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to be utterly sick of protests, marches, rallies, and riots

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NameChangeMay2026 · Yesterday 01:47

What happened today in Belfast was dreadful. Of course it was.

When Sarah Everard died, there were marches. But a day before she died, an Indian woman Sarah's age was knifed to death in the street in Leicestershire. It was an "honour" killing, I think.

Where was HER lantern on the doorstep of Downing Street? Where was HER march?

My point is, dreadful things happen every day and I am so sick and tired of news items sparking so much public rowdiness. It used to be that the media could report on current events without starting a riot. I know that we have always had riots, but they were the occasional one. And because they were not common, they helped effect change. They were a desperate measure reserved for when nothing else had helped.

Now, together with marches, rallies, and protests, society is constantly disrupted, and I am so, so sick of it. I live in a major city and I can't go anywhere without checking what march, rally, protest, or riot is happening, especially at the weekends. And they are so common that they don't help effect change anymore.

The riots are terrible. Thousands and thousands of pounds' worth of lost property in fires, injured bystanders, police calld away from other duties to attend them. And there are "professional" rabble-rousers who travel to marches, protests, and riots. It's not because they're passionate about a cause. They're just passionate about causing trouble.

I travel for work to major American cities and it's even worse over there. Another day, another riot/protest/march/rally.

They have become a feature of today's society, and I wish they would just stop.

Edit: I actually stay in more because of them. I don't go out of my hotel as much when staying in America, and I don't go to the city centre where I live as much. It's so bad when regular people are put off from walking around city centres because of all these annoying dickheads.

I think it is worse in America, and I'm tired of feeling scared to go out when there, in case I run into an uncontrolled crowd - where the police have guns, and the protestors might, depending on the state.

The burning buildings in Belfast are a disgrace. It's not the owners' fault that this happened.

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Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 12:02

JHound · Yesterday 11:43

Bu the data shows that’s not what’s happening. So yes it is “anecdote” over data.

You cannot claim that police are prioritising black and brown and people in the same world where data shows those groups are disproportionately policed.

The outcome data does not show they are being policed disproportionately to the levels of crime they commit though. If they were treated equally with regard to criminality then incarceration, stop and search etc could be even higher.

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 12:04

JHound · Yesterday 11:50

Several million black and brown people have migrated to the UK in recent years?

Yes

EasternStandard · Yesterday 12:04

hedgeknight · Yesterday 11:58

Belfast, Southampton and Southport were not protests, they were riots.

The op includes protests, marches and rallies

samthepigeon · Yesterday 12:05

OakAndIron · Yesterday 11:57

I posted earlier that the director of Migration Observatory (impartial, evidence based) had said that if you look at non-citizens who have been convicted of crime their share of convictions are higher than their share in the population. She was unable to give evidence of the immigration status of these people (as the government does not publish this) nor did she mention the crimes committed by those convicted.

There is something to be aware of. Migrants coming to the UK tend to be younger, and also tend to be male. Young men, regardless of ethnicity, are more likely to commit crimes than older men, children or women. If you compare the same gender and age of migrant men to white British men, then white British men are more likely to commit a crime. As Mark Twain said, there are lies, damned lies, and statistics.

ForSnappySwan · Yesterday 12:05

Cherriesandapples1 · Yesterday 10:15

Also appalling but I'm not going to go petrol bomb someone else's house that had nothing to do with the incident

How come you're allowed to express your anger about setting fire to homes but if anyone else tries to express their anger about the attempted beheading, they're silenced?

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 12:06

Pinkbus · Yesterday 11:54

Numbers are reducing?

Net migration - more British people are leaving, including thousands of newly qualified doctors who couldn’t get jobs in the UK.

Todayismyfavouriteday · Yesterday 12:07

TheFrendo · Yesterday 10:56

A migrant tried to hack the head off a native and you are peed off with the protests about this savagery?

What do you think would happen if the ethnicities were reversed and the crime took place in Khartoum?

I want these unwanted foreigners gone.

Absolutely. I want them gone too. The only ones who still keep defending murderers and abusers are lefties, blind or plain stupid (I won't say 'woke' because I am fed up with the word, too).

ijustwanttoworkout · Yesterday 12:07

ForSnappySwan · Yesterday 12:05

How come you're allowed to express your anger about setting fire to homes but if anyone else tries to express their anger about the attempted beheading, they're silenced?

You can express anger.

you can’t go and try to kill people

samthepigeon · Yesterday 12:07

Passingthrough123 · Yesterday 11:50

The right to protest is a bedrock of democracy. Thank god we live in a democratic society and not somewhere like Iran.

Protesting a right. Rioting is not. Cold rage, plus Musk asking why British people are putting up with stuff (and bear in mind the rhetoric in the US that it isn't safe to walk down any UK street) - people are being played.

