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Childminder wants to close at 1pm for the rest of the week

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SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 13:32

Woke to a text from my childminder, announcing due to the weather we need to try to collect our children at 1pm for the rest of the week -530pm is the usual finish time. I’m not even a week into a new job and my husband has no leave left (mainly due to covering her annual leave). It’s not in our contract and it’s funded hours we use with her

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Sausagedog101 · 23/06/2026 16:12

FckThisShit · 23/06/2026 16:11

I'd look for another childminder, she's going to do this every time the weather is hot / cold / wet. 32 isn't that bad.

Agree!

Mightymighty · 23/06/2026 16:12

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 13:49

Lots of people have bought portable air con units over the last years.

The child minder should do the same.

mindutopia · 23/06/2026 16:13

This is exactly why we used a nursery. I cannot think of a single time in 7 years between 2 children that nursery suddenly had to close.

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:15

eurochick · 23/06/2026 14:18

I really do feel like the country has lost its mind. Yes it is hot but that is not a reason for everything to grind to a halt.

I am wfh. My husband is in the office. My child is at school. Basically we are carrying on as normal in lighter clothes with plenty of water.

I know right. It’s hot but it’s been hot before. Husband was at work today in his office with no air con, lots of glass few opening windows. Later in the week l will go to where l work which is Victorian no air con and cracks in the wall so thick l can fit my finger nails in! Yeah it won’t be super comfortable. This is why it’s called work

Im trying not to be outing but the kind of work we both do does impact on others and our colleagues if we don’t do it. Think mental health / police / probation type jobs.

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sittingonabeach · 23/06/2026 16:16

@mindutopia but other posters have said their nurseries have closed so that isn’t fail safe either

Cheese55 · 23/06/2026 16:16

What happens if it snows!

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 16:17

Mightymighty · 23/06/2026 16:12

The child minder should do the same.

Maybe she cant afford one...

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:18

sittingonabeach · 23/06/2026 16:16

@mindutopia but other posters have said their nurseries have closed so that isn’t fail safe either

I realised a year or so into parenting that the only guaranteed childcare was my husband or l unfortunately

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Peterdottir · 23/06/2026 16:18

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:15

I know right. It’s hot but it’s been hot before. Husband was at work today in his office with no air con, lots of glass few opening windows. Later in the week l will go to where l work which is Victorian no air con and cracks in the wall so thick l can fit my finger nails in! Yeah it won’t be super comfortable. This is why it’s called work

Im trying not to be outing but the kind of work we both do does impact on others and our colleagues if we don’t do it. Think mental health / police / probation type jobs.

OP assuming the CM has an idea of the type of work you both do (and that you are in a new job) then you can refer to that and say as you know due to the type of work we both do it isn't easy for us to change arrangements on such short notice.

She has said she would like people to try and collect early but you can say unfortunately we won't be able to do it this week due to existing commitments.

mrsbowes · 23/06/2026 16:18

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:06

Thanks for the insights and perspective. We are well prepared with shorts / t shirts, hats, sunglasses, sun tan lotion, cold drinks, sandwich/salad lunches etc

I will bear in mind the funded hours she will owe us. It would be 13.5 hours per child for this week alone and the school holidays aren’t far away

She might not owe you any hours. In my LA she wouldn't owe hours.

Dokushozanmai · 23/06/2026 16:19

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 15:56

Good for them but the childminder can do whatever she wants, if she wants to shut at 1pm in a red warning she can.

32 degrees isn’t a red warning. Warnings are variable around the country - it’s 35 degrees here and amber so everyone is carrying on as usual.

mrsbowes · 23/06/2026 16:21

Excited101 · 23/06/2026 16:08

Totally irrelevant to the thread but…

As an occasional event with parents permission it’s of course absolutely fine and no different to a play date anywhere else. My DBS covers me for care in my own home.

A DBS doesn't 'cover' you for anything.
It's different to a playdate if you are being paid to care for children in your own home.

PunishmentSnart · 23/06/2026 16:21

Are you in an area with a red alert @SweatySpider321 ?

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:21

Dokushozanmai · 23/06/2026 16:19

32 degrees isn’t a red warning. Warnings are variable around the country - it’s 35 degrees here and amber so everyone is carrying on as usual.

This. I just checked BBC weather and it’s still showing 32 for our area tomorrow and lower on other days

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FckThisShit · 23/06/2026 16:22

PunishmentSnart · 23/06/2026 16:21

Are you in an area with a red alert @SweatySpider321 ?

If it's 32 I doubt it. It's 36 at mine and we're amber. Down south at my families area it's red and 39.

Mightymighty · 23/06/2026 16:25

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 16:17

Maybe she cant afford one...

She agreed to provide a service. The parents have an obligation to their employer. Maybe the parents can’t afford to take the afternoon off.

jibjibb · 23/06/2026 16:28

Mightymighty · 23/06/2026 16:25

She agreed to provide a service. The parents have an obligation to their employer. Maybe the parents can’t afford to take the afternoon off.

Parents problem.

Wre · 23/06/2026 16:29

Does she have her own dc that could push her over numbers if at home?

Dollymylove · 23/06/2026 16:31

laurini · 23/06/2026 13:47

YANBU. Unless she has a good reason why her house is particularly unsuitable then she should just do her job as normal like everyone else has to do.

If her house is her place of work it has to be suitable for all eventualities. Imagine if everyone closed down because of a bit of hot weather. The whole world would collapse

sittingonabeach · 23/06/2026 16:34

Didn’t think funded hours cover school holidays

SweetnsourNZ · 23/06/2026 16:35

Mylifeisprettyshitrightnow · 23/06/2026 13:54

Ask her why she can't just get paddling pool and water play out in the shade, or keep the kids inside with a fan on and cold drinks? That's what everyone else will do. Otherwise it's not "safe" for them to be at home either, surely.

Don't you have a 1 to 1 policy when dealing with preschoolers and water in the UK?

FckThisShit · 23/06/2026 16:35

sittingonabeach · 23/06/2026 16:34

Didn’t think funded hours cover school holidays

They can be used however you want. Some nurseries stretch the funds, others don't. Dds nursery stretched it for 50 weeks.

sittingonabeach · 23/06/2026 16:36

Many places are closing/reduced hours, encouraging WFH. Most of our infrastructure is not built for the high temperatures we are having. Most houses are built for colder climates than we have at the moment. Many countries have reduced openings etc in the hottest part of the afternoon

SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:38

PunishmentSnart · 23/06/2026 16:21

Are you in an area with a red alert @SweatySpider321 ?

No

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SweatySpider321 · 23/06/2026 16:38

FckThisShit · 23/06/2026 16:35

They can be used however you want. Some nurseries stretch the funds, others don't. Dds nursery stretched it for 50 weeks.

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