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To block GBNews from my parent’s TV?

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goslowly · 02/07/2026 09:03

My parents retired 4 years ago. They’re both in their 60s, healthy, happy, comfortable financially.

Since they’ve retired they have been sucked in by every single thing they say on there. They can spend an entire day sat in front of the TV getting angrier and angrier. It’s to the point that if Starmer comes on the TV, they shout about how he should be killed.

it’s genuinely starting to concern me. You can’t have a rational conversation with them about anything. I miss my parents, how they used to be before all the conspiracy and anger took over.

I’m genuinely tempted to block it from their tv using parental controls and just pretending it’s some weird fault in their telly. They’d not be able to fix it.

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 13:48

Extreme views like blocking people's access to media?

KeepPumping · 02/07/2026 13:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/07/2026 13:37

I agree with this. It's not new, either. Over 40 years ago a friend of ours told us that his mother, a white woman married to a white man who'd lived all their lives on the Kent coast, an area with an almost entirely white population, had been saying things he thought were factually incorrect and offensive about immigrants and members of ethnic minorities. He tried to point this out and she told him he didn't know what these people were like. He lived in Inner London in one of the most ethnically diverse areas in the country. He taught in a university on a course that attracted students and researchers from all over the world. He had lived abroad. But she believed he wouldn't know what 'these people', i.e. people who weren't white and/or British, were like, whereas she did based on what she'd read in the Daily Mail. Extraordinary.

I find the opposite, many people who think they are "multicultural" have not really thought through he issues, from experience - Someone moaning about what Farage could do to LGBT rights asked to think about the LGBT views of the majority of people coming into the country from Africa/Asia - silence - Someone blaming their rent costs on "Billionaires" asked to look at the reality since immigration dropped by two thirds - To Let signs everywhere, an African person who told me how much they had to pay to get here etc. being asked if I could just turn up in their country by basically buying a visa - no answer. etc. etc.

SeaAndSangria · 02/07/2026 13:52

WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 13:48

Extreme views like blocking people's access to media?

If that's aimed at me, I've said I voted YANBU but not because I agree with doing that, but I can understand why OP is considering it.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 02/07/2026 13:54

PeachOctopus · 02/07/2026 11:01

Can you see though that a society that only allows one viewpoint is a repressed society, that eventually fail because no unpopular idea or viewpoint is allowed to be aired.

Trans ideology was one of the topics where dissent was banned from social media (except mumsnet because it was a UK based platform and allowed it). It was only through alternative media that people heard the discussion.
During Covid if you said that it was made in a lab you were banned, although that is now accepted and climate change denial got you banned.
The more channels there are for alternative viewpoints to be heard the better even if you don’t agree with them, otherwise if half the debate can’t be heard terrible ideas get rolled out.

There's a difference between a viewpoint, and false information marketed as news for the purposes of radicalisation.

graceinspace999 · 02/07/2026 13:54

hihelenhi · 02/07/2026 10:41

Who gets to decide which views are "correct" or "bigoted" or not? Isn't it better to push for higher standards of journalistic truth across the board rather than enforce what MIGHT be ideologically subjective?

I can't believe some posters don't understand that some of this at least is both ideological and subjective. I'm on the left, I don't watch GB news - but can you demonstrate for example where exactly they've been advocating killing lefties as claimed? Is any mention at all of immigration objectively racist or just some views? What else falls under "bigotry"?

Apparently bigots are people who don’t agree with you.

You can say anything about those with whom you disagree - you can even accuse them of encouraging calls to murder without even linking to the particular piece.

Have GB news ever sued for slander!

Anyway, jokes aside, there’s so much irony dripping through the holes in the OP’s story unnoticed by so many posters - that I fear schools have stopped teaching it.

As for the ageism! Well, well, sixty somethings are certainly being abused here.

Refusing them fully operational televisions, controlling their viewing, forced outings and hobbies until they believe 2+2 = 5

To be honest I can’t quite believe that people are seriously debating treating people like this and yet…

graceinspace999 · 02/07/2026 13:59

goslowly · 02/07/2026 12:02

Funny, you’ve defended it this entire time.

Maybe they’re defending the idea of personal freedom in one’s own home.

CacheMeIfYouCan · 02/07/2026 14:04

goslowly · 02/07/2026 09:03

My parents retired 4 years ago. They’re both in their 60s, healthy, happy, comfortable financially.

Since they’ve retired they have been sucked in by every single thing they say on there. They can spend an entire day sat in front of the TV getting angrier and angrier. It’s to the point that if Starmer comes on the TV, they shout about how he should be killed.

it’s genuinely starting to concern me. You can’t have a rational conversation with them about anything. I miss my parents, how they used to be before all the conspiracy and anger took over.

