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To be surprised this estate agent wasn’t sacked?

204 replies

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:10

We listed our house with the biggest estate agent in our area (also with the best reviews/reputation).

We approved the photos to be used and description to be added to the usual portals such as RightMove.

Shortly after it went live, a friend told me it had been posted on our town’s community Facebook page. On one of the living room photos, the TV on the wall had been edited to include a couple having sex.

I immediately called the estate agent who got back to me shortly after, apologised and said they’d remove the photo and instigated a full investigation.

They contacted me today and said they had identified it was a junior colleague who did this ‘as a joke’ and that they’d been reprimanded. They confirmed they’ve kept their job.

I am perplexed by this. Surely that is a sackable offence?

OP posts:
AnonyMumAuDHD · 04/07/2026 14:53

Tbh I would say that their company had committed gross misconduct and publicly embarrassed you - I’d terminate my contract immediately and report them to:
a) their head office/CEO
b) and any property/professional organisations that they are a member of.

Purplecatshopaholic · 04/07/2026 15:08

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:17

What an insightful reply..

Charming response. The comment is correct, whether you feel it’s right or not. They will have (or should have) processes to follow in relation to inappropriate behaviour of staff. These matters are confidential and you are not entitled to know the outcome. I would have thought it is a disciplinary offence but may not be a dismissal, depending on their policies.

InveterateWineDrinker · 04/07/2026 15:16

I'd terminate the contract immediately and tell them if they want to enforce a notice period they whistle for it.

I'd also report them to Propertymark (if they're registered) and, for good measure, the Information Commissioner's Office for manipulating your data (the images) without your consent.

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 04/07/2026 15:23

REDB99 · 04/07/2026 14:45

How? It’s tacky. I’d never view a house where the TVs were on the wall. Definitely pretty high on the grim things in houses scale.

You remind me of the way the DM used to report with horror at despised lower-class people who had flat-screen TVs!!

It seems a bit bonkers to dismiss somebody's choice of TV support as undesirable. Meanwhile, there are people who would denounce anybody as a ghastly chav for actually having a TV in the first place, because they play board games and charades and sing around the piano for entertainment in their household!

CalmWriter · 04/07/2026 15:24

I’d rather see that than the creepy family portraits most people have displayed in their homes when estate agents take pictures.

PersephoneParlormaid · 04/07/2026 15:51

Hit them in the wallet and take it off sale with them

Besidemyselfwithworry · 04/07/2026 16:11

godmum56 · 04/07/2026 11:04

where do we get all these free hours? none round here

Some of the solicitors in Nottingham offer a free hour for advice - have a Google

Boomer55 · 04/07/2026 16:30

snackatack · 03/07/2026 23:47

you could repot it to the police and seek compensation - its that serious if I'm honest.

The police won’t be interested, and there wouldn’t be grounds for any Compo.

EsmeSusanOgg · 04/07/2026 16:31

Vaxtable · 03/07/2026 22:17

Now I would go back and say due to the embarrassment for you you expect them to halve their fee

Or allow you out of your contract with no costs so you can go with another, professional outlet.

JustMyView13 · 04/07/2026 17:19

You can probably end the agreement and list with someone else under breach of contract. I doubt that imagery portrayed your property in a positive light, or worked to maximise the sales price. You probably have clauses in your agreement to that effect.

C8H10N4O2 · 04/07/2026 17:32

BilgeVole · 04/07/2026 08:09

Really odd attitude.

If I did anything like this in my profession, my feet wouldn’t touch the ground on the way out the door.

Think about it from the OPs perspective. She tells her “funny family story” to a friend, who tells another friend, who tells another. Which of those friends do you think will then give the EA a wide berth when they come to sell?

Why would you have a total liability with no judgment in your office; an accident waiting to happen, that directly impacts your business.

I agree. Apparently EAs still operate in the 1980s. This type of behaviour is zero tolerance in most companies these days.

