It was my birthday and her nans birthday, she's stopped out the night before and a couple of nights before that and I'd asked her to be home for 10 as we had family plans to celebrate.
She came home at 11am and asked if she could go over there again tonight, I'd said not tonight as we've got family plans and also her nan is the one who drives and gives her lifts everywhere and as it was her birthday then it's not fair as she deserves the day to have a rest and celebrate.
We went out 2-6 and then she started getting overwhelmed and constantly asking to go home (she's autistic so this happens alot) so we dropped her home for a couple of hours. 5 mins after dropping her off she'd left the house with her bf and started walking all the way to her friends house.
I messaged her asking where she was going and she said a walk. I said be home for half 9, she started saying no, idgaf what you say etc
About half 9, I went out to find her but she just kept running off and refused to come home, so she ended up spending the night at her friends house and has been there all day.
Aibu to have asked her to stay home? Or be annoyed that's she's just ran off? How should I handle it when she comes home?
The teenager thing is new to me and I know she's 16 so technically not kid but still not quite an adult and I have no mom friends to talk to about it.