I’m really quite shocked and upset by how my husband has acted today and as the title suggests… need some perspective and if I’m overreacting?
Husband isn’t very well so I took my son out this morning whilst daughter was in a class so he could have some down time at home. I then also took the kids to a party 3:30pm and was meant to be 6:30pm finish but kids were playing nicely and grown ups chatting… I text to say I would probably leave at 7:30pm and then put my phone down and chatting… then again looked at my phone and it was 8:15pm so I text him to say we were leaving. (Kids had been fed, had nothing to get home for).
As I came through the door he didn’t come to see the kids and I said hello and he said hi back, I could tell in his tone he was annoyed so I asked what was wrong and he said he didn’t expect me back so late and we’d left him on his own ‘all day’; despite him being ill and resting, and probably watching football all afternoon. He also said I should have text and I said I did, and I did apologise for not texting sooner but again, didn’t see what difference it made to him. He’s proceeded to then not talk to me and ignore me if I come in the room.
I made us both dinner as wanted dinner myself and it made enough for two, he helped himself without thanking me so I sat out the dining room while he went in the living room. He then went up to bed without saying anything and I said are we just leaving it like that and letting it continue to tomorrow? (Just seems sooo petty to me!) He said I shouldn’t have sat by myself and I’ve continued the argument and basically put everything on me.
I’m absolutely baffled by the whole thing !!