of Scotland first, and as the closest living relative of Elizabeth, the Crown went to him. This was something he had been cultivating for a long time by appealing directly to politicians, highlighting his faith as a protestant, and supposedly bringing about an end to a very bloody period.
Charles II, his grandson, was crowned in Scotland first, before getting the English crown at restoration.
After the Stuarts were mostly German houses with a bit of Dutch for fun.
If you're going to hate the 'English', hate the right lot.

TequilaMockingburd · Today 07:24

I was on a cruise last year, one night there was an international dinner and there was booing at the England flag but applause for Scotland and Wales during their flag bearing ( if that’s what it’s called). I think media coverage of English sport, historical events, some loutishness abroad and racism tar many with the actions of a few. Lots of English people in scotland , settled well and part of the community though. It’s more a collective thing than an individual thing.

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 07:25

tilypu · Today 07:16

I'm Scottish. I'm currently down in England visiting English friends.

I don't support England at football because I'm not English. I don't support France or Ireland or Cape Verde either, even though I have connections with all those countries too.

To be honest though, even if I was supporting England, the way some English fans have reacted to the way the Tartan Army was received in America would make me change my mind.

Didn't you think it was a bit off the way the English fans were treated by Boston? They hadn't caused any trouble either.

BiteSizedLife · Today 07:26

The English Colonialism and Old Empire reasoning is really interesting.

The Spanish were hugely powerful, very sucessful empire builders who ruthlessly went after what they want, took what they want, did what they want etc.. They were a world superpower at one point and dominated. They weren't nice to other nations just like we often werent - and yet being openly Spanish and Proud doesn't invite the same backlash. It's really strange!

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 07:26

TequilaMockingburd · Today 07:24

I was on a cruise last year, one night there was an international dinner and there was booing at the England flag but applause for Scotland and Wales during their flag bearing ( if that’s what it’s called). I think media coverage of English sport, historical events, some loutishness abroad and racism tar many with the actions of a few. Lots of English people in scotland , settled well and part of the community though. It’s more a collective thing than an individual thing.

That is embarrassing really.

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 07:26

BiteSizedLife · Today 07:26

The English Colonialism and Old Empire reasoning is really interesting.

The Spanish were hugely powerful, very sucessful empire builders who ruthlessly went after what they want, took what they want, did what they want etc.. They were a world superpower at one point and dominated. They weren't nice to other nations just like we often werent - and yet being openly Spanish and Proud doesn't invite the same backlash. It's really strange!

Dutch and Portuguese too. Even Belgian.

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:27

Sartre · Today 07:12

Hm but Edward I invaded and conquered Wales, Scotland were never conquered but basically bribed/forced into unification. I think it’s understandable to hate the English as a Welsh or Scottish person…

That aside, we’re arsehole tourists so have a terrible reputation.

Scotland (mostly the nobility and lowland middle class) wanted to get in on the colonialism game and tried to stake a claim to the Darian Gap. Basically they put all their money into first one doomed expedition and then another expedition after the failed one. This ultimately led to them being bankrupted and it was the Scottish upper class then self who suggested the Act of Union in return for the countries debts being paid of.

The "forced into unification" only happened because their attempt at forcibly taking part of another continent for personal enrichment failed. Of course, they weren't alone in trying to do thatm it was quite the thing. But it's odd to not include that as it makes Scotland sound like the victims of colonialism, when they were trying to pull it off themselves.

