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Man in a car parked outside my house all afternoon

215 replies

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 17:13

Since at least 2 pm. Terraces with on street parked so directly outside the house. He is has just been sat there all the time, engine on for half an hour then off again, presumably to stop the battery draining if he is using something electrical.

There are plenty of car parks in the area so no reason to be here. He saw my come back and go in the house so presumably its nothing to do with me, but its freaking me out a bit (and pissed me off as I had to park on another road!).

We are not on a road with shops or a school or doctors etc so no reason to be waiting there for someone for such a long time!

Worth taking the reg in case he comes back tomorrow do we think?

OP posts:
Thechaseison71 · Today 08:46

Empress13 · Today 07:33

There’s no way I would approach a strange man in a car !

What do you suppose would happen if you did?

TransportNerd · Today 09:00

This is about as ridiculous as a recent thread discussing whether to report a man for walking past a school.

Jellox · Today 09:15

I genuinely don’t know how some MNers get through the day.

This is literally a non-event.
It would barely even register with me, let alone ‘freak me out’.

I just assume that these women have nothing going on in their lives and so someone parked on their street is a massive event in their lives.

I guess they’re hoping that it’s something untoward so that they get a little excitement in their lives.

Myself and others posters have parked in residential streets before and so have thousands of other people.
It is such a normal thing to do,

Empress13 · Today 09:31

Thechaseison71 · Today 08:46

What do you suppose would happen if you did?

he could get out on the pretext of talking to her grab her push her in it happens don’t be so naive

parachutegirl · Today 12:04

I’ve got to be honest I’d have gone and asked what he was up to. It’s not normal behaviour to sit in a car for that length of time especially turning the engine on and off.

TheKitchenLady · Today 12:20

I've often sat parked up for hours if I've arrived to find a face to face meeting cancelled, but have another close by later that day. Engine on and off to keep phone & laptop charged, or to keep car cool or warm depending on time of year. For many of us, our cars are like a mobile office. We work from them in between meetings, park up to log onto MS Teams meetings etc, and don't want to pay to sit in a dingy multi-storey when we can park in a quiet side road.

Newbie8918 · Today 12:22

There are SO many reasons that he could have stopped. It’s a public street! He’s not blocking your drive. He’s clearly waiting for something/someone.
A few weeks ago, I was seeing DF in hospital miles away from my house. On the way home I needed to stop to join a remote work call. I stopped in the nearest street to wait for the call to start.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · Today 12:29

Nearly50omg · Yesterday 17:23

id go out and ask him what he’s doing and remind him running a car engine while just sat there is an offence and if he wants to do that to go and do it elsewhere not in a build up residential area

He might be a drug dealer or burglar that shoots her

Unexpectedlysinglemum · Today 12:30

parachutegirl · Today 12:04

I’ve got to be honest I’d have gone and asked what he was up to. It’s not normal behaviour to sit in a car for that length of time especially turning the engine on and off.

If you did that to me I’d tell you to get lost and stop harassing me I’m allowed to park on a public street in peace

Unexpectedlysinglemum · Today 12:30

Jellox · Today 09:15

I genuinely don’t know how some MNers get through the day.

This is literally a non-event.
It would barely even register with me, let alone ‘freak me out’.

I just assume that these women have nothing going on in their lives and so someone parked on their street is a massive event in their lives.

I guess they’re hoping that it’s something untoward so that they get a little excitement in their lives.

Myself and others posters have parked in residential streets before and so have thousands of other people.
It is such a normal thing to do,

This

CuriousCat85 · Today 12:53

Its obviously too late now but I had an uncle that had gone missing one afternoon, he was found when a woman had report him to the police for sitting outside her out for a really long period of time. Its turned out his blood sugars with his diabetes had gone off the scale and he didnt know where he was or what he was doing himself. It was that bad he had been starting to loose his eyesight and was scared to move again.
We were very thankful to that lady for reporting him and therefore finding him and he was able to get the medical help he needed.

Livpool · Today 13:06

Who cares about the kind of thing?! It wouldn’t bother me at all

FarmGirl78 · Today 13:07

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 21:57

I think its cos axe murderers are usually lactose intolerant so the request for oat milk is the giveaway.

For someone so "Norris Cole" as you've been coming across this was surprisingly funny. Thank you for springing it on us.👍🏻 I like it.

FarmGirl78 · Today 13:09

parachutegirl · Today 12:04

I’ve got to be honest I’d have gone and asked what he was up to. It’s not normal behaviour to sit in a car for that length of time especially turning the engine on and off.

But just because it's not "normal" (🙄) doesn't mean it's concerning behaviour.

ShiningforLeeBertie · Today 13:14

I do this as my job, if I ever get approached I have loads of cover stories ready so even if he was asked I doubt you would get the truth.

I dont sit there with my car idling though, and I also choose places where im less likely to be spotted by neighbours, and often I sit in the back of the car and with the tinted windows no one would ever know theres someone in there.

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