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AIBU to think school closures ignore parents' work commitments?

534 replies

OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

OP posts:
Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 12:20

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:17

By that argument, NOTHING should be used as childcare in case it closes at a moment's notice!

Hold on, you expect outside sports clubs and music teachers who are paid to go and do lessons after-school to be childcare and never cancel? They offer a educational service not chiodcare.For god sake parent, they are your responsibility. It's parent with your attitude that make companies stop going into schools because parents expect more than they offer which is education

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:21

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 10:09

That's but what we are talking about. OP and others expect the school to make working parents a consideration when closing the school. That's not going to happen because the people who use the school, staff and pupils are the only priority.

No she didn't, she was just having a moan about how the closure was communicated.

As other people have said, during COVID school were asked to consider working parents. If we have an increase in these weather situations and schools are unable to get a/c then I can forsee schools only being open for keyworkers.
It sounds like OP is a surgeon thus a KW

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:22

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 12:20

Hold on, you expect outside sports clubs and music teachers who are paid to go and do lessons after-school to be childcare and never cancel? They offer a educational service not chiodcare.For god sake parent, they are your responsibility. It's parent with your attitude that make companies stop going into schools because parents expect more than they offer which is education

Edited

No, you said that wrap around care shouldn't be used as child care because it may close at a moments notice.
Maybe I misunderstood your point?

Oldwmn · 28/06/2026 12:28

OhNoItsThePinkyPonk · 23/06/2026 13:48

AIBU to think that the school doesn’t take much account of parents’ need to work? Primary school have just announced they won’t be opening for the rest of the week, but it’s OK because they’ll be sending us online work for us to do with the children, and whilst they are sorry they have had to cancel sports day we shouldn’t be too upset because they’ve have rescheduled it for a couple of weeks time. Like, I totally get they have to put the safety of the children first and if it’s too hot it’s too hot, but what do they think I’m
doing when the kids are at school, preparing beautiful dinners, ensuring the craft box is topped up, pining wistfully for the moment they come home? FFS, my job obviously comes second to my children and of course I’ll cancel planned surgeries and clinics where I need to. It’s not the emergency that bothers me, it’s the blasé way in which it’s communicated as though it’s a
minor inconvenience, not a major major f’ing headache with serious second and third order effects.

phew, that’s better. Now to go and get the little darlings…

Ah, the old 'teachers as babysitters' argument rears it's ugly head again.

Oldwmn · 28/06/2026 12:30

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 23/06/2026 14:02

Schools will be criticised for staying open and for closing. They really can't win.

This is spot on. Whatever they do, they will be wrong.

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 13:37

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 11:55

No that's called wrap around care. School clubs are more than often run by outside sports clubs and music teachers who come once or twice a week and charge parents for their services. All if which can be cancelled at a moments notice so shouldn't be used as childcare.

After school club it's called . The kids are picked up ( from various schools) and take to ASC.

They don't call the after school club wraparound

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:08

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:22

No, you said that wrap around care shouldn't be used as child care because it may close at a moments notice.
Maybe I misunderstood your point?

You entirely missed my point. Maybe read it properly next time

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:10

Thechaseison71 · 28/06/2026 13:37

After school club it's called . The kids are picked up ( from various schools) and take to ASC.

They don't call the after school club wraparound

I never said they did. I was actually pointing out the difference between the two

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:17

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:21

No she didn't, she was just having a moan about how the closure was communicated.

As other people have said, during COVID school were asked to consider working parents. If we have an increase in these weather situations and schools are unable to get a/c then I can forsee schools only being open for keyworkers.
It sounds like OP is a surgeon thus a KW

Schools won't only be open for key workers again, that is not an option as everyone needs an education . The school communicated it perfectly, they said the school was closing due to the heat. This is for the benefit of kids and staff. Or are teachers not entitled to safe work environments? I see they have to only do what works for working parents even when it puts them as risk? 😡 Teachers have a right to a safe working environment no matter what working parents think.

VividDeer · 28/06/2026 14:40

"Schools won't only be open for key workers again""

Well ours was!

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:58

VividDeer · 28/06/2026 14:40

"Schools won't only be open for key workers again""

Well ours was!

During the heatwave? No other schools have given the option of picking them up early and kept others stay because the building won't be full and can move to cooler parts of the school. This applied to everybody not just keyworkers.

VividDeer · 28/06/2026 15:23

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:58

During the heatwave? No other schools have given the option of picking them up early and kept others stay because the building won't be full and can move to cooler parts of the school. This applied to everybody not just keyworkers.

You are applying your experience to the whole of the UK. Our school was open to KEY WORKER parents

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 15:31

VividDeer · 28/06/2026 15:23

You are applying your experience to the whole of the UK. Our school was open to KEY WORKER parents

And any other parent who wanted to keep their child in school during the heatwave. There fixed it for you. A quick Google tells me key workers weren't prioritised during the heatwave and neither should they be. COVID has proved only prioriting keyworkers was wrong.

ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:34

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:08

You entirely missed my point. Maybe read it properly next time

That's how I read it too though. You are both patronising and unclear. Lovely.

Edit - there are several schools open to key workers here.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/school-closures-full-list-today-uk-heatwave-b3002678.html

I can Google too.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 15:37

ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:34

That's how I read it too though. You are both patronising and unclear. Lovely.

Edit - there are several schools open to key workers here.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/school-closures-full-list-today-uk-heatwave-b3002678.html

I can Google too.

Edited

I was responding to another poster. If this poster had read the post I was responding to the post would have made sense .

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 15:43

ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:34

That's how I read it too though. You are both patronising and unclear. Lovely.

Edit - there are several schools open to key workers here.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/school-closures-full-list-today-uk-heatwave-b3002678.html

I can Google too.

Edited

Yes options to pick up early. No mention of keyworkers only

ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:45

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 15:43

Yes options to pick up early. No mention of keyworkers only

Sigh. There is!!

  • "St John's C.E. V.C. Primary School - Clifton, closed on Wednesday and Thursday afternoons but still open for children of key workers
ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:46

I would wager if there is one or two in that select sample there were others.

VividDeer · 28/06/2026 16:05

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Wingingit73 · 28/06/2026 16:18

School is not childcare.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 16:23

ConverselyAttired · 28/06/2026 15:45

Sigh. There is!!

  • "St John's C.E. V.C. Primary School - Clifton, closed on Wednesday and Thursday afternoons but still open for children of key workers
Edited

That's one school. If was a parent at that school I would be making a complaint. Keyworkers children should not get priority over other chiidren.

BillyBites · 29/06/2026 09:30

IIRC, during Covid, didn't virtually everyone qualify as a Key Worker? Some schools had almost full classes once you factored in vulnerable kids too,

Thechaseison71 · 29/06/2026 11:10

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 28/06/2026 14:10

I never said they did. I was actually pointing out the difference between the two

You said after school clubs were for sports and whatnot. The ones I'm talking about are for childcare

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 29/06/2026 12:12

Thechaseison71 · 29/06/2026 11:10

You said after school clubs were for sports and whatnot. The ones I'm talking about are for childcare

I think you need to go back and read the post I was replying to.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 29/06/2026 12:51

Plus after school wrap around which is child care, not after school clubs which is sport etc. After school wrap around care can still ask for parents to pick up without notice in an emergency like weather, illness etc because they are not the parents, they offer a service which has terms and conditions. They have every right to cancel in an emergency like a red weather warning.