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AIBU to think I could learn to drive in a week?

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HamJam1 · 28/06/2026 12:31

Passed my theory but I still cant drive, dont have access to a car and cant afford lessons, practical js booked. Wooo!
A friend has suggested i go spend a week at her place where she can teach me, how possible do you think it is to learn to drive a manual car in a week? Is that insane? I dont even know how to turn an engine on

OP posts:
VickyEadie · 28/06/2026 14:09

Screamingabdabz · 28/06/2026 13:44

My friend’s dd did this. Took a week’s intensive course and passed first time. They bought her a car but she had three accidents within a month and completely lost her confidence. She hadn’t had enough hours on the road gaining proper experience. She is now going to be one of those nervous drivers who is a danger to other people.

That's very much the point - it's getting in enough hours of decent driving experience AFTER a good instructor has taught you the basics at a pace they (because they're experienced) judge is right for you. I'd had about 20 lessons before I went out with my (then) husband and we started with driving local routes and graduated up to longer drives. He was brilliant at it - really calm (I would be crap at doing this with a learner).

Also, the test isn't simply about knowing the key test manoeuvres - each test is unique because you don't know what the roads are going to throw at you and you really do need quite a bit of experience to read the situations quickly and react appropriately.

IlovetoKnitandRead · 28/06/2026 14:10

I did an intensive course over 4 days in an automatic and then passed my test at the end. I had had previous driving lessons about 5 years before that. It was exhausting and I don’t think I would have coped if I hadn’t driven before.

HamJam1 · 28/06/2026 14:14

Im looking at Blackpool now. Why are there so many intensive courses there in particular?

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Cuntydumpty · 28/06/2026 14:16

SurreySenMum26 · 28/06/2026 14:07

Yes because people do intensive courses. Dh passed aged 17 in a week.

I must say he has never had a crash but gets far to close and undertakes. Doesn't seem to grasp braking distance or that others motorway uses don't expect to be cut up on the inside.

He is a man so of course could stop a car in five metres at 70mph🙄 I just don't think he has ever learned this

He sounds like an absolute arsehole

VickyEadie · 28/06/2026 14:16

HamJam1 · 28/06/2026 14:14

Im looking at Blackpool now. Why are there so many intensive courses there in particular?

Why are you in such a rush? Why don't you take lessons properly?

BoredZelda · 28/06/2026 14:16

PurpleLovecats · 28/06/2026 13:19

I did! I had 4 hrs of lessons Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and took my test on the Friday.

And chilled on Sunday? 🤣

SandwichesAndGingerBeer · 28/06/2026 14:20

JustAnotherPoster00 · 28/06/2026 13:57

Of course you did, the internet is definitely somewhere where people aren’t making shite up, I woke up on the Monday did my theory and learnt to drive after lunch, I was a fully licensed driver Tuesday morning, absolutely simple can’t believe you took so long, a whole week smh

I don’t know about now but 20 years ago when I learned week-long intensive courses were a thing. If you were a quick learner it was definitely possible to learn enough to pass the driving exam, with a proper instructor of course.

But if you’re doing it this way, you should do the pass plus afterwards and definitely make sure you have access to a car to embed what you’ve learned.

somanychristmaslights · 28/06/2026 14:21

Who’s car are you planning on taking the test in??

Wallywobbles · 28/06/2026 14:24

If you can do 1000kms in a week then you’ll have a reasonable amount of experience. My kids had to do 3000 km before they could take their tests in France.
There is no shortcut to experience.

Femalemachinest · 28/06/2026 14:36

Do you have a car? How are you planning on taking your test without a car?
Driving is expensive, do you have the money to run a car?

tttigress · 28/06/2026 14:39

I mean it is theoretically possible. I know when I was 17 in the 1990s I had a few friends at school who went from nothing to passing their test in 18-20 hours of lessons.

I took my first test at 25 hours which was probably normal at that time, failed twice and passed on the 3rd time probably with 45 hours of experience which was considered a bit slow.

I would question if the tests are getting harder or if instructors are taking it a bit slow now though. From talking to younger people it is almost like you are very advanced if you take a test with 40 hours of lessons.

pinefalls · 28/06/2026 14:45

You don’t need to learn to drive in a week, no one could do that, you need to learn to pass the test, two very different things.

The fact you’re considering suggests you’re feeling confident? I think confidence goes a long way with driving. I’m not sure it’s possible tbh unless your friend is a driving instructor/examiner, but if you’re both committed and look up the test system rigorously (maybe use AI) it might get you a good way along.

VickyEadie · 28/06/2026 14:45

tttigress · 28/06/2026 14:39

I mean it is theoretically possible. I know when I was 17 in the 1990s I had a few friends at school who went from nothing to passing their test in 18-20 hours of lessons.

