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AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?

443 replies

Katey83 · Today 13:43

I live in a terraced house. My neighbours have painted the back of their house bright blue (think swimming pool blue / like the Mikanos blue). It is horrible and looms over my garden. It’s really going to spoil my enjoyment of my space to have to look at this every day. I spoke to the wife earlier this morning and said it was not to my taste and would they consider changing and she said ‘the beige of your house isn’t to my taste but it’s your house. This is my house.’ And shut the door in my face. WIBU to report them to the council? Can I even do so? Surely you can’t just paint any offensive colour and expect neighbours to live alongside it?

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TeaBiscuitsNaptime · Today 15:50

It's their house at the end of the day. And let's face it, I know so many houses that are white, neutral, grey etc. but there are more important things to worry about at the end of the day, health, wellbeing, finances etc. I would embrace it if it was me and add touches of colour to my own garden or house that help tone it down

Magsbd · Today 15:50

If this happened in Scotland the local council would check it out in case it contravened local planning regulations. By the way, there are a lot of nasty ‘Mums’ on here trying to make out you’re being unreasonable. I find that weird. I bet if it did happen next to them they’d wouldn’t like it. It must be so disappointing for you.

outerspacepotato · Today 15:52

Katey83 · Today 14:41

Why should I pay for their entire fence?

Because you're the one who wants to change the height and you'd better check you building codes.

NormasArse · Today 15:52

Livingthebestlife · Today 13:59

Is her name* *Edie McCredie

When she honks her horrrrn, you get to step inside 😉

Jane143 · Today 15:53

Stop being dramatic and just don’t look at it

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 15:53

Magsbd · Today 15:50

If this happened in Scotland the local council would check it out in case it contravened local planning regulations. By the way, there are a lot of nasty ‘Mums’ on here trying to make out you’re being unreasonable. I find that weird. I bet if it did happen next to them they’d wouldn’t like it. It must be so disappointing for you.

What do you mean by 'Mums' with the inverted commas?

EcoChica1980 · Today 15:56

‘the beige of your house isn’t to my taste but it’s your house. This is my house.’

A world class response, to be fair. I'd have loved to have seen your face at this moment.

midlifeattheoasis · Today 15:58

Katey83 · Today 13:59

I don’t understand this

Balamory

nothingpunny · Today 15:58

May I just ask, why exactly you are staring at the back of your neighbours house in the first place?

Mine could paint theirs bright pink and I don't think that I would notice, as I'm not looking at their house when I'm in my garden.

nomchonge1 · Today 15:59

do you houses back onto a train track? i think ive seen this house!

FWC2026 · Today 16:01

Yellowpapersun · Today 14:29

Can't you just turn your deckchair so you can't see the wall?

Gosh, that would be too easy! She'd have to find something else to whinge about too, that's a LOT!

TamzinGrey · Today 16:02

Make sure never to visit Tenby OP - and avoid the Venetian Island of Burano at all costs.

FWC2026 · Today 16:02

EcoChica1980 · Today 15:56

‘the beige of your house isn’t to my taste but it’s your house. This is my house.’

A world class response, to be fair. I'd have loved to have seen your face at this moment.

Me too!!

FWC2026 · Today 16:02

TamzinGrey · Today 16:02

Make sure never to visit Tenby OP - and avoid the Venetian Island of Burano at all costs.

😂😂👍🏻

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 16:02

TamzinGrey · Today 16:02

Make sure never to visit Tenby OP - and avoid the Venetian Island of Burano at all costs.

Or Tobermory!

FudgeFudy · Today 16:04

Great thread. When I read the title I thought 'What's the blue house been up to? Speeding? Smoking weed?'. But turns out it's just blue, which is disappointing.

placemats · Today 16:06

Livingthebestlife · Today 13:59

Is her name* *Edie McCredie

😂😂😂

hourspassed · Today 16:07

Livingthebestlife · Today 13:59

Is her name* *Edie McCredie

Where is that laughing emoji when you need it?

Come on Mumsnet - why did you get rid of it - what's the story?

Boomer55 · Today 16:07

Katey83 · Today 13:59

We are in London! Not a posh part but obviously everywhere in London is expensive!! I don’t want to live near an eyesore.

Unless it’s a conservation or regulated area, with regards to the outside, you have no say.

TheFormidableMrsC · Today 16:08

Be grateful, there is a house near me which is detached and large and it is painted dark blue front, sides and back. It’s hideous but it’s their house I guess!

placemats · Today 16:11

hourspassed · Today 16:07

Where is that laughing emoji when you need it?

Come on Mumsnet - why did you get rid of it - what's the story?

The reason is very upsetting, unpleasant and constituted serious abuse. Some people ruin it for others.

DaisyDooley · Today 16:14

My friend at the other side of the village green, directly in view from some of my rooms has a rendered house.
She told me she was getting it painted -I asked what colour.
She said “wait & see” with a wink.
I was really REALLY hoping for Tango Orange 🍊 -liven things up a bit.
She had it painted white. This was two years ago. I still feel ripped off.

Just sit with your back to it. There’s nothing you can do.

SaskiaWatkins · Today 16:14

Paint yours pink and start a new Balamory.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · Today 16:14

Bjorkdidit · Today 16:07

Best not go to Copenhagen either:

A Guide to Copenhagen's Colorful Houses | stromma.com

Wow! Nyhavn is absolutely beautiful!