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White working class children

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NotAnotherScarf · 29/06/2026 08:27

The bbc has a report about a review of the academic system failing white working class children. The bulk of the population.

It's brilliant that this has been looked at but the recommendations are appalling.

Basically its saying that wcc's are only fit for manual jobs. That schools should push towards offering for vocational courses.

That's where my education went 40 years ago. One child from my year group of 242 went to university at 18. We had at most 6 kids from non white backgrounds. Many went subsequently. I have always maintained the school saw us as shop assistants, factory hands and dockers.

The other recommendations will help children of all races...free travel under 22. Promoting reading etc.

One of the reasons why kids from other backgrounds are doing better has been the push to get them into university...ie black boys being actively recruited and bursarys being given solely to them. Places sponsored etc etc.

Whilst I welcome the move to vocational training. And for many people thats a brilliant move, ts disappointing that the report thinks that that's the main option for wcc's. Basically its says "we don't think your good enough for anything else " .

BBC News - White working-class children 'failed by schools system' - BBC News
www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cq51j10q601o

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ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:41

SheMon · 29/06/2026 14:34

Per capita look at who does the most. Look at how a blind eye was turned and how the victims ignored.

I feel uneasy about using the rape gang instance to make points. The women and girls affected have suffered immensely and using them in that way feels like further exploitation and degradation. After all, Mr Farage and Mr Robinson (YL) don't talk about them in order to expose deep misogyny in our society do they? It's always to make their (bogus) points about brown and black men being violent and sexually rapacious.

But since you did, the driving factor in the cases wasn't that the women and girls were white. It wasn't that they were being systemically abused because they were white. Certainly bias and prejudice came into it - who would deny that? The whole appalling thing wasn't based on racism though.

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:42

ToffeeCrabApple · 29/06/2026 14:38

I will get flamed for saying this but....

Ethnic minority & migrant groups often have;

  • strong culture of discipline at home
  • a focus on respecting parental/teacher authority
  • a firm belief in the value of academic education

Theres been such a shift in what schools can do to impose discipline and so many white working class parents do not:

  • have firm/strict boundaries at home
  • reinforce/support school authority
  • have a strong belief in the importance of academic education

Its not really any wonder they do worse at school.

Cultural essentialism.

inkognitha · 29/06/2026 14:43

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:02

Authoritarianism and censorship? Careful, you'll give me a big head! 🤣

Thought you were gone because you found me unintelligible?

Good to see your braincells are firing up a bit more, keep trucking, you still have a long way to go.

As for giving you a big head, I don't think you need anyone or anything to feel innately superior to us lowlies, you are already way up there on your own.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:43

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:08

White people aren't subject to racism in the UK (or indeed anywhere else). Bias or prejudice maybe.

So if a black person calls a white person a white cunt - you don't think that's racism? Yet if it's the other way round, it most certainly is racism and, in accordance with the law.

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:44

inkognitha · 29/06/2026 14:43

Thought you were gone because you found me unintelligible?

Good to see your braincells are firing up a bit more, keep trucking, you still have a long way to go.

As for giving you a big head, I don't think you need anyone or anything to feel innately superior to us lowlies, you are already way up there on your own.

I said that you aren't articulate, not unintelligible. I can understand what you're saying. I just don't think you express it very well.

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:44

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:43

So if a black person calls a white person a white cunt - you don't think that's racism? Yet if it's the other way round, it most certainly is racism and, in accordance with the law.

Yes I think it's racial prejudice, not racism.

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:45

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:43

So if a black person calls a white person a white cunt - you don't think that's racism? Yet if it's the other way round, it most certainly is racism and, in accordance with the law.

No- why is calling someone a white cunt racist? What insult does being white convey?

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:46

SheMon · 29/06/2026 14:31

I'm Indian. The only time we've been racially abused was by another minority.

Sorry but it seems as an Indian woman you are not allowed to disagree with the concept of systemic racism or to state your own personal experiences.

If white liberal women say that systemic racism exists or that you are a victim of racism regardless of your own personal experiences, then it must be true.

Toveylove · 29/06/2026 14:46

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:45

No- why is calling someone a white cunt racist? What insult does being white convey?

Disingenuous. Sociopathic. Toxic.