I took my first test at 25 hours which was probably normal at that time, failed twice and passed on the 3rd time probably with 45 hours of experience which was considered a bit slow.

I would question if the tests are getting harder or if instructors are taking it a bit slow now though. From talking to younger people it is almost like you are very advanced if you take a test with 40 hours of lessons.

I think more experience is very much needed now than when I learned to drive (in West London) in 1990. The roads are much busier everywhere and - this a crucial and relevant point - there are a lot more inexperienced, unlicensed and uninsured drivers on the roads. Being sufficiently road aware takes a lot of learner hours.

VickyEadie · 28/06/2026 14:47

pinefalls · 28/06/2026 14:45

You don’t need to learn to drive in a week, no one could do that, you need to learn to pass the test, two very different things.

The fact you’re considering suggests you’re feeling confident? I think confidence goes a long way with driving. I’m not sure it’s possible tbh unless your friend is a driving instructor/examiner, but if you’re both committed and look up the test system rigorously (maybe use AI) it might get you a good way along.

"Confidence" from someone who's never started a car is - in my opinion - a weakness. "How hard can it be?" is arrogance, not confidence.

pinefalls · 28/06/2026 14:49

VickyEadie · 28/06/2026 14:47

"Confidence" from someone who's never started a car is - in my opinion - a weakness. "How hard can it be?" is arrogance, not confidence.

Disagree, my husband was a confident learner and went on to be a confident and impeccable driver who went on to drive professionally. One of the most dangerous traits in a driver in nervousness in my experience. There’s a difference between cocky and confidence.

pinefalls · 28/06/2026 14:50

I don’t know why people are using intensive courses as evidence it can work, unless OP is about to drip feed that her friend is an instructor/examiner it will not be the same thing. Intensive courses will have clear curriculums, know the test process inside out, everyone knows just knowing how to drive doesn’t pass a test.

Kaidaia · 28/06/2026 15:00

This would work if you already had lessons and wanted an intensive week before your test. You won’t be test ready in week

Isobel201 · 28/06/2026 15:03

If you're not bothered about what car you have at the end you could learn in an automatic instead - more and more cars are becoming electric/hybrid, so more will be automatic anyway. You won't learn to drive and pass in a week, but you could learn quicker in an automatic as there is no gears and clutch to worry about.

Coconutter24 · 28/06/2026 15:12

FieldsOfFields · 28/06/2026 13:52

that is what dual controls are for, the instructor can control the car all from the passenger side. There are loads of examples of them slamming on brakes at traffic lights or roundabouts on their Youtube channels when teaching people to drive. It is the safest way to learn to drive.

You can hire dual control cars to teach your child to drive in. The DVSA recommends 45 hours of driving instructor lessons because you need to be put in a lot of meeting situations, junctions, reading signs, road markings etc. Driving locally is one thing, my children had 2 hour lessons which means you can drive quite a distance. Plus some driving test routes don't include any speed above a 40 and some don't even cover slip roads onto dual carriageways etc. That is why the lessons parts are important because they have time to cover that stuff.

I understand what you’re saying about dual controls but it still doesn’t mean every single learner will crash without them, of course some may but not all

UhOhRatPoo · 28/06/2026 15:15

Isobel201 · 28/06/2026 15:03

If you're not bothered about what car you have at the end you could learn in an automatic instead - more and more cars are becoming electric/hybrid, so more will be automatic anyway. You won't learn to drive and pass in a week, but you could learn quicker in an automatic as there is no gears and clutch to worry about.

I was coming on to say this. I don’t see any need to learn manual any more unless you already have a manual car.

UhOhRatPoo · 28/06/2026 15:17

KittiesInsane · 28/06/2026 13:05

How to get your car out of a motorway lane when the engine won't start.

Umm, I've driven over 30 years without incident and that would stump me. What do you mean?

I’m glad you asked this, as I had the same reaction and also have decades of safe driving under my belt. What do you mean @Meadowfinch ?

Zanatdy · 28/06/2026 15:18

Not a chance. I did a course, 3hrs a day for 2wks and passed but that was with a proper instructor.

Yellowshirt · 28/06/2026 15:19

I did it in a week with a proper instructor.
I failed my first test and took it again the next day.
You would be absolutely mad to do it without dual controls. The damage to the car including the clutch could be very expensive. I also think they could void your insurance if you had an accident

BerryTwister · 28/06/2026 15:20

When is your test booked for OP?

BerryTwister · 28/06/2026 15:21

Yellowshirt · 28/06/2026 15:19

I did it in a week with a proper instructor.
I failed my first test and took it again the next day.
You would be absolutely mad to do it without dual controls. The damage to the car including the clutch could be very expensive. I also think they could void your insurance if you had an accident

@Yellowshirt was this a long time ago? Because these days it takes about 6 months to get a test.

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