I’m genuinely tempted to block it from their tv using parental controls and just pretending it’s some weird fault in their telly. They’d not be able to fix it.

OP you'd block it if it were your kids being brainwashed watching GBN, so of course you should do the same if your parents are being manipulated by the same cult. I wouldn't call GBN 'news'. OP you sound like a perfectly reasonable sane adult who has the mental health and well being of their parents in mind. Commendable. Do it. Without a backwards glance.
I'd sooner shoot the telly with fresh cow pats than have even a moment of GBN transmitted anywhere near my being. It's odd what people will watch and consider 'acceptable', but GBN like others are particularly good at rage-baiting those who are feeble of mind and will........ Your parents will thank you for it later.

graceinspace999 · 02/07/2026 14:08

goslowly · 02/07/2026 12:33

I just know my parents well enough to know they couldn’t remove the block, and they’d genuinely rather the house burns down that call someone to do anything at the house.

Is there any ageist stereotype or trope that your parents can’t be made fit?

They’re like putty in your hands - perhaps you can put your considerable care for their well being into doing something kind for others in your community?

It doesn’t exactly sound like you like them.

Gloriia · 02/07/2026 14:09

Maybe remove the telly completely, make sure they don't have the internet or papers. Ensure they dont speak to neighbours lest they get brainwashed. Perhaps take some colouring books round weekly for some activity?

Or, accept we are allowed our own opinions and a tolerant adult would accept other people's even if different to their own. Obviously if they persist with their alleged comment that they wanted to shoot you then going NC should be considered.

Pepperlee · 02/07/2026 14:13

TallSturdyGirls · 02/07/2026 12:55

Thats good. The DM is a bit of a gateway drug to negative thinking though. It rarely covers hopeful stories.

Maybe not but it has a good crossword section in the Mail.on Sunday.😃

Dontcallmescarface · 02/07/2026 14:15

CacheMeIfYouCan · 02/07/2026 14:04

OP you'd block it if it were your kids being brainwashed watching GBN, so of course you should do the same if your parents are being manipulated by the same cult. I wouldn't call GBN 'news'. OP you sound like a perfectly reasonable sane adult who has the mental health and well being of their parents in mind. Commendable. Do it. Without a backwards glance.
I'd sooner shoot the telly with fresh cow pats than have even a moment of GBN transmitted anywhere near my being. It's odd what people will watch and consider 'acceptable', but GBN like others are particularly good at rage-baiting those who are feeble of mind and will........ Your parents will thank you for it later.

They are not kids, they are adults. The OP has no right to dictate to her parents what they can and cannot watch in their own home, a home she doesn't live in. If the OP doesn't like it she is free to leave at any time and leave her parents to it. What next, she hears that Bob next door also holds the same views as her parents so she demands that they stop seeing him?

WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 14:15

SeaAndSangria · 02/07/2026 13:52

If that's aimed at me, I've said I voted YANBU but not because I agree with doing that, but I can understand why OP is considering it.

Making an exasperated joke about it, fine, but too many on here seem to be taking OP seriously/literally.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 14:16

CacheMeIfYouCan · 02/07/2026 14:04

OP you'd block it if it were your kids being brainwashed watching GBN, so of course you should do the same if your parents are being manipulated by the same cult. I wouldn't call GBN 'news'. OP you sound like a perfectly reasonable sane adult who has the mental health and well being of their parents in mind. Commendable. Do it. Without a backwards glance.
I'd sooner shoot the telly with fresh cow pats than have even a moment of GBN transmitted anywhere near my being. It's odd what people will watch and consider 'acceptable', but GBN like others are particularly good at rage-baiting those who are feeble of mind and will........ Your parents will thank you for it later.

Do it as in block someone's access to the news?

It sure is odd what people will consider 'acceptable'.

godmum56 · 02/07/2026 14:17

SeaAndSangria · 02/07/2026 13:47

No, I'm not saying that at all. I'm just saying that lots of people don't want to have to listen to constant rants about boats/ brown people, especially when it's at the expense of any other conversation. Also that we should call out any extreme views/ challenge and not just sit still silently and pretend it's not happening.

well we agree about something then.

godmum56 · 02/07/2026 14:19

WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 14:16

Do it as in block someone's access to the news?

It sure is odd what people will consider 'acceptable'.

indeed. Ageism at its finest

Persephonia1966 · 02/07/2026 14:19

graceinspace999 · 02/07/2026 13:54

Apparently bigots are people who don’t agree with you.

You can say anything about those with whom you disagree - you can even accuse them of encouraging calls to murder without even linking to the particular piece.

Have GB news ever sued for slander!

Anyway, jokes aside, there’s so much irony dripping through the holes in the OP’s story unnoticed by so many posters - that I fear schools have stopped teaching it.

