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AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?

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Katey83 · Today 13:43

I live in a terraced house. My neighbours have painted the back of their house bright blue (think swimming pool blue / like the Mikanos blue). It is horrible and looms over my garden. It’s really going to spoil my enjoyment of my space to have to look at this every day. I spoke to the wife earlier this morning and said it was not to my taste and would they consider changing and she said ‘the beige of your house isn’t to my taste but it’s your house. This is my house.’ And shut the door in my face. WIBU to report them to the council? Can I even do so? Surely you can’t just paint any offensive colour and expect neighbours to live alongside it?

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Ilovemsrachel · Today 14:44

With respect, you need to get some real problems.

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · Today 14:44

Oranginacatterpilla · Today 14:22

Lots of rude people on this thread.

You have to admit it sounds a little bit entitled to want to compromise about paint colour. OPasked and has been told she's being u.
There are some odd neighbour issues on MN recently along with 'prancing in bikinis' and now this. [Shakes head] 😀

Toveylove · Today 14:45

Katey83 · Today 14:41

Why should I pay for their entire fence?

Pay for it to be heightened, only.

GinaandGin · Today 14:45

Katey83 · Today 14:19

You can see it from the adjacent street as we are towards the end of the terrace (my neighbour on the other side has the end house).

Sure it will be a good sign post for directing visitors/ deliveroo s/ parcels
Look on the bright (mykonos blue) side

MajorProcrastination · Today 14:45

Katey83 · Today 14:30

I feel I’m getting quite a hard time of it. Ok. I understand I can’t change their house or complain. Surely it’s ok to feel a bit annoyed that my lovely garden will now not be such a sanctuary for me. The colour really is overbearing in our street where the other homes are mostly white/beige, brick or pebbledash?

This is peak mumsnet. You're getting a smashing in the comments because while it's OK to be annoyed about anything, it's bonkers that you've let the back of someone else's house get to you this much. Also, that you'd have the audacity, the gumption, the gall to suggest that they go to the expense and effort to repaint it a shade that you approve of. It's their home!

My mate painted her garden walls a bright blue and it's a gorgeous space to relax in. Someone else here's already referenced the stunning garden in Marrakesh with the iconic blue walls. This is the colour I'm imagining: YesColours | Blog: How to: Majorelle Garden design with Electric Blue masonry paint

I'm honestly baffled that you'd let someone else's back wall impact this much on your own experience of your garden retreat. Plant some taller plants or trees, turn your chair around so you're facing the other direction.

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Frequency · Today 14:45

Toveylove · Today 14:43

Shutting the door on you proves that they aren’t ok. Barely civil and tone deaf. So yes, I’d try to double the height of the fence with some trellis and grow honeysuckle or jasmine etc on it. Or get a trough the length of the fence and fill it with the kind of bamboo that grows incredibly tall, quite fast.

explain you are colour sensitive. In this zeitgeist you’ll have to frame it as ND disability you have to struggle with and guilt trip them into civility. Tell them intense colour gives you anxiety. Then they won’t feel entitled to shut the door in your face.

I can't decide whether this is satire or not @Toveylove ? I'm leaning towards yes.

GinaandGin · Today 14:46

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · Today 14:44

You have to admit it sounds a little bit entitled to want to compromise about paint colour. OPasked and has been told she's being u.
There are some odd neighbour issues on MN recently along with 'prancing in bikinis' and now this. [Shakes head] 😀

Maybe they are sisters

Honeyhonay · Today 14:47

Katey83 · Today 14:41

Why should I pay for their entire fence?

Why would they pay to make their fence higher because you don’t like it lower?

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 14:47

GinaandGin · Today 14:45

Sure it will be a good sign post for directing visitors/ deliveroo s/ parcels
Look on the bright (mykonos blue) side

It's only at the back.

ReginaPhalange1989 · Today 14:47

Toveylove · Today 14:43

Shutting the door on you proves that they aren’t ok. Barely civil and tone deaf. So yes, I’d try to double the height of the fence with some trellis and grow honeysuckle or jasmine etc on it. Or get a trough the length of the fence and fill it with the kind of bamboo that grows incredibly tall, quite fast.

explain you are colour sensitive. In this zeitgeist you’ll have to frame it as ND disability you have to struggle with and guilt trip them into civility. Tell them intense colour gives you anxiety. Then they won’t feel entitled to shut the door in your face.

This is batsh!t!! Make up a disability to guilt their neighbours into painting a different colour - totally normal and acceptable thing to do.

If her ND makes her colour sensitive to blue then she should probably avoid days with clear skies.