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:47

Toveylove · 29/06/2026 14:46

Disingenuous. Sociopathic. Toxic.

White people are known for being disingenuous sociopathic and toxic? First I’ve heard of it.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/06/2026 14:48

ToffeeCrabApple · 29/06/2026 14:38

I will get flamed for saying this but....

Ethnic minority & migrant groups often have;

  • strong culture of discipline at home
  • a focus on respecting parental/teacher authority
  • a firm belief in the value of academic education

Theres been such a shift in what schools can do to impose discipline and so many white working class parents do not:

  • have firm/strict boundaries at home
  • reinforce/support school authority
  • have a strong belief in the importance of academic education

Its not really any wonder they do worse at school.

Some of this is true I think, and some isn’t.

I think it overlooks the fact that many people of colour in the UK came from families that weren’t working class in their country of origin. So they often aren’t, for example, many generations deep in unskilled jobs or no jobs at all.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:48

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:45

No- why is calling someone a white cunt racist? What insult does being white convey?

So you're saying calling somebody a black cunt also isn't racist then. The Public Order Act covers racial aggravation. Nowhere have I seen it mentioned that race only pertains to ethnic minorities.

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:48

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:45

No- why is calling someone a white cunt racist? What insult does being white convey?

On that logic what insult does being black convey?

What is much more concerning is why you think being called black is an Insult?

Machinemasoluem · 29/06/2026 14:51

Otterloverfrenchielady · 29/06/2026 08:56

There is a number of things at play here, and of course the current level of education is poor, and there is a lack of other routes after school than university.

but, in my experience this is more of a cultural thing. very broadly speaking the parents who are immigrants, 1st or 2nd generation have seen the uk education offering as a huge opportunity and have wanted to utilise it and push for the best possible outcome for their children.
You do not see the same percentage wise in white working class families, especially the more deprived you go.
in fact, the majority of those kids are told / shown ‘this is it’ and will perpetuate their parents lives. They aren’t shown there is opportunity, a different way of life, that they can dream and want for more.
I read an article years ago that looked at groups of children and found by 8 mist children had formed a view (which was the same outcome for them at 18) of wether they thought they could go to uni or not. This is ingrained in primary.

I say this as a white, working class woman, who was a single parent for many years, with two kids at uni. One that has just achieved a first masters in a stem subject from a top 5% uni in the world.

Sorry for the derail but is it normal to know what uni is at 8? I’m only in my 20s so not like uni wasn’t a common thing when I was young but I had no idea about it at 8.

Only because I was speaking to someone the other day about this and I’m pretty sure I didn’t know what uni was until I was in my second year of college and everyone started talking about it.

Handling · 29/06/2026 14:52

HortiGal · 29/06/2026 13:44

There is no shame in having a trade; currently they out earn most graduates.
Im firmly working class, my DD is about to go into her final year at Glasgow Uni and has an internship at the Foreign Office for the summer, our background or school has not held her back.
I think the obsession with uni, especially on MN is appalling; not every child is academic, but could excel in a trade.

I don’t think middle class kids can do these summer internships any more. So your daughter’s background will have helped her gain the internship, not held her back, I think?

https://www.civil-service-careers.gov.uk/fast-stream/fs-summer-internship-programme/

you must be from a lower socio-economic background, as part of our commitment to improving access and opportunities for underrepresented groups.

FS Summer Internship Programme

Discover a career in the Civil Service with the Fast Stream Summer Internship Programme (SIP). This 6-8 week, UK-wide internship offers talented undergraduates £430 per week to gain experience in research, policy creation, and project support.

https://www.civil-service-careers.gov.uk/fast-stream/fs-summer-internship-programme

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:52

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:46

Sorry but it seems as an Indian woman you are not allowed to disagree with the concept of systemic racism or to state your own personal experiences.

If white liberal women say that systemic racism exists or that you are a victim of racism regardless of your own personal experiences, then it must be true.

Excuse me, I think you are (a) making assumptions and (b) not trying to understand deeper concepts than just "work hard, do well".

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:53

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:48

On that logic what insult does being black convey?

What is much more concerning is why you think being called black is an Insult?

