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I talk too much

52 replies

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 22:31

My marriage ended he told me to stop I did stop but talked a lot as I was distressed I can’t forgive myself for keeping talking that’s all I did my daughter told me to stop talking I did but he had enough by that point he hates it when I talk a lot I had a lot to say he’s selling the house I talked a lot about that he didn’t like it he’s a ass whole he won’t let me have my daughter I hate him I don’t love him he’s unreasonable he rolls his eyes at me when I’m upset I said I didn’t want the divorce he just said about being quiet all I did was talk a lot and he wanted a divorce he kept telling me to stop I couldn’t stop as I was so emotional

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PicknStick · 29/05/2026 22:35

You need to be with someone who appreciates who you are and how you are. He shouldn’t be telling you to stop talking all the time.

Why are you not allowed your daughter?

LadyTable · 29/05/2026 22:38

You're clearly not suited to each other as some people are 'over talkers' and some are not.

Why can't you see your DD?

PoppinjayPolly · 29/05/2026 22:41

Have you name changed? This and the way you write is familiar, apologies if not, but if so
its been going on for years!

ShepherdsBlanket · 29/05/2026 22:41

Your ex’s opinion of your talkativeness seems like a minor issue compared to you not having access to your child!

professionalcommentreader · 29/05/2026 22:42

Is this hippychick

MaCheCazzo · 29/05/2026 22:43

I’m afraid your OP does sound a bit as though you do talk without taking a breath. There must be more to this than that?

Gazelda · 29/05/2026 22:44

Where are you staying now? Where is your daughter?

needtochangesmokealarm · 29/05/2026 22:44

Adhd can make you talk a lot (thought I’d mention it) if it was a possibility and you didn’t know.

Hopefully you can work it out together regards been ok with each other and you can sort it out with your daughter

Decacaffeinatednow · 29/05/2026 22:44

How old is your daughter?

LadyTable · 29/05/2026 22:49

MaCheCazzo · 29/05/2026 22:43

I’m afraid your OP does sound a bit as though you do talk without taking a breath. There must be more to this than that?

That could just be because the OP has chosen not to use any punctuation.

So it can read as though it's all sort of 'blurted out' if that makes sense?

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 22:49

He said as I have learning difficulties she wants to live with him

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LadyTable · 29/05/2026 22:50

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 22:49

He said as I have learning difficulties she wants to live with him

And does she?

How old is she?

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 22:56

Sorry for lack of punctuation I’m still living with him as we haven’t sold the house he will fight me for my daughter he won’t let me have her

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Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 22:59

I’m going to ignore him and not let him get annoyed with my talking a lot there was a lot to say

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Decacaffeinatednow · 29/05/2026 22:59

How old is your daughter?

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 23:00

I care about my daughter I wish she could live with me

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Decacaffeinatednow · 29/05/2026 23:00

Does she want to live with you?

Purplehearts45 · 29/05/2026 23:01

She’s 11

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Hallywally · 29/05/2026 23:04

This sounds really familiar!

PrincessTiaraJones · 29/05/2026 23:06

You could be a rapper

SerendipityCat · 29/05/2026 23:08

Ah, Hippychickbbbb, it's you again. Are you actually, you know, going to engage with anyone this time, or just trauma dump again? You have so many, many threads saying the same thing in slightly different ways, and so many posters have gone above and beyond trying to help you. MNHQ themselves have tried to help you, and here we are back at square one.
I know you're unwell, but continually posting on here really isn't helping you, is it? I ask again, as I did in a previous thread, what is it you want us to do?

PurpleLovecats · 29/05/2026 23:09

You need legal advice. Your daughter’s wishes will be taken into consideration when determining custody. So if she wants 50:50 with you that might well be possible.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/05/2026 23:09

PrincessTiaraJones · 29/05/2026 23:06

You could be a rapper

What kind of person would make light of this? Ask yourself that

PrincessTiaraJones · 29/05/2026 23:10

Sorry op, for my silly rap comment it was your first post it read like lyrics to me.

please speak to the professionals who support you and your family x

PrincessTiaraJones · 29/05/2026 23:10

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/05/2026 23:09

What kind of person would make light of this? Ask yourself that

I dont know tell me.🙄🙄🙄🙄