I don’t think that’s the case in this discussion - many of us have done that - the only difference is how you choose to slice the proceeds between today and tomorrow.
Many other people study, work hard and are successful but have very little disposable income and are continually doing their best to get by.
My 4 DC have ‘cost’ me loads nanny’s, childcare, private education, university costs, housing, bills, food etc x6. But I have unconditional love and a deep satisfaction exposing them to amazing experiences and now watching them live balanced enriching lives.
I don’t envy this couples life bouncing around the world in Air BnBs - I love my local friends, children, community events, family etc that’s my prosperity, happiness and ‘wealth’. But I get they love their full filling lives too.