Because it is. Obviously words have different meanings when used as part of an insult.

would you really argue that calling a South Asian the P word is fine? It’s used as an insult, what’s the difference?

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:54

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:18

Racism is systemic.

No it's not.

Specifically in the UK what can a white person do that a black person cannot.

The belief of systemic racism is an evil and vile viewpoint that has no place in modern society- it destroys hope and ambition amongst ethnic minorities particularly young black boys, keeping them down as "victims " rather trying to improve their lives.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:56

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 14:53

Because it is. Obviously words have different meanings when used as part of an insult.

would you really argue that calling a South Asian the P word is fine? It’s used as an insult, what’s the difference?

If you are diminishing a person's value based on their race, you are being racist. Why not just call aforementioned white person a cunt? The law disagrees with you and fortunately regurgitated social theories aren't relevant, in practice.

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:57

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:54

No it's not.

Specifically in the UK what can a white person do that a black person cannot.

The belief of systemic racism is an evil and vile viewpoint that has no place in modern society- it destroys hope and ambition amongst ethnic minorities particularly young black boys, keeping them down as "victims " rather trying to improve their lives.

👏 always advocated by the left. Kemi Badenoch is feeling it at present.

godmum56 · 29/06/2026 15:02

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 09:03

I worked on a project in my county about 12 years ago called narrowing the gap and it was based around white working class boys. The biggest issue that separates them from other ethnic groups is the fact their parents do not value education and the work ethic is very lacking. Not encouraging homework, not backing school discipline etc. It has a huge impact and I’m not sure schools can fix it. There are groups of parents in society who cannot imagine their dc achieving and would be unhappy if their dc did better than them (eg went to uni). I’ve seen it.

me too and very personally. Its called "crab bucket"* Its not new.
My lovely Mil, who told me this story "married out of her class" (he was a draughtsman, she didn't have any training because "women should stay home and have babies" but it was kind of ok because she was "only a girl" They had 2 sons and both parents wanted them to do well. They both passed 11+ and went to the local grammar and that wasn't thought right or "normal" by the family. Younger son, my late husband, wanted to go to sea and got an apprenticeship place at a Merchant Navy officer training school. This was Definitely Bad. It would have been ok to train as an AB (seaman) but being an officer was "not for the likes of us" and "getting above himself" I did meet my Mil's family at my wedding, Fil died in an accident before I could meet him,
End of story, My Mil met a lovely man and remarried. He was a pub landlord in Somerset. her family cut her off completely for marrying out of her class twice!

*apparently you don't need a lid to keep crabs in a bucket. If one tries to climb out, all the others will pull him back in again.

noworklifebalance · 29/06/2026 15:02

I am sure someone will correct me but my understanding is that the key to determine whether it is racist is whether that race has suffered systematic and ongoing oppression or freedom, rights and privileges. I don’t think “white” people have as a race and hence not racism to call them a “white [insert chose word]”.
A Hindu person referring to Muslim with religious hate and vice versus, same with Jews would be a form of racism/religious hatred.

inkognitha · 29/06/2026 15:05

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 14:44

I said that you aren't articulate, not unintelligible. I can understand what you're saying. I just don't think you express it very well.

Of course, the way I say things is a lot more important than what I say.
Of course, it's fine for "progressives" to attack people on their lack of communications skills or writing style, education levels.

You are truly a gift that keeps on giving... pls do keep posting, I don't think I will engage further, you probably have even worse peasants to go chastise from your high horse, but I really think you are doing a great job.

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 15:05

1dayatatime · 29/06/2026 14:54

No it's not.

Specifically in the UK what can a white person do that a black person cannot.

The belief of systemic racism is an evil and vile viewpoint that has no place in modern society- it destroys hope and ambition amongst ethnic minorities particularly young black boys, keeping them down as "victims " rather trying to improve their lives.

You can't seriously expect me to debate with someone whose opening gambit is "no it's not" in response to the statement that racism is systemic?

Come off it.

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 15:06

LuckyHazelFox · 29/06/2026 14:56

If you are diminishing a person's value based on their race, you are being racist. Why not just call aforementioned white person a cunt? The law disagrees with you and fortunately regurgitated social theories aren't relevant, in practice.

What law are you referring to?