The "shutting door in face" yes, this is rude... but we've no idea how the conversation went, was OP rude? being aggressive? because I certainly would be OK with my neighbour shutting their door in my face if I went round ranting and raving about their poor taste.

DontStopMe · Today 14:47

There was a stripey house in Kensington where the owners were taken to court by the council, but I don't see anything wrong with a blue one.

https://www.bidwells.co.uk/projects/stripey-house-kensington/

Stripey House, Kensington

https://www.bidwells.co.uk/projects/stripey-house-kensington

suki1964 · Today 14:48

if its their fence, ask politely if you could put up a trellis along the top - and grow a honeysuckle - grows a mile a minute . Or a couple of clematis , winter and summer flowering to you always have something that will break the colour up

mathematicallydriving · Today 14:48

Oh dear OP. It’s not nice living next to inconsiderate neighbours. I don’t blame you for not wanting to live near them. Perhaps you should put your house on the market and move far, far away.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 14:49

DontStopMe · Today 14:47

There was a stripey house in Kensington where the owners were taken to court by the council, but I don't see anything wrong with a blue one.

https://www.bidwells.co.uk/projects/stripey-house-kensington/

I didn't see what was wrong with this stripey one!

Gloriia · Today 14:49

All depends on your council. As pp have said there have been cases where people have had to repaint exterior areas due to complaints. While it wouldn't bother me it obviously annoys you so give it a go!

Error404FucksNotFound · Today 14:50

Its a bloody awful shade of blue imo. But im not sure seeing a blue house when you're in your garden should be affecting your happiness like this. It's just a colour.

GinaandGin · Today 14:50

PurpleThistle7 · Today 14:15

OMG do you think the OP asked to speak to the man of the house??

I now imagining the cast of the 70s tv show "robyns nest "

Butchyrestingface · Today 14:51

DontStopMe · Today 14:47

There was a stripey house in Kensington where the owners were taken to court by the council, but I don't see anything wrong with a blue one.

https://www.bidwells.co.uk/projects/stripey-house-kensington/

I quite like this.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 14:52

Butchyrestingface · Today 14:51

I quite like this.

Me too!

GinaandGin · Today 14:52

Katey83 · Today 14:17

The husband painted it and I expected him to be the one I’d have the discussion with. It didn’t occur to me his wife would have agreed with the choice as she seems reasonable and tasteful when I see them out and about. He is a bit of a lout. I really can’t do anything right by mumsnet standards!

How is he a lout

Ethelspagetti · Today 14:52

Around 20 years ago I lived near a house painted black! The neighbours reported it to the council and newspapers but nothing could be done about it. The neighbours struggled to sell up for years, until the black house people needed to move and realised no one would buy it! They ended up painting it white and moving much to their neighbours delight!

Toveylove · Today 14:52

MajorProcrastination · Today 14:45

This is peak mumsnet. You're getting a smashing in the comments because while it's OK to be annoyed about anything, it's bonkers that you've let the back of someone else's house get to you this much. Also, that you'd have the audacity, the gumption, the gall to suggest that they go to the expense and effort to repaint it a shade that you approve of. It's their home!

My mate painted her garden walls a bright blue and it's a gorgeous space to relax in. Someone else here's already referenced the stunning garden in Marrakesh with the iconic blue walls. This is the colour I'm imagining: YesColours | Blog: How to: Majorelle Garden design with Electric Blue masonry paint

I'm honestly baffled that you'd let someone else's back wall impact this much on your own experience of your garden retreat. Plant some taller plants or trees, turn your chair around so you're facing the other direction.

Ha ha. Wayne & Waynetta Win the Lottery.

DoubleShotEspresso · Today 14:53

**It doesn’t quite feel the same in south London.••

@Katey83 are we talking F&B Elephant Breath South London?
Or "we could really do with a sturdy gate across the front door" South London?

I mean either option would benefit with an injection of colour I guess.

Does the sky bother you?

Toveylove · Today 14:53

Ethelspagetti · Today 14:52

Around 20 years ago I lived near a house painted black! The neighbours reported it to the council and newspapers but nothing could be done about it. The neighbours struggled to sell up for years, until the black house people needed to move and realised no one would buy it! They ended up painting it white and moving much to their neighbours delight!

What is wrong with these people! So inconsiderate, and think they are so cool. Yuck.

Katey83 · Today 14:54

GinaandGin · Today 14:52

How is he a lout

Loud. Drinks beer day and night. Shouts at the children when they are playing in the garden. Wears clothes with holes in even though they live in a £500k house. Odd.

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