Maybe.
In an ideal world after a lottery win my mother in law would move into an annexe in the garden. Her care needs arent great and with close family support we would be able to do it.
However distance, and my work and family commitments mean it isn't doable. Its not a question of what we are willing to sacrifice because there isnt a sacrifice to be made. We own a home, we couldnt afford the rent in mil area, nor to buy. Especially with reduced wages due to caring. Mil is council, and cant move county (we asked!).
We cant afford much private care for her, neither can she. And the whole basis of a care package from the council would be that we would still need to massively contribute. The food shop is only one aspect, we get regular calls from the carers with reasonable requests. When she had temporary care while recovering from a steoke , the extra enhanced care, its super rarem youre lucky to get it care package had massive gaps in it eg any task that might take more than a few min
Currently we are driving over at least monthly but financially its not doable for us long term.
The system is completely propped by unpaid carers.
I wonder what would happen if she had no one . What happens to all the tasks that arent in your 2x30 min call like throwing out food in the fridge, bigger cleaning jobs, buying laundry powder, sorting out banking etc to those people. I suspect what happens is that they dont get done and the person deteriorating into care homes