There is an alternative history where the expeditions to the Darian gap were successful, a large part of South America is Scottish not Spanish speaking and the Act of Union never happened... But Scotland was not Forced into bankruptcy then unification through English double dealings. It was the mosquitos of the Darian Gap that held the most blame.

nellly · Today 07:30

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 23:11

What does this mean though? I am one of the English and an Engliah person although I mostly identify as a Londoner, so people from elsewhere in England also have a problem with 'Londoners'

As a side note I live up north and have lived in various big cities up here and grew up rurally. I don’t know any who hates Londoners as humans BUT I see anti London resentment as a result of feeling like for decades investment was poured into London and other areas were neglected. That kind of division and ‘left behind’ element has caused a lot of problems levelling up is yet to fix and ultimately arguably led to Brexit and significant national damage. I don’t think it translates to Londoners themselves though apart from a bit of gentle ribbing of southerners more widely for being a bit soft as you have milder weather etc

HazelCritic · Today 07:32

OhBotherSaidPoo · Yesterday 23:17

But it wasn't the English Empire, it was the British empire, with Scots, Welsh and some Irish willingly participating and expanding under Scottish kings.

Nope. Wales,Scotland and Ireland were violently colonised across centuries, their cultures and languages forcibly erased. Of course many places find it hard to muster support for England as a sporting entity but like English people as individuals.

A lot of people on this thread need to learn history, and I say that as an English person.

tilypu · Today 07:33

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 07:25

Didn't you think it was a bit off the way the English fans were treated by Boston? They hadn't caused any trouble either.

I wasn't there, but my understanding is that Bostonians turned against England because of the negativity they brought with them: specifically the negativity towards the Tartan Army, who they had very publicly welcomed and partied with.

If you had guests that you enjoyed spending time with and had become friends, then your next guests basically started off by slating your first guests, I reckon you wouldn't warm to them immediately either.

UniquePinkSwan · Today 07:35

I live in England but I I’m Scottish so never support England. If you go on any forum there is a lot of English hate because of football. It’s the way the English go on when they are in a tournament.

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:37

BiteSizedLife · Today 07:26

The English Colonialism and Old Empire reasoning is really interesting.

The Spanish were hugely powerful, very sucessful empire builders who ruthlessly went after what they want, took what they want, did what they want etc.. They were a world superpower at one point and dominated. They weren't nice to other nations just like we often werent - and yet being openly Spanish and Proud doesn't invite the same backlash. It's really strange!

The Spanish had a bit of a chip for a while about "the black legend". Basically they felt that Spanish brutality was talked about far more than other countries brutality and that partly anti-Catholicism was to blame. So in a sense it's the same grievance that you seem to be alluding to, that one country was being disproportionately blamed for it's empire but for them the country was Spain not England. In more recent times, Spain was under a fascist dictatorship at the same time that some of the soul searching/revisiting if empire was happening in the UK etc. So that might have an impact in how it's talked about. Also, maybe the fact that Spain as a feudal society didn't get the same long term economic boost that the UK did. They seized huge amounts of wealth for sure, but didn't industrialise and most of the population continued as desperately poor peasants into the 20th century "never was a nation so rich or so poor" as Defoe said. So maybe the fact that there isn't as much a " we built our wealth by taking from other countries" angle means it's seen as less relevant? ( See also Russia's long history of building it's empire and somehow ending poorer each time).

Abra1t · Today 07:38

OhBotherSaidPoo · Yesterday 23:17

But it wasn't the English Empire, it was the British empire, with Scots, Welsh and some Irish willingly participating and expanding under Scottish kings.

And Scots and Irish were actually over represented in the army that maintained order and in the civil service and among the merchant class that exploited the empire.

Glasgow was the second city of empire.

My Scottish and Irish ancestors pop up in Victorian cemeteries across India.

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:40

tilypu · Today 07:33

I wasn't there, but my understanding is that Bostonians turned against England because of the negativity they brought with them: specifically the negativity towards the Tartan Army, who they had very publicly welcomed and partied with.

If you had guests that you enjoyed spending time with and had become friends, then your next guests basically started off by slating your first guests, I reckon you wouldn't warm to them immediately either.

Boston famously celebrate the life of a posh English man every year. So it's enough for them also to enjoy partying with the Scots. No hard feelings.

tilypu · Today 07:41

Why would there be hard feelings?

