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AIBU to think I could learn to drive in a week?

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HamJam1 · 28/06/2026 12:31

Passed my theory but I still cant drive, dont have access to a car and cant afford lessons, practical js booked. Wooo!
A friend has suggested i go spend a week at her place where she can teach me, how possible do you think it is to learn to drive a manual car in a week? Is that insane? I dont even know how to turn an engine on

OP posts:
PurpleLovecats · 28/06/2026 15:23

JustAnotherPoster00 · 28/06/2026 13:57

Of course you did, the internet is definitely somewhere where people aren’t making shite up, I woke up on the Monday did my theory and learnt to drive after lunch, I was a fully licensed driver Tuesday morning, absolutely simple can’t believe you took so long, a whole week smh

You don’t have to believe me! But I think when you do four hours a day you learn much quicker as it’s more intensive.

PurpleLovecats · 28/06/2026 15:25

BoredZelda · 28/06/2026 14:16

And chilled on Sunday? 🤣

No I actually drove to visit my sister that weekend 😂😂

chocoluv · 28/06/2026 15:43

How much experience do you have?

I passed my test very quickly because I had a mum and dad that both drove plus I am a gamer and so has lots of gaming driving experience as well as good hand/eye coordination, reflexes etc

My friend on the other hand didn’t have patents that’s drove, nor was she a gamer etc and so her only experience of the roads were buses which isn’t really helpful.

I think you’d get loads of experience and it will be amazing but whether you’re ready to take your test would completely depend on you as a learner.

Why not have a couple of proper lessons, go to hers for the week to gain confidence and more experience and then perhaps have another proper lesson to make sure that you are doing the things examiners want to see.

chocoluv · 28/06/2026 15:44

BoredZelda · 28/06/2026 14:16

And chilled on Sunday? 🤣

😂😂😂👏👏👏

Isitevensummer · 28/06/2026 15:48

This is how I learned. It's been 40 years now and I've driven all kinds q vehicles all over the world. BUT as soon as I passed my test, I was driving every day. If you don't, you'll struggle.

Isitevensummer · 28/06/2026 15:58

ThatCyanCat · 28/06/2026 13:53

In my experience, even those courses were generally a last resort for people who had failed the practical repeatedly. Or at the very least had had some normal lessons beforehand. I think it was very very very rare for people with absolutely no experience at all to go on them and pass. Learning to drive is harder than a lot of us remember.

And presumably the friend's car has no dual controls! Terrible idea.

Nor now it was for me. I had lived in a city and didn't have anyone in the family who drove. Got a job, wanted a promotion but had to be able to drive to get it. So booked one of these courses. However it was a proper one. What made a difference was that I had cycled all over the city I lived in, and the instructor told me I had excellent road sense as a result. Passed me test on Friday of the week of the course, was in a pool car on a site visit the week after. I also had bought a car and drove to work with a colleague who lived close to me for a while for moral support.

KnewYearKnewMe · 28/06/2026 16:11

Hi OP - there certainly are intensive courses where you can learn to drive in 5 days - my DD went in one.

be sure to check if they actually guarantee a practical test at the end of the week - my DD’s did not, it was about 6 weeks after the actual course.

the website was very woolly on this and I did not think to check.

there is whole issue with getting tests these days which was not the case years ago.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 28/06/2026 16:19

I did 6 lessons (can't remember how long - 30 or 60 minutes?) over the space of a few weeks then passed my test.

No practice in between, we only had XH's work car which wasn't insured with me as a learner.

I only learned in an automatic though, and with a professional instructor.

I will say I was always a very interested and alert passenger, so I felt I already had good road/traffic sense and just needed to master control of the car.

That was decades ago and I have an unblemished driving record.

GardenCovent · 28/06/2026 16:22

Have you actually booked your practical test without having driven?

outerspacepotato · 28/06/2026 16:29

If you get in plenty of driving every day, I think you'd be ready if you're good at it. Some people learn quickly, some take longer, but a week of driving a couple hours a day and unless you were still jerking and hitting curbs and stuff, you'd probably pass.

A standard shift will be harder though.

See how you do at your friend's. Make signalling automatic. Leave good following distance. Don't scream at dumb people doing dumb things on the road.

eeemes · 28/06/2026 17:05

DC did an intensive course over 6 days and passed first time. It was 34 hours of instruction with a very experienced instructor. They had previously only driven a few times around car parks at night with DH. I think my advice would be to go with your friend for the week, but then book a few professional lessons (unless your friend is an actual instructor). I’ve been driving for many years, but wouldn’t suggest I could teach someone from scratch in a week. It can be done though, if you have a natural aptitude and a good instructor.

WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma · 28/06/2026 17:14

Is your friends car automatic?

I learned as an adult so I did automatic lessons because I wanted to buy an EV when I passed. DH has a manual licence but the second car he owned was an auto and he's had autos ever since.

Manual licences are useful if you think you'll be buying a manual car or if you're a teen whose mum and dad are buying them a cheap first car. Everyone else just go auto from the start, less faff.

MabelAnderson · 28/06/2026 17:19

tttigress · 28/06/2026 14:39

I mean it is theoretically possible. I know when I was 17 in the 1990s I had a few friends at school who went from nothing to passing their test in 18-20 hours of lessons.

I took my first test at 25 hours which was probably normal at that time, failed twice and passed on the 3rd time probably with 45 hours of experience which was considered a bit slow.

I would question if the tests are getting harder or if instructors are taking it a bit slow now though. From talking to younger people it is almost like you are very advanced if you take a test with 40 hours of lessons.

My friends tended to have longer lessons, an hour and a half or two hours. Many of them were driving after 12-15 lessons, but that would have been 18-30 hours of lessons. DD’s friends all seem to have needed more lessons than that before they pass. I think the test is harder than it used to be, and building experience over time, letting it embed, having lessons through different seasons, all that helps people be better drivers.
Op you could learn the basics, especially if you learn this sort of thing quickly or you cycle everywhere at the moment, but it’s unlikely you would get anywhere near enough experience to be safe on the road. You could learn how to set off, drive, when to change gear, hill starts. You would then need to have some professional lessons as you need to follow sat nav, do manoeuvres , it takes time relax into it. How old are you ?

NoMoreLifts · 28/06/2026 17:20

KittiesInsane · 28/06/2026 13:05

How to get your car out of a motorway lane when the engine won't start.

Umm, I've driven over 30 years without incident and that would stump me. What do you mean?

This happened to me. A belt broke in the engine (cam? timing? Car was ruined). Thankfully I'd been driving a long time AND there was a hard shoulder.

Jc2001 · 28/06/2026 17:22

Meadowfinch · 28/06/2026 12:42

Being a competent driver involves a lot more than knowing how to make the car go where you want it.

You need experience of a range of conditions. You need to constantly be looking four cars ahead, and in side turnings. Looking for the motorbike you can hear but not see.

How to get your car out of a motorway lane when the engine won't start. How to drive on snow, how to regain control on ice. How to handle a flooded road or thick fog or low sun.

An intensive week isn't going to teach you any of that even if your friend is the best instructor in the world. You need to develop road sense.

Most of that stuff you learn after you pass though. Intensive courses aren't for everyone but they can work.

Having said that, just going out with your friend everyday for a week is unlikely to work

scoopsahoooy · 28/06/2026 17:28

It's theoretically possible yeah. But I did an intensive course over 4 days and failed, and that was having had (a few years earlier, granted) quite a few lessons already. When I re-did it 'properly' I passed with 1 minor.

latetothefisting · 28/06/2026 17:30

KittiesInsane · 28/06/2026 13:05

How to get your car out of a motorway lane when the engine won't start.

Umm, I've driven over 30 years without incident and that would stump me. What do you mean?

yeah, it doesn't make any sense!

I could hazard a guess about what to do if the poster had said 'when your engine cuts out' (hazards on, try and get to the hard shoulder with the speed you've built up) but if your engine wouldn't start at all how did you get to the motorway in the first place?

The only scenario I can think of if there was an accident and the whole motorway came to a standstill, you turned your engine off while you were waiting and when the crash cleared it wouldn't start - but in that scenario all you could do is ask people to help push it to the hard shoulder, and you don't need a driving license to do that because you won't be driving!

daleylama · 28/06/2026 17:35

Swiftie1878 · 28/06/2026 12:45

Even if it could be done, it SHOULDN’T be done. You would be an absolute liability when let loose on the road on your own.

100%. You'll be a danger to yourself and the rest of us

Yellowshirt · 28/06/2026 19:41

BerryTwister · 28/06/2026 15:21

@Yellowshirt was this a long time ago? Because these days it takes about 6 months to get a test.

I did it in July 1999.

Waitfortheguinness · 01/07/2026 12:56

You can learn how to operate a car in no time, yes.
but learning how to drive takes weeks of practice

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