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Prospects after special school

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okroger · 28/06/2026 18:03

Sorry if I phase anything here wrong. I’m very new to any additional needs/SEN language.

My DS 3.5 will start school in Sept 2027. We’re awaiting an assessment but it’s looking likely he’ll be diagnosed as autistic. His issues are a speech delay and poor understanding. He can talk but not typically, doesn’t hold conversations for example.

It’s been suggested by his nursery that he may require a special school unless a lot of progression happens in the next year. Although I predicted this it feels a bit of a shock. Of course if this is the best route for him it will be the right choice.

I guess I’m worried about the prospects after special school. I’m sorry if this question offends anyone but what happens after usually. Can people get jobs, have careers, relationships etc. I know it’s a huge spectrum so maybe it’s a silly question and how long is a piece of string but I suppose I’m looking for some reassurance.

He’s classed as globally delayed (in speech and communication). He’s having independent speech therapy and is showing signs of progression so that’s positive.

I have a feeling he’s going to fall in the middle, his needs might not be met by mainstream but not server enough for special education.

Thanks x

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ExplodingSmittens · 29/06/2026 14:02

Having had one with ASD who went to mainstream I can’t emphasise enough how much they were let down. If you have the chance of a specialist school I would take it.

Phineyj · 29/06/2026 15:14

okroger · 29/06/2026 13:01

Thanks again everyone.
I’m really struggling to see how much things could improve but these posts have really helped and hopefully I’m telling a similar story one day (of course there’s always the chance it won’t be as positive).
Should I start looking to apply for an EHCP at this point or is it too soon?

Yes you should apply asap. Use the template letter on the IPSEA website. Do it now before summer holidays slow everything down!

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