RoseOliviaAu · Today 07:42

It’s not. We took over half of the planet with violence in case that missed you…

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:47

Abra1t · Today 07:38

And Scots and Irish were actually over represented in the army that maintained order and in the civil service and among the merchant class that exploited the empire.

Glasgow was the second city of empire.

My Scottish and Irish ancestors pop up in Victorian cemeteries across India.

The Irish made up about a third of the British army at one time.
I think it's a little unfair to attribute personal responsibility for empire to those ordinary soldiers though. They often joined up due to poverty and not having a lot of other options open. This was especially true for the Irish but also true of the Scottish.and English working classes as well. And regiments from the Indian Subcontinent were very important as well. Basically, as almost always, empires rely on soldiers from across it's territories to hold land and expand further. It doesn't mean Ireland etc weren't also badly treated. But it was not the population of England fighting the rest of the world. The numbers wouldn't work.

Batsratscatsgnats · Today 07:49

Tippertapperfeet · Today 07:07

My family is from Northern Ireland. I was born in England.

what would the Irish be jealous of the English for?

I don’t hate the English on an individual level at all - I am one - but I can see and understand why some people dislike Englishness and the English centric view of sport.

I have to say that characterising hundreds of years of oppression and things such as the Great Hunger as “just about sport” is surprising to me @Batsratscatsgnats

Fwiw I didnt categorise it as just about sport. I actually asked a question - something along the lines of - does it go further than sport -as the title and the MN AI changed my title.

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Persephonia1966 · Today 07:51

tilypu · Today 07:41

Why would there be hard feelings?

It was a joke

I just think that this is the kind of thing breathless sounding AI voices will say over stock footage of, eg, people going to a pub in a "fake gossip" kind of tone.

The only real footage I saw was an English football fan carrying a cutout of Harry Kane to a pub full of Scottish fans and them chanting "Harry Kane licks windows on the bus". Which was hilarious. If Bostonians can't understand banter thats on them but again, I saw no news of disturbances so suspect it's just AI gossip machines.

PomplaMouse · Today 07:51

It's sports. It's a really normal part of sporting rivalry, which some English fans get unduly butthurt about.

Sport where you wanted your rivals to do well would be pretty joyless, and deprive the great joy of rubbing success in others' sour faces.

Batsratscatsgnats · Today 07:52

tilypu · Today 07:16

I'm Scottish. I'm currently down in England visiting English friends.

I don't support England at football because I'm not English. I don't support France or Ireland or Cape Verde either, even though I have connections with all those countries too.

To be honest though, even if I was supporting England, the way some English fans have reacted to the way the Tartan Army was received in America would make me change my mind.

The question wasnt why dont you support England though. It was about anyone BUT England. And FWIW I havent heard anyone say ANYTHUNG derogatory about the tartan army. Its been all.over the papers and the radio how loved they were in the US. I think you're making things up if you're implying otherwise

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RantyMcGee · Today 07:53

OhBotherSaidPoo · Yesterday 23:17

But it wasn't the English Empire, it was the British empire, with Scots, Welsh and some Irish willingly participating and expanding under Scottish kings.

I’m not sure invasion and oppression can be seen as willing participation. Think you might need to revise your history by learning from the other perspective. Specifically focussing on the Plantation of Ulster, where wealthy landowners from England (and some Scottish) were moved to Ulster to essentially colonise it…leading eventually to the act of partition. Oh and the potato famine where there actually was enough food to feed the local population but the again the wealthy (English) landowners exported it out of Ireland and killed or imprisoned anyone found “stealing” food.

ETA: Also see more recent history where despite Scotland and Northern Ireland both voting by a majority to remain in the EU, they’ve had to leave due to the vote of the English.

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 07:53

No, it’s about Sport
it’s the bragging and media that cause the stir, some of the fans can be obnoxious and loud.
Could be worse, the fans from France and Egypt enjoyed smashing up the city after a game, plus many more I am not a fan of football.