CarbootJunction · Yesterday 12:08

I imagine Gilead is an aspirational dream for you, OP?

Jellox · Yesterday 12:09

NoisyHiker · Yesterday 11:50

Christ. Think about what you are posting please.

Pub louts are 'worse than any asylum seeker'. Even the ones who stab mums in the head with screw drivers, rape children for fun or behead people in the streets.

Really?

How many asylum seekers vs British bred men have killed women and raped children?

Considering that women are much more likely to be killed by a partner or someone they know and only 5% are killed by a stranger - then unless your family member is an asylum seeker, your husband is much more likely to kill you.

Also over 90% of all sexual abuse towards children are committed by people they know - your own husband is statistically more likely to rape your child than a stranger who happened to be an asylum seeker.

Beheadings are extremely rare and are classed as decapitation - the majority of which are committed by partners/ex partners to their wives/gfs - so unless you are dating an asylum seeker, it’s way more likely that you’ll be decapitated/beheaded by your husband than a random asylum seeker.

Fass · Yesterday 12:09

They aren't protestors, they are rioters. Protestors don't put balaclavas on and march down Streets in mobs smashing windows and entering homes and/or attempting to set fire to them. This is nothing to do with protesting.

samthepigeon · Yesterday 12:10

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 11:35

Remembering of course that several million of those brown and black people are recent immigrants.

Is there stats that say recent immigrants are more likely to be sectioned?

Walkyrie · Yesterday 12:10

Jellox · Yesterday 12:09

How many asylum seekers vs British bred men have killed women and raped children?

Considering that women are much more likely to be killed by a partner or someone they know and only 5% are killed by a stranger - then unless your family member is an asylum seeker, your husband is much more likely to kill you.

Also over 90% of all sexual abuse towards children are committed by people they know - your own husband is statistically more likely to rape your child than a stranger who happened to be an asylum seeker.

Beheadings are extremely rare and are classed as decapitation - the majority of which are committed by partners/ex partners to their wives/gfs - so unless you are dating an asylum seeker, it’s way more likely that you’ll be decapitated/beheaded by your husband than a random asylum seeker.

It’s also more likely you’ll be run over by a car than murdered. Shall we just stop focussing on murder and instead on road traffic collisions?

Tabarnak · Yesterday 12:11

NameChangeMay2026 · Yesterday 08:57

So why the heck is there an anti-immigration march in my town this weekend, then?

And the government will just sneak more immigrants back in some way, because we're in desperate need of them due to our birth rate being so low.

So why the heck is there an anti-immigration march in my town this weekend, then?

Because the Right, Reform, the far-right are whipping up outrage based on lies and misinformation.

And because the general public are bombarded with misinformation via social media, believe it all and lose the difference between facts and prejudice.

You yourself have done it: You assumed there had been a march for Sarah Everard - it was a beautiful vigil , albeit with a big attendance. Princess Katherine attended.

And you continued to believe / state that immigration is increasing,

Cailleach1 · Yesterday 12:13

Jellox · Yesterday 09:42

No one is intentionally bringing in murders and rapists - you do realise that don’t you?

Unfortunately, men are the problem and men can be dangerous regardless of race, religion or nationality.

If known convicted criminals were being brought into this country, then I would understand why people are protesting.
But they’re not, so the protests are idiotic and an excuse to be racist.

The men who saved the man in Belfast were immigrants too, so you cannot imply that it’s immigration that’s the issue.

The Belfast attacker was not born in this country - it caused riots.
Digwa was born into this country - yet it still caused riots.
Alina Burns was born in this country - yet there have been no protests/riots over it.

@Jellox ‘The men who saved the man in Belfast were immigrants too, so you cannot imply that it’s immigration that’s the issue.’

Just wondering about this. Do you mean the chappie with the hurley stick who tried to whack the perpetrator off the victim?

His name is reported to be Maitiu Mag Tighearnan. I am just wondering where he had immigrated from with his very Irish name.

Clavinova · Yesterday 12:13

samthepigeon · Yesterday 12:05

There is something to be aware of. Migrants coming to the UK tend to be younger, and also tend to be male. Young men, regardless of ethnicity, are more likely to commit crimes than older men, children or women. If you compare the same gender and age of migrant men to white British men, then white British men are more likely to commit a crime. As Mark Twain said, there are lies, damned lies, and statistics.

If you compare the same gender and age of migrant men to white British men, then white British men are more likely to commit a crime. As Mark Twain said, there are lies, damned lies, and statistics.

There is no official UK government data that can definitively confirm or disprove this statement. The Ministry of Justice does not routinely track or record criminal offences by specific immigration status, making it impossible to directly compare the offending rates of migrant men and white British men.