I would change agent, I see no reason why the OP shouldn’t leave a simple, strictly fact based review for them as its has caused her inconvenience and embarrassment.

court18 · 04/07/2026 17:34

Pull the listing and instruct elsewhere.

Jules2025 · 04/07/2026 17:55

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:10

We listed our house with the biggest estate agent in our area (also with the best reviews/reputation).

We approved the photos to be used and description to be added to the usual portals such as RightMove.

Shortly after it went live, a friend told me it had been posted on our town’s community Facebook page. On one of the living room photos, the TV on the wall had been edited to include a couple having sex.

I immediately called the estate agent who got back to me shortly after, apologised and said they’d remove the photo and instigated a full investigation.

They contacted me today and said they had identified it was a junior colleague who did this ‘as a joke’ and that they’d been reprimanded. They confirmed they’ve kept their job.

I am perplexed by this. Surely that is a sackable offence?

You might be able to get out of your contract as it’s a breach if they put up photos not approved by you. I’d also remove listing with them. If they’re a big brand, check if there’s an escalation route. If not, check if they’ve opted in some voluntary qualification as if that’s the case, there would be someone you can appeal to. Reputable estate agents rely on those schemes given they’re largely unregulated. It’s your home and reputation at the end of the day so I wouldn’t let it go.

Schoolchoicesucks · 04/07/2026 18:08

I agree that you don't get a say in their internal disciplinary proceedings. I would, however be expected to be released from my contract with them and be putting the house on the market with another agent. No way would they be profitting from sale of my house when it had become the subject of ridicule through the actions of their staff member.

Susan7654 · 04/07/2026 22:24

I would leave them a review on google describing what happened and the outcome. Warn others that they do it. They dont deserve such a high regard.

Maisey1991 · 04/07/2026 22:32

What’s happened as a result, have you told them you aren’t going with them any more, are they offering you discount of services as an apology etc?

ThatMauveMaker · 04/07/2026 22:51

I would withdraw your property from them, then it has cost them your fee. And leave a bad review explaining what has happened. Might take it more seriously then.

abracadabra1980 · 04/07/2026 23:14

Sorry OP but I laughed out loud at this. The naughty office junior has always made me giggle. So long as it wasn't your own faces transposed onto the screen, it makes a great story for future parties and I'd use the whole scenario to get a huge discount. Wouldn't care less whether the culprit was sacked.

CrayonCritic · 04/07/2026 23:20

Yes, it’s incredibly unprofessional, and they should lose their job over it.

I also think you should stay out of it. Hoping someone gets fired when the outcome doesn’t actually affect you feels quite grudging, and it’s probably not great for your own mental wellbeing.

The thing is, what happened wasn’t just unprofessional, it was grossly inappropriate. This isn’t a mechanic’s garage in the 1990s! It’s a professional workplace in 2026. Accessing or using sexual content like that at work is so far beyond acceptable in our current society that it’s astonishing, right?!

Personally, I’d walk away and find somewhere else, without paying any fees.

Brokentoes85 · 05/07/2026 00:54

It's not the end of the world. If you aren't happy, go with someone else.

TheLoyalSquid · 05/07/2026 14:37

I’d terminate the contract immediately and go elsewhere. Also a google review stating what happened and advising people to beware of their unprofessionalism. If they’re not taking your house sale seriously and behaving like kids, you’re wasting your time. You need to have a good working relationship with your estate agent and they’ve already blown it just for a laugh. You’re going to pay a lot of money to these people, you’re the client. Maybe if its starts hitting their commissions & profits they might grow up.

nevernotmaybe · 05/07/2026 15:15

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:17

What an insightful reply..

You're on the aibu section, it is completely on topic and relevant to that.

EvieBB · 05/07/2026 21:49

Vaxtable · 03/07/2026 22:17

Now I would go back and say due to the embarrassment for you you expect them to halve their fee

...or report them? Surely there's an ombudsman you can complain to?

Amethystmama · 06/07/2026 07:18

I would be looking for a new estate agent!

Cosyblankets · 06/07/2026 07:35

I'd be taking my house straight off the market with them and making it clear as to why.