As for the ageism! Well, well, sixty somethings are certainly being abused here.

Refusing them fully operational televisions, controlling their viewing, forced outings and hobbies until they believe 2+2 = 5

To be honest I can’t quite believe that people are seriously debating treating people like this and yet…

I don't know about what a bigot is.

But a great man** once defined a fanatic as "someone who can't change their mind and won't change the subject"

And that seems to fit with the OPs problem. It's no that her parents have different views to her. They seem always to have done. It's that those views are becoming more entrenched and simultaneously so consuming every conversation goes back to it. Its quite exhausting to be around that all the time. Regardless of the politics involved (someone who makes every conversation about Thatcher can be just as tiring).

**Or mass murderer, depending on your viewpoint

graceinspace999 · 02/07/2026 14:19

goslowly · 02/07/2026 12:08

I do think I’m going to have to stop seeing them as often. It just makes me sad that I’ve lost my parents to such nonsense

There is no sadness coming across in your writing - just anger and a strong need to justify your desire to coercively control your parents.

Pepperlee · 02/07/2026 14:25

OonaStubbs · 02/07/2026 13:15

Just gift your parents a subscription to the Guardian and the audiobook of "the Ragged Trousered Philanthropists" and that should put them on the straight and narrow.

One of my favourite books on my bookshelf. Recommended by my Dad in my youth. Sorry for going off topic.

Pepperlee · 02/07/2026 14:31

notedbiscuits · 02/07/2026 13:22

Do they read the Daily Mail?

I used to work at a supermarket and served customers who believed in every word of the DM like it’s a bible and talked to us about it

“oh as it’s in the paper it must be true”

Oh FGS. The hated Daily Mail again. Some will believe every word and some have the mental capacity to form their own opinions on what they read which is the same with any publication.

goslowly · 02/07/2026 14:33

Gloriia · 02/07/2026 14:09

Maybe remove the telly completely, make sure they don't have the internet or papers. Ensure they dont speak to neighbours lest they get brainwashed. Perhaps take some colouring books round weekly for some activity?

Or, accept we are allowed our own opinions and a tolerant adult would accept other people's even if different to their own. Obviously if they persist with their alleged comment that they wanted to shoot you then going NC should be considered.

I’ve obviously touched a nerve with a lot of people who see no issue with saying this type of thing

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5MinuteArgument · 02/07/2026 14:34

KeepPumping · 02/07/2026 13:48

I find the opposite, many people who think they are "multicultural" have not really thought through he issues, from experience - Someone moaning about what Farage could do to LGBT rights asked to think about the LGBT views of the majority of people coming into the country from Africa/Asia - silence - Someone blaming their rent costs on "Billionaires" asked to look at the reality since immigration dropped by two thirds - To Let signs everywhere, an African person who told me how much they had to pay to get here etc. being asked if I could just turn up in their country by basically buying a visa - no answer. etc. etc.

Yes, that's my experience too. I think you would only think GB News was beyond the pale if you were well insulated from the pressures being placed on our society.

If I was the OP I would be looking at ways to get them away from the telly rather than policing what they watch.

EasternStandard · 02/07/2026 14:35

WrongKindOfFeminist · 02/07/2026 14:16

Do it as in block someone's access to the news?

It sure is odd what people will consider 'acceptable'.

It’s pretty full on. Perhaps they will work out why they are blocked and do what this thread does but talk to their friends. But about the op and what to do.

Gloriia · 02/07/2026 14:37

goslowly · 02/07/2026 14:33

I’ve obviously touched a nerve with a lot of people who see no issue with saying this type of thing

I know! Fancy trying to control what your parents watch it's really weird. My dm likes Vera I hate it but live and let live is my motto <mind she doesn't say I should be shot but i struggle to think that any parent would suggest that tbh>.

godmum56 · 02/07/2026 14:38

goslowly · 02/07/2026 14:33

I’ve obviously touched a nerve with a lot of people who see no issue with saying this type of thing

Nope the issue I see is your wanting to control other adults.

Araminta1003 · 02/07/2026 14:41

I think I have the opposite problem with my parents. They are desperate to fulfil their bucket list before they die and “do” as much as they can and experience as much as possible. So the latest is their trip to China, no matter the consequences. And I have had my mother whining at me for failing to get her first release tickets to the Bayeux tapestry. And my parents are out non-stop, their social calendar is booked months in advance, they know everyone blah blah blah, there is not a single day they do not have at least 2 social commitments. I would like them to be more available! My dad is writing his 5th book on a very bizarre topic. I think mine are rageing at death and any suggestion that they should be careful or take things easy because X Y Z absolutely met with a teenage style response.

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