Cherriesandapples1 · Yesterday 12:13

ForSnappySwan · Yesterday 12:05

How come you're allowed to express your anger about setting fire to homes but if anyone else tries to express their anger about the attempted beheading, they're silenced?

I'm happy for people to express their anger at the attempted beheading. That why I said it was also appalling. At what point did I silence you?
I merely pointed out I can think about attempted beheading is appalling and setting fire to people's homes that had nothing to do with the incident is appalling
Expressing anger through mass riot where innocent people are injured, homes burnt down, people could have been killed is not an acceptable reaction
Feel free to peacefully protest, vote for the political parties you agree with, email your MP, talk about it online. But violence against the innocent is disgusting

EasternStandard · Yesterday 12:14

Cailleach1 · Yesterday 12:13

@Jellox ‘The men who saved the man in Belfast were immigrants too, so you cannot imply that it’s immigration that’s the issue.’

Just wondering about this. Do you mean the chappie with the hurley stick who tried to whack the perpetrator off the victim?

His name is reported to be Maitiu Mag Tighearnan. I am just wondering where he had immigrated from with his very Irish name.

@Jelloxwho are you talking about?

Jellox · Yesterday 12:14

Todayismyfavouriteday · Yesterday 12:07

Absolutely. I want them gone too. The only ones who still keep defending murderers and abusers are lefties, blind or plain stupid (I won't say 'woke' because I am fed up with the word, too).

Who is defending murders or abusers?

Why is that the go-to for people like you.
Do you think it’s a way to silence us or something?

The majority of the men that are rioting and starting fires will have criminal convictions for violence against women and children.

If you support these men, then you are also supporting abusers.

We don’t want violence from men who weren’t born in this country.
And we don’t want violence from men who were born in this country.

Why is that so difficult for you to understand.

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 12:15

ijustwanttoworkout · Yesterday 11:43

Okay but if you’ll condemn that you need to condemn the violence seen last night.

I condemn violence regardless of the group. But me condemning it will do little good if the government continues to ignore people’s concerns and favour certain groups.

What was Labour’s big announcement this morning? In the face of public concern over immigration, a youth unemployment crisis and the revelation that scores of vape shops have been granted the right to sponsor skilled worker visas, they have announced that we, the taxpayers, should fund visa costs for businesses to bring in more immigrants.

Persephonia1966 · Yesterday 12:15

Walkyrie · Yesterday 12:01

Is McGregor a loyalist as he seems to be leading the charge for immigrant removal? I’ve heard repeatedly this is a loyalist thing so just checking.

In the North of Ireland it's the case the rioting seems to be happen mostly in loyalist areas. McGregor isnt Northern Irish though- in the rest of Ireland the anti-migrant sentiments aren't tied to sectarian splits because thats not really a thing. He's just Irish. This led to a confusing moment a few years ago when anti-immigrant protesters from the South of Ireland and anti-immigrant protesters from the North tried meeting up but they had the wrong flags.
McGregor is also a man who violently rapes women but it's cool cos he's white. And for the people saying "but there isn't anything we can do there because he's a citizen" we could put men like that in prison or at least stop public ally celebrating them and showering them with money. Or, in the case of Musk, supporting their political ambitions.

sittingonabeach · Yesterday 12:15

@Walkyrie but many people are just concentrating on certain murders and certain rapes. If all immigration was stopped, if all young males from Sudan and similar countries were deported would all violent crime stop. The fact that a number of these rioters have form for DV, will their partners feel safer?

PigletAdventures · Yesterday 12:16

I'm at the same stage, I'm thoroughly sick of it all. Sick of the murders. Sick of the protests. Sick of this country and its inability to get it's house in order. I'd go so far as to say, we are now ungovernable and it's inching ever closer to complete lawlessness. Neither side is capable of listening to the other, childish insults are bandied around like sweets, and society is utterly divided and broken. All whilst the politicians are sat on their fat pay checks in their nice leafy suburbs, far removed from any of this chaos and muttering meaningless soundbites about ' keeping calm' and maintaining a ' cool head'. We need a general election, king Charles needs to call for a dissolution of parliament and we need radical political change. What that looks like who knows, but THIS is not working and ordinary people are suffering the consequences.

Walkyrie · Yesterday 12:16

Dandelionsalad · Yesterday 12:15

I condemn violence regardless of the group. But me condemning it will do little good if the government continues to ignore people’s concerns and favour certain groups.

What was Labour’s big announcement this morning? In the face of public concern over immigration, a youth unemployment crisis and the revelation that scores of vape shops have been granted the right to sponsor skilled worker visas, they have announced that we, the taxpayers, should fund visa costs for businesses to bring in more immigrants.

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