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AIBU To pull my son out of food tech?

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Summerishere123 · 18/06/2026 16:00

To pull my son out of food tech.
My son isn't a bad cook at home, but at school most of the dishes are costing between £5-8 to make and are inedible. We have also lost 3 containers because of kids just grabbing whichever one looks best rather than their own!
AIBU to refuse to send stuff in from now on? He is only in year 8 so we have at least another year of this shit.

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Thechaseison71 · Today 12:05

Owlbookend · Today 11:15

Maybe. I’m sure my DD’s food teachers put thought into what they choose to do. As I said, they did fruit prep skills in a different lesson. My impression is they are trying their best in obviously constrained conditions. I’m no expert, but I think learning the rubbing in method is fine.

Well 2 of my kids ( same school 12 years apart) had the buy tinned apples for crumble scenerio. Never ever had fruit prep lessons. Although DS was taught to cut up peppers etc at nursery aged 4@

Thatcannotberight · Today 12:06

sashh · Today 11:59

You are missing washing up in the right order.

So start with glasses, then cutlery, then plates.

Dry with a tea towel.

You leave the pots and pans until last. They are washed and dried using a well rung out dish cloth.

Then you clean the sink and washing up bowl.

The bowl goes on its side in the sink.

The dish cloth is placed over the tap hanging down to dry.

The tea towel is folded and hung.

Yes I went to a school run by nuns.

I silently have the vapours when DH washes up and does the glasses at some random point in the process instead of first. 😬😁

LanyardSpaghetti · Today 12:09

Thatcannotberight · Today 12:06

I silently have the vapours when DH washes up and does the glasses at some random point in the process instead of first. 😬😁

Yup - glassware first. Always.

@sashh I'm a bit disappointed there's no 'magic' new Finnish steps that I wasn't previously aware of, just additional detail of the process and a different end point. Oh, and I leave things to air dry rather than towel drying them.

SevenYellowHammers · Today 12:16

Raise your concerns but grin and bear it for another year. It will just result in DS getting detentions for not bringing ingredients. That’s how schools are nowadays. Ex secondary teacher of 25 service.

Pistacheeo · Today 12:24

Food tech is always inedible. My dc's weren't interested in eating what they'd cooked after it had been hanging around all day. It was still a useful lesson though.

Avie29 · Today 12:31

i wash out and keep my butter tubs for exactly this reason, if an old butter tub gets lost or broken im not worried, most of the things my son brings home is pretty good but at his school they now set a food tasks eg last week he had to make an italian pasta dish and they get to choose what they make (he made spaghetti and meatballs) or a few weeks ago they had a group task of bbq food and each child in his group had to bring in a different component so someone brought in the stuff to make burgers, my DS made stuffed potato skins someone else in his group made chillidogs etc which is much better than when my DD done it which was the same as many PPs (omelette, flapjack etc).
edited to add: his food tech lessons are always the last lesson of the day too so if he overruns by 15 mins it doesn’t matter too much as he wont be late till next lesson and the food isn’t hanging around all day either.

Jellycatspyjamas · Today 12:34

Owlbookend · Today 10:53

@Jellycatspyjamas yes - sorry I didn’t read your posts carefully enough. That was my mistake. Apologies.

That’s ok, there’s a fair amount of criticism on this thread.

I wonder how many folk have tried to teach the rudiments of cooking to 20 kids, making things they’ll find interesting within an hours time limit. I’m appreciative of their teachers efforts because it’s made them more interested in cooking at home, and they’re very proud of every foil packed dish they bring home.

lilkitten · Today 12:41

I'd speak to the school about the issues.

I've got cheap containers from Sainsburys (like takeaway ones, 5 for £1) and luckily our school make the cost very reasonable - they supply the more expensive ingredients, we just need flour, veg etc

sashh · Today 13:14

Thatcannotberight · Today 12:06

I silently have the vapours when DH washes up and does the glasses at some random point in the process instead of first. 😬😁

LTB.

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